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Winkydragonfly



Joined: 10 Dec 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 8:58 am    Post subject: Oh,who can tell me why? Reply with quote
I don't know whether it is right or not to write this message here,But I have written it finally!
Today is our Chinese's traditional festival.At first,I feel very very happy.So I am still online though it is 1 o'clock at night.I play QQ.But suddenly one of my friends ask me :"Have you ever made a BF?"Oh.I really don't know how to answer it.What was worse,at that time,my father was near me!And he saw all the words!Now you needn't I tell you,you will know what happened to me,not only shut,but also............
Oh.Who can tell me?Why did parents shuted at me before they knew all the reasons and things.By the way,from first to last,I think I have never done a little wrong,Why?Why they shouted at me.Now I have no face in front of them!Who can give me some good ideas?Many thanks!
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 9:18 am    Post subject: Re: Oh,who can tell me why? Reply with quote
Winkydragonfly wrote:
I don't know whether it is right or not to write this message here,But I have written it finally!
Today is our Chinese's traditional festival.At first,I feel very very happy.So I am still online though it is 1 o'clock at night.I play QQ.But suddenly one of my friends ask me :"Have you ever made a BF?"Oh.I really don't know how to answer it.What was worse,at that time,my father was near me!And he saw all the words!Now you needn't I tell you,you will know what happened to me,not only shut,but also............
Oh.Who can tell me?Why did parents shuted at me before they knew all the reasons and things.By the way,from first to last,I think I have never done a little wrong,Why?Why they shouted at me.Now I have no face in front of them!Who can give me some good ideas?Many thanks!


Sorry, winkydragonfly. you have a strict father. I don't think your dad was right. but you can't change him. we all can't choose our parents. you have to wait until you leave your home for your college. I mean, if you are lucky enough, you will start your college in another city, then you will be far away from your dad's strict control.

My mom used to treat me like that. therfore, I had no boyfriend during my high school years!! I remember...I had to be a bookworm in those hard years. But I finally owned freedom after I entered into my college. and that's amazing!! without your parents around, you can date whoever you love, and listen to any absurb music you like; keep any weird hairstyle you like....

Just be patient!!
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Winkydragonfly



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
RedRose,Though I know my father do this is for me good,but i can't receive!Now the most terrible problem is ,I really have no face !If you were me,how will you feel?How will you do with this problem?Now wherever I go,I always lower my head.I am afraid to see their eyes.Though I know it is not my fault!Who can give me some good ideas?
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weiyao



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 9:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
I think you don't need to act like you are guilty, just behave normally. Your parents get angry, maybe they think you are too young to have that kind of relation. They are afraid you would get hurt, and influence your study. If you think you are ready to have such a relation, and you are sure that it won't distract you from your study. You should prove it to your parents. Probably they will soften gradually. However, if you are still very young, maybe you should pay more attetion to your school work.
By the way, Happy Lunar New Year !
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Winkydragonfly



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PostPosted: Sat Jan 28, 2006 11:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote
Many thanks!Now I want to tell you.I am really never think of it.Because I am too young.But I am really very angry about that question.It smeared me!
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admiral



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 3:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Tell them that you are innocent. However you are really innocent. And as long as you didn't do anything bad you shouldn't worry what your parents say. However if you wanna have career then making boyfriend is not good.
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Winkydragonfly



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 3:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Oh.First ,I shall thank you!
Thanks for giveing me an idea!
But I really don't have a boyfriend!
Believe me!
I am really innocent!
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phucauto



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PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 4:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
even if you have a boy friend. it is meaningless, it isn't a serious problem!
you need time to persuade your father. I believe he will understand that you're mature enough to have a bf! Wink
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eda



Joined: 01 Apr 2005
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PostPosted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 5:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote
Winkydragonfly i coulnt really understand why you worry too much.
If your father heard all of your conversation than there is no problem. Confused
Also i think you make him more suspicious by behaving so.Just behave normally and dont be so fussy.I suppose you are not too young,so they must learn to trust and respect your rights.
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