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newboy198 · Joined: 16 Feb 2004 Posts: 2 Location: Beijing，China

I broke up with my girlfriend just a few days ago.She's my first girlfriend.We had been together for less than 3 months.
At the beginning,she said to me,"I'll not break up with u on my own."At that moment,I replied,"No,thanks.I need no promises."(She said that's a promise.)
Hah,now u see I'm right.Both honeyed words and solemn pledge of love are unreliable.They are both *beep*.Women are likely to be changeable.Maybe my oponion is cynical,but it's exactly what I think about modern love now.
"Some kind of love is used to give up."Somebody else says.I agree with it.
Single simple,double trouble.
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liebe · Joined: 16 May 2003 Posts: 117

Ha, you think that only women are like this?! That's not true. I find men to be real pigs sometimes. They say that they love you when they don't mean it and just want to get into your pants, they promise you things they don't mean, they lie to you and I was hurt so often by men. I agree with you that so few people want a real love nowadays, isn't it? People only want to be rich and to have sex with as many people as possible, no one really want to love someone. Sometimes I wish I could meet a great guy who would love me, who would want love as much as I do, but I know that it's impossible. Well, I've learned to accept the reality of this world. I got used to being on my own, too.

newboy198 · Joined: 16 Feb 2004 Posts: 2 Location: Beijing，China

Maybe u're right,but I find u're more cynical than I.
I believe there are still true loves in the world,though it's getting scarcer.But it really exists.
Don't lose ur heart.I'll find the guy who would love u from his heart.It's possible.
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Sometimes,I have to live as a hedgehog,though I don't wanna do that.'Cause somepeople or something is always hurting me.They're deceiving each other all day.I hate them extremly while I love every beautiful thing in the world.

renisha · Joined: 12 Jan 2004 Posts: 32 Location: malaysia

I think most of the problems caused by boys.Boys are not open-minded in telling the truth,they always like to hide something in their heart and if they get angry they like to tell whatever rubbish that they keep in their heart.there are good boys but the majority are bad boys. Mad

Boys always like to hurt their girl i don't know what they get from that.
they like to complain about others but ignore and hide the mistake that they did.it's not fair...... Wink

so if boys are good women will be superb....
no women no life Razz

simple is unloving,double is caring and loving...... which is a real human being... Twisted Evil

MaxX7 · Joined: 24 Jun 2004 Posts: 49 Location: Home

thats not true
women say they are great men say they are great
everytime you start this fright and get
to no end
what are the results? you are still hanging trying to figuer out whats the truth
nobodys perfect. life of man is diffrent he has other problems to cope up with
life of a women is diffrent she has other problems to cope
if you really love somebody you have to understand what they feel
and if you cant do so then you dont love that person
many people now-a-days do street love
thats when you walk in the street you look at a girl or boy and you his/her face next day you talk to them and then it goes on
and you say you love him/her?
thats not what you call love
when you really love somebody you care about them you try and understand their problems
its not like the other you walk in the street and you like somebody else and leave the last one you have had

well thats what my opinion
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emily · Joined: 05 Aug 2004 Posts: 2

your love doesn't mean love,it's more appropriate to say she likes you.in my opinion,true love builds on true understand,not appeareance's appealing.i also belive love needs times testing.if a person really loves you, he /she will keep this feeling forever.nomater the situation is,and nomatter what you are, he/she is still the only one support you.the only fans of you. when love doesn't exist,do not complain boys or girls are bad.nohing is perfect,neither man nor woman.

Honey · Joined: 25 Apr 2003 Posts: 89 Location: Colombia

I totally agree!!! (Finally) Rolling Eyes

I mean, it's different to say you "like" someone to say you "love" someone.
Nowadays, it's very dificult to make a distinction between men and women, since both of them consider love is total freedom Evil or Very Mad

,so they do whatever they want tith that feeling, with their partner and even with themselves. Confused

As a woman, I say that, sadly, women have also changed, as well. However, I cannot say we're worst. Both are worst, but we can't overgeneralize. That would be very inappropriate... Razz

Well... At least I think so. Rolling Eyes

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Force_9 · Joined: 23 Dec 2004 Posts: 63 Location: Oregon

One of the hardest things for people to understand these days is that love is something you have to decide to do...it's not an emotion, like happiness, and it's not a feeling.
I know that many of you are not Christians, but I think the best definition of love is the one found in the Bible.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 says "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, [selfish] it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres."

I don't know about anyone else, but I try to always remember to treat my girlfriend with the kind of love that the Bible teaches.
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nano · Joined: 03 Feb 2005 Posts: 1

hi every one i m very sorry for you and i hope found anther women to start your life withe her Laughing

your`s
nano

volleybeach · Joined: 03 Feb 2005 Posts: 3 Location: United States

i think ill have to agree with the girls on this one. Im so tired of guys that its hard to go to school, thanks bye

sali · Joined: 29 Jan 2005 Posts: 2

Hi, i'm sad for you because your experience ended in such a bad way .
I think it's not true that women are the same .Try to meet other girls .
Your ex-girlfriend doesn't love you,you should forget her.

lili_85 · Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 16

yes iam sure max is right thanks max i said to must people this love is not true but no boody cant belive me i put a topic for that Sad

you can go az read okay
bye now Wink

stellara · Joined: 02 Apr 2005 Posts: 583 Location: germany

hey all!

please don't say things like woman are changeable or men tend to not tell the truth, because that's not right! sure there are men who lie and woman who are changeable but the same is on the other gender so don't generalize these things! I don't think that it depends on the sex but more on the personality. and I think it is as hard for men to be lied at or to be dropped as it is for women.
and further I think that nearly no person deserve to be forgotten! because there are always some happy moments in a relationship (otherwise it's a really weird one!) that are worth remembering!

ciao
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lucyfan3956 · Joined: 01 Apr 2005 Posts: 11

Force_9 · Joined: 23 Dec 2004 Posts: 63 Location: Oregon

Well said! Very Happy

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