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Rogerlz · Joined: 30 Nov 2006 Posts: 216 Location: Costa Rica

Thanks andykang, I know that I can deal with that, I just want to know if is true everything that my mon saids!!!

For me is no problem an older gearl at less if it is for one year!!!

burco_lion: I'm agree whith you!!!
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ClarissaMach · Posted: Tue Jan 09, 2007 11:20 am Post subject:

ad-miral · Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 1488

oh how dirty words you speak here dear ClarissaMach...
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ClarissaMach · Posted: Tue Jan 09, 2007 11:52 am Post subject:

J@n@ · Joined: 10 Jan 2007 Posts: 49 Location: Germany

hi, my boyfriend is one and a half year older than me but in germany it doesnt really matter wether the man is older than the woman or the woman older than the man -- everything that is important is that you love each other Razz

well i think that it wouldnt be easy for me to be together with a 14-year-old boy, because most of the boys in this age are.. still childish and little children.
i apologize to the ones who are in this age -- its just one example..
but i think that the age wont count when youre older and you really love someone -- real love, you know what i mean?
xxx jana

wenzili · Joined: 17 Mar 2006 Posts: 83 Location: China

I don't agree with your parents' opinion, since Chinese culture is pluralistic. In common sense, it is better for groom to be older than his bride, regarding physical condition. However, it 's also been said: "3 years' older bride makes you pick up gold bullions " ever since ancient China, which is focused on business point of view. A maturer wife may help you to make clever business decision.
Be patient to your parents and told them this story.
I hope you may overcome your crisis soon.

wenzili from China
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ad-miral · Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 1488

Generally spoken, women get horny very early, (to use some RedRosed terms) so maybe this time they are very desirable for young men because they have big boobs, fat asses and not a too short body.

But women also change their looks very fastly and after 40 or so they become old and not as pretty as in their youth, whereas men still look good after 40.

I think that's the reason why men search for a younger woman. Do you still know Bob S.? He made a thesis Laughing

that this is dependent on evolution. Men prefer young women because they are more able to produce children than old women, because women only have a limited amount of ovums. This thesis based on evolution is good and original but I think the fater-look-changing is a more practical argumentation.

hoshi · Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 3:04 pm Post subject:

Rogerlz · Joined: 30 Nov 2006 Posts: 216 Location: Costa Rica

ClarissaMach · Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 7:48 am Post subject:

Things seem pretty unfair to women, don't they?

Thanks God I prefer older man. When I finally turn 40, he'll already be 61. I guess that at this age it will be more difficult for him to cheat on me with twenty-years-old girl... Laughing

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