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ahm_k1
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 Posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 1:36 am Post subject: Don't read this ! |
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Hello friends
What will you do when you find yourself so sad or the condition around you lacks gaiety ? |
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004
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| Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 9:02 am Post subject: |
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What do you mean?
Just kidding, I know what you mean 
I usually go shopping to make every sad detail go away. Trust me, shopping always works! if I feel depressed, I must take my credit card, and then go to the mall. when I go shopping, clothes always absorb my attention. That's why I have so many T-shirts, jeans, skirts. The more I feel depressed, the more clothes I gotta buy.
Lately, I haven't bought myself clothes for quite a while, that's because I have been in a good mood these days 
Another good solution is calling your friends, of course, close friends, and tell them how you feel, and when you talk to your friends on phone, you can even curse, curse the one who gives you a hard time, curse the ingredients that make you mopey or sad or whatever, and you will have your friends' ears, sometimes they would curse with you, because they are just trying to support you by cursing, that's nice too. after you dump all your depression out, you will truly feel a lot better.
I almost forgot something important: the best solution for sadness is: SEX! after all the screaming, orgasm...you will forget anything that bothers you  |
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ahm_k1
Joined: 30 Jun 2007
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| Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 3:44 am Post subject: thanx red rose |
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yes but i think buyin clothes not gonna work with boys very much.. 
Sex ?! oh this ....I don know what to say about it ? I don agree withyou red rose in this ... 
is there any thing more practical than that...
I don have many close friends so I asked that question here particulary it is so good to find somebody who care about you
Isnt there any brilliant ideas? |
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garfield_jesse
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| Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 6:33 am Post subject: |
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| RedRose wrote: |
| I usually go shopping to make every sad detail go away. Trust me, shopping always works! if I feel depressed, I must take my credit card, and then go to the mall. when I go shopping, clothes always absorb my attention. That's why I have so many T-shirts, jeans, skirts. The more I feel depressed, the more clothes I gotta buy. |
----> I do the same way. I think that is the effective way to reduce stress. But the more i feel depressed, the more i'm broke
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| I almost forgot something important: the best solution for sadness is: SEX! after all the screaming, orgasm...you will forget anything that bothers you |
I wish i knew how important about SEX as you said
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004
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| Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 9:20 am Post subject: |
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I wish i knew how important about SEX as you said |
Well, it's just a matter of time. you will understand in the near future. |
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ahm_k1
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| Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 8:46 am Post subject: |
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Thanx alot redrose you seemed to be experienced so do you got any other ideas
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| I almost forgot something important: the best solution for sadness is: SEX! after all the screaming, orgasm...you will forget anything that bothers you |
So do you mean if I am married or if I am any marital status ?
thanx again |
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004
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Location: GuangZhou, China
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| Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 3:23 pm Post subject: |
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| ahm_k1 wrote: |
Thanx alot redrose you seemed to be experienced so do you got any other ideas
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| I almost forgot something important: the best solution for sadness is: SEX! after all the screaming, orgasm...you will forget anything that bothers you |
So do you mean if I am married or if I am any marital status ?
thanx again |
Come on! you don't have to be married. You can have sex with your girlfriend without marriage. That's another topic.
Honestly, I don't think sex has anything to do with marriage. My rule: as long as I am in love with him, then he is the one I am supposed to have sex with. No matter if we are husband and wife.
As for me, I won't get into marriage again, But I don't think I will get rid of sex. |
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beancurdturtle
Joined: 23 Aug 2006
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Location: Southern California
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| Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 11:12 pm Post subject: Re: Don't read this ! |
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| ahm_k1 wrote: |
Hello friends
What will you do when you find yourself so sad or the condition around you lacks gaiety ? |
Get as good an understanding of the challenges and opportunities as I can.
Improve the things over which I have control.
Accept the things that I cannot control.
And talk with my friends and family - and smile.
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�Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.�
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beancurdturtle
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| Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 11:14 pm Post subject: |
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| RedRose wrote: |
What do you mean?
I almost forgot something important: the best solution for sadness is: SEX! after all the screaming, orgasm...you will forget anything that bothers you |
Forget everything except the ringing in my ears from all the screaming.
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RedRose
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| Speaking of screaming, I recall when I was working in my hometown, one time I took my daughter with me to go to my parents', by then my daughter was 3 years old. We planned spending a two-day weekend in my parents'. That night, my daughter and I stayed in the room right next to my brother's room, unfortunately, the wall wasn't that soundproof. After we fell asleep, we were woken up by some harsh screaming from the next room. I knew my brother and his girlfriend were doing "stuff", but, of course, my daughter had no idea. so she looked at me, with a confusing expression on her face, "Mummy, someone is killing people! I am scared!" I hugged her and comforted her:"no, baby, nobody is killing people, it's that someone is playing VCD! and mummy is here, no need to be scared." she nodded:"that must be a scary movie! I don't like scary movie." |
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Dixie
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:31 am Post subject: |
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| Speaking of screaming, I recall when I was working in my hometown, one time I took my daughter with me to go to my parents', by then my daughter was 3 years old. We planned spending a two-day weekend in my parents'. That night, my daughter and I stayed in the room right next to my brother's room, unfortunately, the wall wasn't that soundproof. After we fell asleep, we were woken up by some harsh screaming from the next room. I knew my brother and his girlfriend were doing "stuff", but, of course, my daughter had no idea. so she looked at me, with a confusing expression on her face, "Mummy, someone is killing people! I am scared!" I hugged her and comforted her:"no, baby, nobody is killing people, it's that someone is playing VCD! and mummy is here, no need to be scared." she nodded:"that must be a scary movie! I don't like scary movie." |
Poor YY!!!!
Did you tell your brother off? |
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 6:41 am Post subject: |
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| Dixie wrote: |
| RedRose wrote: |
| Speaking of screaming, I recall when I was working in my hometown, one time I took my daughter with me to go to my parents', by then my daughter was 3 years old. We planned spending a two-day weekend in my parents'. That night, my daughter and I stayed in the room right next to my brother's room, unfortunately, the wall wasn't that soundproof. After we fell asleep, we were woken up by some harsh screaming from the next room. I knew my brother and his girlfriend were doing "stuff", but, of course, my daughter had no idea. so she looked at me, with a confusing expression on her face, "Mummy, someone is killing people! I am scared!" I hugged her and comforted her:"no, baby, nobody is killing people, it's that someone is playing VCD! and mummy is here, no need to be scared." she nodded:"that must be a scary movie! I don't like scary movie." |
Poor YY!!!!
Did you tell your brother off? |
I didn't. because I didn't wanna scare my brother and his girlfriend |
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ahm_k1
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 11:17 am Post subject: |
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Get as good an understanding of the challenges and opportunities as I can.
Improve the things over which I have control.
Accept the things that I cannot control.
And talk with my friends and family - and smile. |
Thank you so much beancurdturtle thats seemed quite good also that control.... I love that so much |
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ahm_k1
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| Posted: Fri Aug 03, 2007 11:26 am Post subject: |
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| You can have sex with your girlfriend without marriage |
Sorry again redrose I think we should pay alittle respect to different kinds of customs and traditions as doin such a sex is considered not related to ethics and so on ....
So I don agree with you again sorry don you have something else.....I think you have |
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Anuradha Chepur
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| Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 3:42 am Post subject: |
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Watching a comedy show or movie on the TV.
Music.
Browsing.
Eating.
Reading Archies comics or something like that.
Talking to a friend.
Coffee. |
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