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Is it possible to Avoid Alcohol in Korea?
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MaestroCantus



Joined: 29 Jul 2007
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 8:14 am    Post subject: Is it possible to Avoid Alcohol in Korea? Reply with quote

Hello Everyone,

I'm considering going to Korea to teach English next year, but (unlike the majority of postings I've heard about consuming tons of alcohol) I do not enjoy getting drunk -- plus, I'd feel that drinking would make me more susceptible to being taken advantage of or even a victim of crime.

I don't have anything against a drink once in a while (maybe 1, or 2 drinks maximum), but I would prefer to avoid basing my social experiences on Alcohol.

I've heard from someone that alcohol is a large part of Korean culture, but would I be bored and lonely if I tried to avoid drinking alcohol socially?
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Tony_Balony



Joined: 12 Apr 2007

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 8:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You'll be leaned on a bit but you can avoid it.
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Tony_Balony



Joined: 12 Apr 2007

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 8:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Embarassed
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Harpeau



Joined: 01 Feb 2003
Location: Coquitlam, BC

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 8:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Things are mellowing out more and more. Just tell people that you'd rather not drink (much). Your liver will thank you.
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MANDRL



Joined: 13 Oct 2006
Location: South Korea

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 8:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This has never been a problem for me or my fiancee. We have never been pressured to drink, not once. I have actually cut back my drinking by about 80% since living here and my fiancee who is not a big drinker anyway has had maybe 5 drinks in 7 months living here. Don't get me wrong though, they can drink like nobody's business over here. One of our female coworkers who probably weighs 100 pounds can drink more than a 20 year old frat boy during rush week. We never have problems being forced to drink though, hope this helps.
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IncognitoHFX



Joined: 06 May 2007
Location: Yeongtong, Suwon

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 8:38 am    Post subject: Re: Is it possible to Avoid Alcohol in Korea? Reply with quote

MaestroCantus wrote:
Hello Everyone,

I'm considering going to Korea to teach English next year, but (unlike the majority of postings I've heard about consuming tons of alcohol) I do not enjoy getting drunk -- plus, I'd feel that drinking would make me more susceptible to being taken advantage of or even a victim of crime.

I don't have anything against a drink once in a while (maybe 1, or 2 drinks maximum), but I would prefer to avoid basing my social experiences on Alcohol.

I've heard from someone that alcohol is a large part of Korean culture, but would I be bored and lonely if I tried to avoid drinking alcohol socially?


I wouldn't worry about it. I don't drink much either.

Sometimes it does get forced on you here, but you never *have* to drink. Koreans will understand (generally) if you decline politely, however, I'd pick your peer group wisely because many foreigners (Westerners in general) don't take no for an answer when it comes to drinking. But this happened to me back home too so definitely not a Korean thing.


There is plenty to do in Korea besides drinking--its not the cornerstone of Korean culture or anything. You will see a lot of drunken ajossi sleeping in all kinds of funny places or throwing up everywhere, but this happens everywhere the world over.

Yeesh, sorry if that made no sense. Just spent three days mountain climbing and haven't slept in two.


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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 9:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Of course it is possible. Some people drink a lot, some not. Hang out with the people you prefer.
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laogaiguk



Joined: 06 Dec 2005
Location: somewhere in Korea

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 9:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, but you have to be firm. If you want, you can just pour soju out into bowls of stuff. I see the younger generation of Koreans do this all the time Smile
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jaganath69



Joined: 17 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 9:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I tried to avoid it, but it didn't avoid me tonight.
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Spanishnative



Joined: 04 Sep 2006
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 11:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It can be avoided easily depending on your lifestyle. I went months without a drink. You may want to do other activities though. I usually went mountain climbing around Seoul on the weekends. Hang out with non-drinking buddies, do photography around the city. Or get out of the city to explore a town next door. Basically, it's just like back home. It's just that so many foreigners drink and are at bars that you may be tempted to drink to improve your social situation when you get here. I don't think that's necessary though. Im thinking of taking Gumdo during the week.
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 1:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Be advised: there is no weed here.

Now reconsider your beliefs on alcohol. Go ahead.
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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 2:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It can be done.

Hard work though.

I relapsed on my teachers night away and kept myself, the missus and my co-teacher out drinking on the beach until 4am when the head teacher eventually got stressed out and sent a rescue party to the beach to bring us home.

I had previously warned them that once I start I can't stop, I think they have learnt their lesson and keep me away from alcohol now.
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wylies99



Joined: 13 May 2006
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 3:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OP- It is hard to avoid drinking in Korea and it is impossible to avoid drunkards. Impossible. They're everywhere.
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beachbumNC



Joined: 30 May 2007
Location: Gumi

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 3:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
Be advised: there is no weed here.

Now reconsider your beliefs on alcohol. Go ahead.



haw haw haw!
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wylies99



Joined: 13 May 2006
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 3:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
Be advised: there is no weed here.

Now reconsider your beliefs on alcohol. Go ahead.


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