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What do you think of China's Family planning policy?

 
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flying-pig



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PostPosted: Thu Jun 16, 2005 4:37 am    Post subject: What do you think of China's Family planning policy? Reply with quote

Maybe not all of you are familiar with the China's Family Planning Policy. But hopefully you have heard of it already. Anyway let me introduce it to you. Family Planning Policy means that every family can only have one child and is not allowed to have another one. If some couple bore more than one child then very severe penalty will be given. They will pay a lot of money (which is not affordable for normal two-income families) for the 'extra' child. If they work for the government, things will be much worse, i.e. they may lose their job. Anyway, neither of these two results are the end of the world. The worst situation in China is that if the government finds some pregnant ladies who have already had one child, the officers who are responsible for the Family Planning Policy will come to their home and force them to abort! Evil or Very Mad

Till now, I believe you must have some idea about the policy. I am not kidding you. This is the real situation in China today. What do you think of it? Any information or feedback will be highly appreciated. Razz
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 21, 2005 5:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It is the kind of thing that can only be done in dictatorships.
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PostPosted: Sat Jun 25, 2005 8:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

alas, i'm not so familiar with the chinese methods of birth control although i've heard it already in school.
but i can see one big problem that comes up especially in china if you can only have one child in a family. i think that the chinese are very conservative which means that they expect from their child(ren) to be cared for when they get older. and for that, if they'd get a girl, it's not supposed to earn much money and also cannot care for her parents so well. because of that many chinese parents kill their female babys because they want to have a boy who can marry and earn much money and take a good care of them when they're older. and then this policy becomes a problem.
am i right about the facts? sorry if i've told something wrong Wink

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 25, 2005 11:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i said i'm not very familiar with chinese behavior.. Wink but thanks for explaining me this. i just heard this one time in school and of course it's also like this in nearly every poor district in the world, but i haven't thought about it really.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 4:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Generally I don't think it is a bad idea, but you've got to see the problems this policy has brought. The only child becomes the center of the family and and their parents would do everything they can to satisfy the child. That means when these children are grown up they'll find it extrmely diffilcult to cope with the challenges and competetions which have become the most important characteristics of the modern secoiety.

Besides, children growing up alone can have problems in effective communication with other people.
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 4:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah that's pretty much true.

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 6:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

nizeng wrote:
Generally I don't think it is a bad idea, but you've got to see the problems this policy has brought. The only child becomes the center of the family and and their parents would do everything they can to satisfy the child. That means when these children are grown up they'll find it extrmely diffilcult to cope with the challenges and competetions which have become the most important characteristics of the modern secoiety.

Besides, children growing up alone can have problems in effective communication with other people.


I agree with you
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PostPosted: Sun Jun 26, 2005 9:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah, but sometimes too much - then they become arrogant and egoistic.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 28, 2005 6:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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But perhaps the capitalistic world now needs such arrogant and egoistic guys.


yeah, maybe - but that's risky because such egoistic guys wouldn't think about how what they're doing is concerning our environment. but that's another topic.
and for that, there would have to be everyone egoistic, otherwise the 'friendlier' guys are suppressed.
and, you could be egoistic but you also have to be willing to compromise.

so i'd like it much more if everyone would be friendly to each other - but that's an unrealistic dream of mine..

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