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SeoulShakin · Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Location: Seoul

One of my Korean friends has invited my boyfriend and I to a brunch with her family on Sept. 25th. It's in Seoul, so hopefully I can take the subway and not have to worry about bumper to bumper traffic jams.

It will be at her Aunt and Uncle's home, whom I've never met. I've met her brother, Mother and Father, and they're very nice folks. Her Grandmother will be there as well.

This is my second Chuseok in Korea, but my first time celebrating it with a Korean family. I know it's considered an honour to be invited to spend it with them, so I would like to bring something along as a token of appreciation. My question, for those who have celebrated Chuseok with a Korean family for a day before, is what is an appropriate thing to bring? I was thinking of picking up a cake, or a box of juice (large size), but I'm not sure what is appropriate. Perhaps since it's a brunch, a cake isn't sufficient? Does anyone have any advice on what to bring?

Thanks in advance! Smile

ttompatz · Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Location: Kwangju, South Korea

indytrucks · Joined: 09 Apr 2003 Location: The Shelf

Be aware that if you're invited to someone's house with all the fam there, the spread will be HUGE. Bringing your appetite will be the best thing you can do. Be sure to try everything and give your compliments to the chef, even if you don't care for something. I was invited for a brunch last year and brought a cake that was well appreciated, but never even opened or looked at, everyone ate so much. Fruit is also a sure fire winner.

SeoulShakin · Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Location: Seoul

I can't believe I didn't think of fruit! Thanks for the tips.

I figure since my boyfriend and I are both going, we can both carry something in. Perhaps a cake and fruit?

Hope it goes well!

SeoulShakin · Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Location: Seoul

Oh, wait, one more question. Will there be places open to buy fruit or a cake during Chuseok? I didn't even think of that!

mj roach · Joined: 16 Mar 2003

They will probably be 'up to their knees' in fruit already and worried about it rotting.

GS 25, Family Mart, etc. will be open. If you want to make a really good impression, get a 'Special' 12 pack 'Gift Set' of Spam - the gift that 'keeps on giving'.

And...try not to show too much disappointment if they put you at a seperate table with the children.

SeoulShakin · Joined: 05 Jan 2006 Location: Seoul

Well, the "children" are who invited me, and since they are in their mid 20's, I think I'll be ok with sitting at their table. Wink