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Is it problematic if she is 2 years older than him?
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ad-miral



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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2007 11:57 am    Post subject: difference in years - a problem? Reply with quote

Is the age difference a problem for you? Let's say the woman is not one year younger, but two years older.
Girls are mentally five years older than boys. So theoretically the boy should be five years older than the girl, but nowadays we find girlfriends in the same class who are as old as you.

Let's collect some opinions. I think, according to the freedom of democracy, that it's not a problem.
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Anuradha Chepur



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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2007 7:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

By your calculation, that makes her seven years more mature, and theoretically that would help her have a good grip over and adeptly manage things, I suppose.
Practically, I don't know.
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PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2007 10:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My first ex-wife was 2 years older than me. But that wasn't the problem. Very Happy
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ad-miral



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 01, 2007 4:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Anuradha Chepur wrote:
By your calculation, that makes her seven years more mature, and theoretically that would help her have a good grip over and adeptly manage things, I suppose.
Practically, I don't know.

Thank you! That's a good reason.

beancurdturtle wrote:
My first ex-wife was 2 years older than me. But that wasn't the problem.

What was the problem?
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 3:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

woman is two years older? come on! no big deal!!!

I have never dated any guys who're older than me, the youngest one was 6 years younger than me(due to fate I guess, actually, I like older men, but older men don't seem interested in me Crying or Very sad ), However, I didn't feel old when I was with those young folks, instead, we had some great time, especially sex time Razz

However, I can't stand if my boyfriend is over 10 years younger than me. that's too young.

Basically, two years younger is not a problem. however, I would love to try an older guy for a change Laughing
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 4:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ad-miral wrote:

beancurdturtle wrote:
My first ex-wife was 2 years older than me. But that wasn't the problem.

What was the problem?

Difference in understanding of reality.
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 8:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

beancurdturtle wrote:
ad-miral wrote:

beancurdturtle wrote:
My first ex-wife was 2 years older than me. But that wasn't the problem.

What was the problem?

Difference in understanding of reality.


The problem was: the girl was sexually insatiable, and she worn Turtle out. At that time, Turtle was too young to meet this girl sexual desire Laughing
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 02, 2007 10:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RedRose wrote:
The problem was: the girl was sexually insatiable, and she worn Turtle out. At that time, Turtle was too young to meet this girl sexual desire Laughing

Haha! Where in the world would you get this impression my prudish friend? Very Happy

I was healthy and capable when I was young - and that has not yet changed. Wink

You are a nut! Laughing
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PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2007 5:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

beancurdturtle wrote:
RedRose wrote:
The problem was: the girl was sexually insatiable, and she worn Turtle out. At that time, Turtle was too young to meet this girl sexual desire Laughing

Haha! Where in the world would you get this impression my prudish friend? Very Happy

I was healthy and capable when I was young - and that has not yet changed. Wink

You are a nut! Laughing


Then you were the insatiable one Razz
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My ex was younger than me. I felt he is not mature enough to think about our future. He prefered pleasures to work.

I dont know why but now i wanna have bf who is older than me Very Happy
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ad-miral



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 11:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Laughing ok thank you guys, you can see her on my homepage
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 2:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ad-miral wrote:
Laughing ok thank you guys, you can see her on my homepage


Where is your homepage?

And we would appreciate it if we can find some naked pictures of you and your young fox Laughing
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 1:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Come on! You know where my homepage is! Don't play with me, it's not thaaat funny.
And have you ever heared anything about privacy? Laughing Laughing Laughing

However I think Dave will be very angry if his users publish obvious porn pictures here.
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 4:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ad-miral wrote:
However I think Dave will be very angry if his users publish obvious porn pictures here.


I don't buy that. On the contrary, I think David is a Pornagraphy-lover, I don't why I come to such a conclusion, just a kind of feeling Laughing
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PostPosted: Sun Sep 09, 2007 4:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

RedRose wrote:
ad-miral wrote:
However I think Dave will be very angry if his users publish obvious porn pictures here.


I don't buy that. On the contrary, I think David is a Pornagraphy-lover, I don't know why I come to such a conclusion, just a kind of feeling Laughing
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