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tanklor1
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:12 am Post subject: Ok..ok..ok..ok..ok..alright..ok...wait...what? |
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I've been looking for a Korean conversation partner for sometime. I'm not intrested in getting a girlfriend, but I'd rather have the company of a female rather than a male. Well, I found a good person who speaks pretty good English and we've been using MSN to chat and help eachother improve our languages. We decided to meet this Saturday, which was fine with me. I'd rather be out of my apartment if I'm going to improve my Korean. But she just told me that her Sister and her brother-in-law are also going to join us.
Now be straight with me guys. Am I completely up the creek without a padle? becuase I got the feeling that I'm heading into boyfriend land. Which oddly enough is the one place I don't wnat to be right now. (I'm only here for a year, I really don't want to start something that I know I can't finish.) Any help guys? Any at all? Please I'm beggin' yeah. Little help?
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steroidmaximus

Joined: 27 Jan 2003 Location: GangWon-Do
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:16 am Post subject: |
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hahahaha funny post.
You're heading into boring-uncomfortable-night-hanging-out-with-three-people-who-can't-speak-English-well-and-just-want-to-say-they-saw-a-live-foreigner land. Usually that's how those things play out.
Best of luck. |
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tigerbluekitty
Joined: 19 Apr 2007
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:16 am Post subject: |
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| Maybe you should ask her why they are coming along? |
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CheeseSandwich
Joined: 02 Nov 2006
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:18 am Post subject: |
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Well dude, if she doesn't know you I doubt shes just gonna show up and hope you are a good guy. Shes gonna want some people she knows around in case you are a knife wielding pyscho.
Or shes bringing them to help in case the conversation slows down on your date so no one feels awkward!
CHEERS MATE |
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tanklor1
Joined: 13 Jun 2006
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:19 am Post subject: |
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| steroidmaximus wrote: |
hahahaha funny post.
You're heading into boring-uncomfortable-night-hanging-out-with-three-people-who-can't-speak-English-well-and-just-want-to-say-they-saw-a-live-foreigner land. Usually that's how those things play out.
Best of luck. |
Really, I don't really mind that. I've never hung out exculsively with Koreans before. I just don't want to be the potential boyfriend. This place is great and but I'd like to do a bit more traveling. |
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tanklor1
Joined: 13 Jun 2006
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:20 am Post subject: |
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Well dude, if she doesn't know you I doubt shes just gonna show up and hope you are a good guy. Shes gonna want some people she knows around in case you are a knife wielding pyscho.
Or shes bringing them to help in case the conversation slows down on your date so no one feels awkward!
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It's NOT a date! It's a language exchange. That's what I'm stciking to and I aint budging! |
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CheeseSandwich
Joined: 02 Nov 2006
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:21 am Post subject: |
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| tanklor1 wrote: |
| CheeseSandwich wrote: |
Well dude, if she doesn't know you I doubt shes just gonna show up and hope you are a good guy. Shes gonna want some people she knows around in case you are a knife wielding pyscho.
Or shes bringing them to help in case the conversation slows down on your date so no one feels awkward!
CHEERS MATE |
It's NOT a date! It's a language exchange. That's what I'm stciking to and I aint budging! |
Be sure to bring flowers and hold the door open for her though. |
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tanklor1
Joined: 13 Jun 2006
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:22 am Post subject: |
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| CheeseSandwich wrote: |
| tanklor1 wrote: |
| CheeseSandwich wrote: |
Well dude, if she doesn't know you I doubt shes just gonna show up and hope you are a good guy. Shes gonna want some people she knows around in case you are a knife wielding pyscho.
Or shes bringing them to help in case the conversation slows down on your date so no one feels awkward!
CHEERS MATE |
It's NOT a date! It's a language exchange. That's what I'm stciking to and I aint budging! |
Be sure to bring flowers and hold the door open for her though. |
LANGAUGE EXCHANGE!!!!!!! |
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itaewonguy

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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:25 am Post subject: |
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basically she doesnt trust you on your the first date(language exchange)
she is not sure if you are legit or not! most foreigners say language exchange and all they learn is PANTY, BRA, BED, condom?
so she is bringing her sister and husband along for protection from the evil foreigner who only wants to get in her pants! |
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tanklor1
Joined: 13 Jun 2006
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:27 am Post subject: |
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basically she doesnt trust you on your the first date(language exchange)
she is not sure if you are legit or not! most foreigners say language exchange and all they learn is PANTY, BRA, BED, condom?
so she is bringing her sister and husband along for protection from the evil foreigner who only wants to get in her pants! |
This is going to be one of the worst afternoons of my life isn't it? |
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tigerbluekitty
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:37 am Post subject: |
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basically she doesnt trust you on your the first date(language exchange)
she is not sure if you are legit or not! most foreigners say language exchange and all they learn is PANTY, BRA, BED, condom?
so she is bringing her sister and husband along for protection from the evil foreigner who only wants to get in her pants! |
God forbid, they may even be scared that evil foreigner may introduce her to the world of marijuana and crack! |
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:37 am Post subject: |
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sounds like a fourway conversational threesome. How big is your bed? Maybe you should charge 20 000 won for every hour you're out just in case it turns into a conversational date.
'Can you lot get lost?'
'We want to be alone'
'Is she a virgin?'
'Yes I do have a car'
'My bank number'
'fingerprints?'
'my signature?'
'yes i think i'm free next sunday'
'which church? the one with the red luminescent cross......in Seoul' |
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tanklor1
Joined: 13 Jun 2006
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:40 am Post subject: |
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sounds like a fourway conversational threesome. How big is your bed? Maybe you should charge 20 000 won for every hour you're out just in case it turns into a conversational date.
'Can you lot get lost?'
'We want to be alone'
'Is she a virgin?'
'Yes I do have a car'
'My bank number'
'fingerprints?'
'my signature?'
'yes i think i'm free next sunday'
'which church? the one with the red luminescent cross......in Seoul' |
I understand bringing a friend. I was actually expecting it, by why in God's name does her Sister's husband have to be there. This is the first time that I'm going to see her. What's next an invite to Chusoek?
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butlerian

Joined: 04 Sep 2006 Location: Korea
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:41 am Post subject: |
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| Haha...this guy is clearly up for it even if he's trying to pretend he isn't. Have your fun, but be honest to yourself. You only live once...so be proud of what you do in that one life - that can mean being honourable, as opposed to doing whatever short-term fantasies your mind can think of. |
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tanklor1
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:43 am Post subject: |
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| butlerian wrote: |
| Haha...this guy is clearly up for it even if he's trying to pretend he isn't. Have your fun, but be honest to yourself. You only live once...so be proud of what you do in that one life - that can mean being honourable, as opposed to doing whatever short-term fantasies your mind can think of. |
Starting a realationship and leaving isn't something that I'd be proud of. |
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