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::NiCE::



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 3:43 am    Post subject: ::: LOVE love LOVE love LOVe ::: Reply with quote

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RedRose



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 3:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, I don't know why Shocked maybe it is some chemical reaction Laughing

I had such an experience before. Unfortunately, it turned out that my beloved guy was married already Crying or Very sad He was my physiology professor when I was a graduate student. I had to keep my feelings in my mind, because I didn't wanna break his family. Crying or Very sad
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admiral



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 5:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think it's not a question about to believe or not to believe, I think the only difference between "Love at the first sight" and "Love at the 20th sight" is the surety.
At the first sight, I only know some small impressions towards the girl.
At last if she also loves me, my feelings will be very very nice.
But, I repeat, love at the first sight is very unsure because the reason is sometimes very limited, because we don't see the whole person.
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asterix



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 6:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The French, who have a reputation for being clued - up on love, call it un coup de foudre (struck by lightning).
Sometimes you meet someone, and you feel like that!
I think such a feeling is no guarantee that it will last for a lifetime, though.
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Snake777



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 6:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hummnn in somehow i do believe in it . I also believe in destiny Smile
The first time i saw my boyfriend ... Hummn i did not like him at first sight . Hummn i felt weird and the next day , i went to that place again , and just hoped that i could met him again . But too bad i did not have any chances . But guess what ?? My lil sis got his Yahoo ID . Hummn it's kinda complicated to tell you all . Anywayz ,we re bf and gf now Smile . I have not ever told him that . It was so random , huh ?!
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::NiCE::



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 7:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Idea

It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; What is essential is invisible to the eye.


Voici mon secret. Il est tr�s simple: on ne voit bien qu'avec le coeur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.
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weiyao



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 8:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It happens, but rarely. and I think making a life-long commitment too soon might end up in misery, because you don't know your special someone thoroughly. maybe you have good impression of him or her just because his or her excellent appearance, but love is more than just mushy feelings for an attractive face, so it's better to follow your head rather than your heart, then you will have a better chance of success.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 8:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

love at first sight is mostly up to appearance. and it is human's instinct to judge people with their appearance.
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Bob S.



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 10:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't believe in love at first sight, but I do believe in lust at first sight (for other people, not for me now). Real love (the mutual caring, respect, affection, and commitment to each other's well being) takes time to grow. That is not to say lust at first sight cannot be fun! But it is not a reliable indicator that the other person is going to be a good match for you.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 5:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some love is ashes,
Some love is rust,
But the cleanest, purest, love is lust.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

By reading you guys' msgs, I feel that Bob is a realist, and asterix is a pessimist.
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::NiCE::



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 2:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

L'amor che move il sole e l'altre stelle.

The love which moves the sun and the other stars...



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admiral



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 6:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes and no, reasons see above.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 5:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

No, Rose, I am an optimist, but based on long experience, I am cynical about some things.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 5:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

asterix wrote:
No, Rose, I am an optimist, but based on long experience, I am cynical about some things.


Country to your experience, I used to be a pessimist, but later, based on a long experience, I became an optimist.
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