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UKbug



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PostPosted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 8:27 pm    Post subject: about housework!!!! Reply with quote

* do u want to see women in Taiwan do less housework??? why/ why not????
*if u want to do less housework, wut can they do to make this happen????
* why di u think many Western men do more housework than men in Taiwan????

HERE i got some questions!!!! i'm allllllllll ears!!!!!!!!!!
not just limit to Taiwan but also can worldwide!!!!
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 30, 2006 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hi!!! I thing that the traditionals womans that only make home works are becoming different, because there are womans that are profesionals and can win more money than a man, so in this case i thing that is better that the man do the home works!!!

Of corse we can pretend that a man make the things so righ than a women do!!!

For example, if i do the laundry i will distroy all the cloths if nobody teach me how to do that..... so there are things that the women do better than a man, and you gears have to admit that the man do things that is more difficult for you, for example, fixing things in the house.
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 9:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wink hey thanks for ur opinion!!!
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PostPosted: Fri Dec 01, 2006 11:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

TW women? I don't know.

But in my case, I don't wanna do any housework Laughing
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 12:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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* do u want to see women in Taiwan do less housework??? why/ why not????

Laughing Statistically men get more money than women because women are additionally afficted with bringing up children.
Why women want to do less housework is because of the evil feminism, which is automatically abbreviated from the idea of democracy. So if we want to live in democracy women's rights is inevitable.
That's very bad for the men.

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*if u want to do less housework, wut can they do to make this happen????
Live in a mess, but if you get freinds visiting you they won't feel good.

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* why di u think many Western men do more housework than men in Taiwan????

That's only prejudice. Look at RedRose. According to the globalization, the Western way is all all over the world now.
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 11:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ad-miral wrote:
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*if u want to do less housework, wut can they do to make this happen????
Live in a mess, but if you get freinds visiting you they won't feel good.
I was thinking along those same lines. A man's idea of clean is different from a woman's idea of clean. If a woman does not do the cleaning and instead asks her husband to do some cleaning, it will definitely NOT be clean enough for her. Then she will become angry and yell at him "you don't do enough to help around the house!" The man will become defensive, "I do help! You don't appreciate the effort I do around here!" And they will fight and fight and get a divorce.
There is a saying in English: If you want something done right, do it yourself. So whoever wants it the most clean should do the cleaning and not bother the other person.
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 1:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh Bob S. if this is true I fear I won't be able to get married... Just look at my desk.
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 02, 2006 2:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi all of you!

Umm...Well... I think that both women and men are able to work in the house cleaning without any trouble if they were taught properly. And actually they should clean the house together and not leave those shores for only one of them.

I really think that the cleaning and the house shores are cultural matters, this means that if in Taiwan there are more women who do the shores it's because of Taiwan's culture and so on in the other countries. In latin countries it is very common to see that is the woman who cleans, cooks and takes care of the babies; in european countries there are many men who are beginning to work at home for reasons that I do not know, probably because new ways of seeing stuff and being more opened to new opinions; in asian countries there are more women who stay at home than men and that's because of the society who thinks that women should be a way while men another way.

So, in conclusion, house shores aren't only for women, but for both and it is both who must make the decision of saying who'll be incharged of each matter and also try to do everything together.

See you soon! Wink
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 8:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sometimes.... i think it is a stereotype Confused ...girls should do the housework 'n' boys shoud work.girl should be thougtful 'n' boy should...(i dunno) i don't like the stereotype of this, cuz i don't exactly act like a girl(BUT not a guy) just feel strange being soooooooooooo girlish!?!?!?!? back to the topic, what if the world's trend truns to be, girls do the works 'n' boys do the house chores??!?!?!??? Confused Confused Confused
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 8:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Household chores are actually a good exercise, and they can help us unwind. Put on some music while doing them.
Sometimes, when I am stressed, I like to wash dishes.
Unfortunately, my work hours are such that I am not available at home for household work, so I have to rely on domestic help, which is easily available in India.

As for cleanliness, I think if everyone is committed to it, the place won't be messy in the first place. The house should be treated like an office. People don't mess the place in the office.
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 10:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Anuradha Chepur wrote:
Household chores are actually a good exercise, and they can help us unwind.
The same with sex. Guess which one a man prefers. Wink
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Put on some music while doing them.
Same with sex.
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As for cleanliness, I think if everyone is committed to it, the place won't be messy in the first place. The house should be treated like an office. People don't mess the place in the office.
Laughing Laughing It seems you've never worked with engineers. Just see Admiral, our young and handsome but messy engineer in training. And, hey Clarissa, is your husband neat or messy?
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 11:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bob S. wrote:
Anuradha Chepur wrote:
Household chores are actually a good exercise, and they can help us unwind.
The same with sex. Guess which one a man prefers. Wink
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Put on some music while doing them.
Same with sex.
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As for cleanliness, I think if everyone is committed to it, the place won't be messy in the first place. The house should be treated like an office. People don't mess the place in the office.
Laughing Laughing It seems you've never worked with engineers. Just see Admiral, our young and handsome but messy engineer in training. And, hey Clarissa, is your husband neat or messy?


Bob, you made yourself a great poster!! you are my idol. Mr. Green Mr. GreenMr. GreenMr. Green
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 03, 2006 11:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am fortunate to have not worked with engineers Bob, Wink. My clan is infested with them, and I feel somebody should write to those universities to include in the curriculum training them in putting things back from where they picked them up.
I think those jobs that involve dealing with people (who'd be of different types) are more stressful than those that involve dealing with machines.
So the rest of us are more likely to be stressed in messy surroundings.
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 05, 2006 9:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bob S. wrote:
Anuradha Chepur wrote:
Household chores are actually a good exercise, and they can help us unwind.
The same with sex. Guess which one a man prefers. Wink


Laughing Laughing Laughing Perfect!

Bob S. wrote:
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Put on some music while doing them.
Same with sex.


Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Perfect 2!!!

Bob S. wrote:
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As for cleanliness, I think if everyone is committed to it, the place won't be messy in the first place. The house should be treated like an office. People don't mess the place in the office.
Laughing Laughing It seems you've never worked with engineers. Just see Admiral, our young and handsome but messy engineer in training. And, hey Clarissa, is your husband neat or messy?


He's totally messy... but I am worse than him...

shame on me...
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 05, 2006 10:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

UKbug wrote:
Wink hey thanks for ur opinion!!!


u welcome!!!!
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