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Will you live with your parents when you have wife.

 
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Dennis21021



Joined: 08 Nov 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2005 7:50 am    Post subject: Will you live with your parents when you have wife. Reply with quote

When you grow up and have your own business, wife and children, will you live with your parents? I have thought the question so long and don't know what to do. Shocked
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Bob S.



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2005 9:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here is the question you should think about:
Would you be willing to live with your wife and her parents in their home? Would you want to be having sex with your wife while her father is in the next room?
If that is a horrible idea, then do not ask your wife to live with your parents. Get your own place. Even a teeny-tiny one-room apartment is better for a newlywed couple than living with busybody in-laws.
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Snake777



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2005 1:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Nah , i dont think that i will live with my parents when i grow up and have my own life . Like BOb.S said , its uncomfortable ( not for you but ur wife )
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Dennis21021



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 6:15 am    Post subject: Thanks!! Reply with quote

Thank you for your reply!! I think I will take your advice, but I don't want my parents feel lonely as well. Hmm~~...... Rolling Eyes
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Snake777



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 19, 2005 1:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aww u dont want ur parents to be lonely huh ?! You can find any house that is near ur parents' soo you can visit them everyday . And i dont think that they want u to live with them 4ever . U have ur new own life with ur wife and children in the future
Ahh i dont know know what to say :/ but if u're worried for him and dont want them to be lonely then live with them . Make sure that u ask ur future wife , u should respect her opinion . You should not blame her if she said she did not want to . Most of girls dont like to live with parents in law . I say MOST ! not all ^__^
anywayz good luck
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Dennis21021



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 1:37 am    Post subject: Thank you!! Reply with quote

Wow, I didn't knew this in the past. Surprised I'm so appreciate your advice.Thanks~~~~~ Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy
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Snake777



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 6:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aww i did not think that my advice was that useful at all . But it is ur own decision ^__^
soo is ur mind clear now ?! Hope it is Smile
you re going to get married huh ?! Lol Congrats Smile
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alfa23



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PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 11:41 pm    Post subject: nothing to afraid of Reply with quote

well, this my opinion Dennis.can you write down all the the pros and cons if you live with your family and with your parents.Then you will know!!!!!
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Dennis21021



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 6:03 am    Post subject: Thank you!!! Reply with quote

Thank you for your advice, alfa23. Razz
And to Snake777, I'm just a high school student. Very Happy
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Snake777



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 1:36 pm    Post subject: Re: Thank you!!! Reply with quote

Dennis21021 wrote:
Thank you for your advice, alfa23. Razz
And to Snake777, I'm just a high school student. Very Happy


Hahaha OMG .... U re soo funnie Very Happy I'm Highskool student too Wink
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