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Keep education or choose your lover?

 
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Asiaunec



Joined: 13 Dec 2005
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Location: Nanxun, Zhejiang

PostPosted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 3:36 am    Post subject: Keep education or choose your lover? Reply with quote

If you are a student in the university, and you will go abroad after two years, it is a good chance to you that you can approach your success. In this time, you meeting a person that maybe he is your favorite in your life. But he can�t go abroad with you because his family doesn�t agree with him to go out. You really love him very much, and he also loves you so much. You feel very sad and don�t know what you should do. You are in trouble with this problem. Go abroad or give up? Keep education or choose your lover? Wink
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asterix



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 1:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stay with your education.
Your education will be of value to you all your life.
If you go abroad, you will gain a different perspective on many things.
You are young and it is not likely that this is the person you will marry, even though you love him/her at the moment, but if you still feel the same when your education is completed, you will have tested your love for each other and you are more likely to have a happy marriage.
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eda



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 12, 2006 9:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

die die my darling
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Snake777



Joined: 05 Nov 2005
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Location: Ho CHi Minh , Viet Nam

PostPosted: Wed Apr 12, 2006 10:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asterix wrote:
Stay with your education.
Your education will be of value to you all your life.
If you go abroad, you will gain a different perspective on many things.
You are young and it is not likely that this is the person you will marry, even though you love him/her at the moment, but if you still feel the same when your education is completed, you will have tested your love for each other and you are more likely to have a happy marriage.


I DO AGREE WITH THIS POST , Asterix!
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RedRose



Joined: 21 May 2004
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Location: GuangZhou, China

PostPosted: Wed Apr 12, 2006 10:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stay with your study of course!!!

You can easily find a new lover, but it's the only chance to go abroad for your study!!

To Keep highly educated, you will be the eternal winner!
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Jekzhou



Joined: 15 Jun 2005
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Location: The Hague, The Netherlands

PostPosted: Sat Apr 15, 2006 12:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If the person really loves me very much and I love her, then it's not big deal to study abroad.

she'll understand how important study is. (if not then she's not the 1)
I'll visit her if I get any possible opportunity.

Loves conquers all!!! Very Happy
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aoikokoro



Joined: 24 Feb 2006
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Location: Mexico, Queretaro

PostPosted: Sat Apr 15, 2006 7:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Like Thelonius says:

-"You can't sacrifice grades for romance."

The study is always first..
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Asiaunec



Joined: 13 Dec 2005
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PostPosted: Sat May 27, 2006 8:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You are all right!
When I was a little girl, I thought love is the most important thing in my life. I want to be loved and made a lot of beautiful love dreams while I was a teenage. Then as I growing up, I saw my friends changed their boyfriends or girlfriends so quickly and also saw many people got divorced just as usual as changed clothes! I know in this world, the real love is very hard to find! I even thought I can not meet my Mr. Right. But now, I�m very lucky, I have a boyfriend who loves me so much, my life is so happy that I nearly can without him!
Although life is always hard to choose, I think I just do what I want to do!
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garfield_jesse



Joined: 17 Oct 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Jun 02, 2006 12:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If i were you i would choose the education, with me education is more important, getting education you will have more chances to get good job, having good future. First you should feed yourself without depending on others, you are sure confident. Love? You are young, and the chances to look for and meeting many guys. And if you and he really love together, the distance is not big problem. You go to aboard to study and you will come back...
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ieltsinsider



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 06, 2006 7:59 pm    Post subject: love or study - why not both? Reply with quote

I actually know someone who had to make this decision. She decided to stay in her country with her boyfriend and study in her country rather than a foreign one. Successful studies in a foreign country require emotional stability. This is something that (in particular) many East Asian students and their parents fail to understand. Most of the East asian students I know ho have studied in the States or Britain or Australia have learnt almost nothing. By the way, the girl now has a great job with an American firm in her home country and is marrying the guy later this year.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 07, 2006 12:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote