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Procedures and paperwork for marriage in korea???
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:14 am    Post subject: Procedures and paperwork for marriage in korea??? Reply with quote

I know there are a lot of guys that have got married on here and i am about to join the club...after 5.5 years together we have finally decided we might as well do it.

However i would like to know exactly what I have to do....

Can anyone outline the steps involved and what paperwork or documents I need and approx time that it will take...

I know I have to visit the local dong office with the missus. But I don't know why and what paperwork or things I need to take.....

I then know i have to go to Australian embasyy in Seoul...

Looking for a bit of guidance.
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

5.5 years? Are you dating a corpse? Wow.

I can only answer for Canadians but I can't imagine it would be that different. Basically you have to go to your embassy to register your marriage, then to your local district office to get it registered into your wife's family registry, and then back to your own consulate to confirm the confirmation of the marriage. It shouldn't take longer than a week provided you both have all your stuff together, including family registry stuff. You will be registering to join her family which technically makes her the man. Get used to taking it from behind is my final advice. Pretend you're taking a dump in reverse.
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

No not a corpse...just there was no need to rush it as we were both young-ish(24) when we met and had both been in long-term relationships before that had ended badly and also we wanted to save a chunk of money and buy our own apartment before we decided to get married and live happily ever after.

I have to go to my embassy two times...

That is a big hassle for me as I live a good 5 hours bus ride away but whatever i gotta do, i gotta do....what do i need to bring to the embassy???
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gdnchg



Joined: 20 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 9:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't do it....because if you ever take her back home and she sees and compares you to the normal average looking guy in the West.....she'll be disappointed.
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 9:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

gdnchg wrote:
Don't do it....because if you ever take her back home and she sees and compares you to the normal average looking guy in the West.....she'll be disappointed.

hahaha...that is a pretty weak attempt at a troll. She is well exposed to western culture and considering how mnay places she has been and how many westerners she has met I must have passed the cut.

Considering she has been to Australia 5 times in the previous 5 years with myself and travels internationally 3 times a year at least I am not to worried her comparing me with this so called average looking guy.
She is not a naive Korean girl.....
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RACETRAITOR



Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 9:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

By the way, good luck.

I only had to go to my embassy once, because the second trip there only involved dropping off forms, and my wife made that run alone.
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gdnchg



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 9:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not tryingt to burst your bubble...but going to Austrailia and vacationing a few times a year doesn't change the fact that she's still Korean.......Do you think she'd marry you if she was a gyopo?
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 9:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

gdnchg wrote:
Do you think she'd marry you if she was a gyopo?

Can't see why not.
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ursus_rex



Joined: 20 Mar 2004
Location: Seoul, ROK

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 2:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Race traitor is basically correct if I remeber the procedure from 3 years ago... I'm Canadian as well.

It only took about 3 hours, not a week. But it was quite a rush to make all the office administration hours.

I think there's a sticky or FAQ about it. I know you need a copy of her family registry. And there's a bit of paperwork at each location. You need the addresses and seals of a couple of people who have known you in Korea for some length of time (2 years?), and make certain your wife brings hers, too. Naturally, bring your passport and other identity papers.

You should check with your embassy... they likely have some info as well.

One thing else that I remember... you do not need to go to your home Gu office in the registration process. Embassy, Gu office, Embassy. Your wife will have to get her family registry from her home Gu office prior to all of this though.

Hope this helps.
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 3:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The original thing you're getting from your home embassy is an affidavit stating that there is no impediment to your contracting a marriage in your home country nor in Korea. That, of course, poses problems for those whose home countries (such as the Philippines) prohibit divorce and don't recognize divorce overseas except within very narrow circumstances.

As mentioned above, you should check with your home country's embassy in Korea for the requirements. For Canadians, here is the procedure.
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GoldMember



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Congratulations Dude.
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 8:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks guys...still a bit muddy but i will work my way through it.

that canadian website was good, we have nothing like that for the Australian embassy except the form you need to fill out.
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BigBuds



Joined: 15 Sep 2005
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 7:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

just because wrote:
She is well exposed to western culture and considering how mnay places she has been and how many westerners she has met I must have passed the cut.


You forgot to mention, JB, that she's as blind as a bat. Otherwise, she wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole, especially after seeing you in that dress Shocked you wore last halloween. Laughing

See you at poker on Thursday Very Happy .
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merkurix



Joined: 21 Dec 2006
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 7:25 am    Post subject: Re: Procedures and paperwork for marriage in korea??? Reply with quote

just because wrote:
I know there are a lot of guys that have got married on here and i am about to join the club...after 5.5 years together we have finally decided we might as well do it.

However i would like to know exactly what I have to do....

Can anyone outline the steps involved and what paperwork or documents I need and approx time that it will take...

I know I have to visit the local dong office with the missus. But I don't know why and what paperwork or things I need to take.....

I then know i have to go to Australian embasyy in Seoul...

Looking for a bit of guidance.


Great post and congratulations JB, I'm in the same boat as you. I don't have any married expat friends who have attempted any work with the American embassy yet, so they cannot help me out. I am also in need of advice on this matter, so I'm also gonna tune in.
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dalpengi



Joined: 08 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 8:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

gdnchg wrote:
Not tryingt to burst your bubble...but going to Austrailia and vacationing a few times a year doesn't change the fact that she's still Korean.......Do you think she'd marry you if she was a gyopo?


Shocked That's some flawed logic at work here. It betrays a truly confused mind.
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