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pinkhair

Joined: 08 Mar 2005 Posts: 70 Location: hanoi
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 5:40 am Post subject: MY MOST CONFUSED MOMENT !!!!!!! I NEED A ADVICE |
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IT HAPPENED TODAY!
When I was studying in my classroom
suddenly , there was a teacher came in and said
Is there anoyone in this class called A
I immediately stant up and I imagined that my mother came in and take the keys because she always forget it
I was prepare to run out of classroom
Do you know what he said ??????????????/
Mr T in my class is falling in love with you !!!!!!!!!!!!
OH , my God .
everybody in my class laughed
I know him and only want to be friend with him
what should I do ??????????????
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asterix
Joined: 26 Jan 2003 Posts: 1654
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 8:29 am Post subject: |
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It is strange that the teacher would carry this sort of information and announce it in public, but it may be a cultural difference.
In my opinion, the teacher was wrong.
Now you know that Mr T. is falling in love with you, you have two options.
1. Do something.
2. Do nothing.
I do not know what is normal in Vietnamese society, but in many cultures it is usual for the man to approach the woman and ask her to go out with him, perhaps for a coffee, or something more formal.
Mr. T. has indirectly approached you. If you want to be only friends with him, then do nothing. The next move will be up to him or the teacher.
Of course, you will now be unable to view Mr. T. in the same light, and life may get more interesting from now on. |
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eda

Joined: 01 Apr 2005 Posts: 379 Location: Ankara/Turkey
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 9:39 am Post subject: |
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I think you should do nothing for sometime and just wait for time to show you the truth. but it is interesting that teacher says you so.maybe Mr.T is seriously in love with you and told that matter to the teacher and asked for some help. Or maybe the teacher is a wicked one who loves poking his nose into such issues...
interesting.please inform us what happens next. take it easy my friend and do what you want coz life is too short... _________________ invasion is so succexy so succexy. |
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 5:05 pm Post subject: |
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are you sure this teacher were ok?
Oh, simply, just tell this teacher:"thanks for telling me, now I know someone fell into love with me. thanks again." |
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pinkhair

Joined: 08 Mar 2005 Posts: 70 Location: hanoi
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Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 12:24 am Post subject: |
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dear all,
After that , I saw him stood in font of school gate , I didn't said anything
the following days , I was in trouble
because I always walk to school, in the day after he prepared to pick up me but I didn't agree
and then , he came to school and have some problem with his classmates
they blamed me about that
what can I do ? |
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pugachevV
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 2295
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Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 4:31 am Post subject: |
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You should do nothing.
It is not your fault if he gets into trouble with his classmates, or anybody else.
If he is going to make a fool of himself over you, that is his problem.
If he becomes a nuisance - tell him to buzz off. Better still, ask the teacher to tell him.
Or marry him. |
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admiral

Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Posts: 546
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Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 5:05 am Post subject: |
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pugachevV wrote: |
Or marry him. |
I don't know whether it's a joke, but I think you may understand it not as a joke. Then I want to say: Think twice.
However, first, it's not your trouble that he get's in trouble because he likes you.
Oh, and, if he has to beat with the classmates, don't forget to give me the address of your school. (I have holiday now)
edit: Sorry, I think I have to give some useful hints:
Ask him whether he really likes you. He will probably say yes.
And then, tell him that if he likes somebody, he will also want that guy to live happily.
He will probably agree.
Then, tell him that you don't feel happy because everybody laugh on you at class because of him. |
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eda

Joined: 01 Apr 2005 Posts: 379 Location: Ankara/Turkey
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Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 9:14 am Post subject: |
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I think you must take admiral's hints. _________________ invasion is so succexy so succexy. |
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 7:26 pm Post subject: |
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Maybe your teacher had feelings for you!  |
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dragon2008
Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 25
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 4:55 am Post subject: |
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You should talk with him on the matter.
It is not your fault, he isn't wrong also. He has right to love a girl.
We must deal with it seriously. Although,that such thing is normally that happened on the young people.
To tell him your decision.
If you cann't settle it by yourself. To ask your parent or teacher for help. _________________ To enjoy the life! |
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weiyao
Joined: 20 Jun 2005 Posts: 105
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Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 8:17 pm Post subject: |
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Just tell him directly. And the teacher is weird. he should pay more attention to teaching the student, not doing such thing. |
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pinkhair

Joined: 08 Mar 2005 Posts: 70 Location: hanoi
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Posted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 5:59 am Post subject: |
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I did nothing !
also I kept the relationship normally with him
And now, he want to be my brother !
what should I do |
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Fri Nov 04, 2005 7:46 am Post subject: |
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pinkhair wrote: |
I did nothing !
also I kept the relationship normally with him
And now, he want to be my brother !
what should I do |
He just wants to be your boyfriend. |
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eda

Joined: 01 Apr 2005 Posts: 379 Location: Ankara/Turkey
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 8:32 am Post subject: |
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he is a foolish lover i think he tries to grab your attention by doing such stupid things.And he is conflicting with himself coz a lover can never be a brother.ohh i think this is a real absurd love story of him |
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pugachevV
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 2295
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 9:22 am Post subject: |
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You have managed the situation well, if he wants to still be friends with you. It is difficult to reject somebody's advances without hurting his feelings, but you have done it.
Congratulations. |
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