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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia
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 Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 3:10 pm Post subject: why??????????? |
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If a guy seems interested in you, why won't he ask for your number and call you????? There's a guy I am soooooooo into at a place of business here in Korea, and the second time he saw me he reached out to hug me goodbye. Last week, we talked so much about our interests, travels, etc. He has yet to ask for my number though.  Another guy who works there just got married, and he would send text messages to a girl I know, even though he was clealy not interested. He told her from the get-go he had a girlfriend and he just got married last Sunday. So why won't my love object ask for my number???????? We talked about how we are both available last week, too. He told me to message him on cyworld, but he didn't take my number. I didn't offer it either. Shouldn't a man have to ASK for our number? And be the first to call? I just don't understand guys, I guess. Why would one who is NOT interested send texts/exchange numbers, while one who seems interested won't even ask for your number? |
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The Bobster
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 3:23 pm Post subject: |
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| Women can and should ask for a guy's phone number if they wanna talk to him. They can pick up the phone, also. It's no big deal. |
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ED209
Joined: 17 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 3:28 pm Post subject: |
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| Maybe he's just not that into guys. |
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mateomiguel
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dogbert
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: Killbox 90210
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 6:54 pm Post subject: |
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| Most men like attractive women. |
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unknown9398
Joined: 03 Nov 2006
Location: Yeongcheon, S. Korea
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 7:05 pm Post subject: Re: why??????????? |
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| princess wrote: |
| If a guy seems interested in you, why won't he ask for your number and call you????? There's a guy I am soooooooo into at a place of business here in Korea, and the second time he saw me he reached out to hug me goodbye. Last week, we talked so much about our interests, travels, etc. He has yet to ask for my number though. Another guy who works there just got married, and he would send text messages to a girl I know, even though he was clealy not interested. He told her from the get-go he had a girlfriend and he just got married last Sunday. So why won't my love object ask for my number???????? We talked about how we are both available last week, too. He told me to message him on cyworld, but he didn't take my number. I didn't offer it either. Shouldn't a man have to ASK for our number? And be the first to call? I just don't understand guys, I guess. Why would one who is NOT interested send texts/exchange numbers, while one who seems interested won't even ask for your number? |
There could be several reasons.
1) He's not that into you.
2) He's not receiving your telepathic messages.
3) He's expecting you to make the first move.
4) He has a girlfriend you don't know about.
5) He just wants to be friends.
6) He's gay.
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| Shouldn't a man have to ASK for our number? |
I can't fault you for being young and inexperienced, but in what decade are you living, Princess?  Times have changed. No one will think you're too aggressive if you ask for his number. |
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tzechuk
Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 7:13 pm Post subject: |
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Giving you a hug and a kiss goodbye doesn't mean anything, princess.
May be he is just seeing you as a naive, annoying *princess* that he is having fun with. |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 7:51 pm Post subject: |
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| tzechuk wrote: |
Giving you a hug and a kiss goodbye doesn't mean anything, princess.
May be he is just seeing you as a naive, annoying *princess* that he is having fun with. |
Well, guys usually don't behave that way with just any girl. |
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seoulsucker
Joined: 05 Mar 2006
Location: The Land of the Hesitant Cutoff
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 8:09 pm Post subject: Re: why??????????? |
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| unknown9398 wrote: |
3) He's expecting you to make the first move.
4) He has a girlfriend you don't know about. |
My vote goes for the 3/4 combo.
If you make the first move, he won't feel as guilty about boning you behind her back. |
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cangel
Joined: 19 Jun 2003
Location: Jeonju, S. Korea
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 8:33 pm Post subject: |
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Someone wrote this as a response on another thread but it seems to fit here as well:
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| I'm not gay but my boyfriend is. |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 9:39 pm Post subject: Re: why??????????? |
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| seoulsucker wrote: |
| unknown9398 wrote: |
3) He's expecting you to make the first move.
4) He has a girlfriend you don't know about. |
My vote goes for the 3/4 combo.
If you make the first move, he won't feel as guilty about boning you behind her back. |
Well, he told me he does NOT have a girlfriend and the other guys there have been honest that they have girlfriends and one of them just got married. I want to trust him. I am also his cyworld ilchon and there is no evidence of a girlfriend on there. On the other guys' pages there is. He asked me to message him on there, too, so if he did have a girlriend, she could see. |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 9:46 pm Post subject: |
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| He probably doesnt like guys, thats why he isnt asking for your number. Its also very probable, nay, 100% certain that he doesnt exist and you are making this whole thing up because you are a troll and not even female. |
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blackjack
Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Location: anyang
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 9:47 pm Post subject: |
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why don't you just ask him out? if he likes you, problem solved, if he does not, problem solved (or maybe he has no phone  sorry forgot it is korea) |
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willneverteachagain
Joined: 17 Dec 2006
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 11:13 pm Post subject: |
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| why isnt she a female? |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2007 11:40 pm Post subject: |
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| willneverteachagain wrote: |
| why isnt she a female? |
Princess is a troll.
Just think about it. She is the charicature of the worst qualities a woman can be: shrill, shallow, materialistic, stupid, jealous and spiteful. I wont comment on her appearance because internet sock puppets dont have an appearance. |
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