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phucauto
Joined: 25 Nov 2005
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and ive been thinking and i think those cant be judged by the other ppl.so still i dont believe in internet friends,but i cant say there r no trust. |
you don't believe in internet friends,???
we join this forum to express our viewpoints of life, make friends? if you don't believe in what other people posted here, so for what reason you enter here??if you don't believe in internet friends because there isn't enough trust, I bet that you're always living in doubt? even in real life, you won't believe in a real friend until they show you enough evidence to prove that they're your true friends.
The life's so bored with you!!
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and for me,even i cant meet my bf for now,i dont think its internet love. of course the ways we only can use r phone,email or MSN,but ive been making a lot of trust.and it is because longdistance love affair.and there r thousand of cuoples in the longdistance love affair.its not internet love.
how could u say there r no love between each couple? because of no kiss and sex? or what? some r waiting for their bf backing from army like me,or studying abroad,jobs so on.
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when I discuss about internet love, It means that I had enough conditions and belief to translate it into a real love. 
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ville
Joined: 19 Sep 2005
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hahaha i dont mean like that.not at all.
if u join this forum,and even only once u exchanged ur opinion with someone else,then he/she is ur friend then? im here to know what ppl all over the world think in the particular subject. and i have many friends whom i can trust deeply.because we had a lot of things together.sadness,happiness,pain and quarrel... u sound like we can get friends in instant by joining this forum,for example. and i show close friends, whom i can trust, the weakness, tears, mental problems... u know that it takes a lot of times and conversations. it requires to know the person to trust and to be trusted. and if i were really depressed,i wouldnt have such a power to open my pc and talk to someone else whom ive never seen face. but some ppl do that way, so i dont doubt, just not real for me. spending a lot of time is important i think. |
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phucauto
Joined: 25 Nov 2005
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Location: HaNoi/VietNam
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| Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 4:26 am Post subject: |
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hahaha i dont mean like that.not at all.
if u join this forum,and even only once u exchanged ur opinion with someone else,then he/she is ur friend then? im here to know what ppl all over the world think in the particular subject. |
but you will never know, never understand because you doubt other ppl, you don't believe in them 
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004
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Location: GuangZhou, China
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| Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 8:53 am Post subject: |
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| if u join this forum,and even only once u exchanged ur opinion with someone else,then he/she is ur friend then? im here to know what ppl all over the world think in the particular subject. . |
Since you don't trust internet people, how can you know what ppl all over the world think? that's a typical paradox.
From your opinion, people don't say the truth on internet, and they don't show their personalities on internet, then you can just get some lies from people. Maybe you are the one who is crazy about lies. that's ok. because some people have some different hobbies. Although I don't share your special hobbies, I still can tolerate your special personality. Good luck. |
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Joined: 19 Sep 2005
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Maybe you are the one who is crazy about lies. that's ok. because some people have some different hobbies. Although I don't share your special hobbies, I still can tolerate your special personality. Good luck. Back to top
i dont have to be said that i love telling lies.
its difficult to know someone deeply only typed words. tone of voice, face expression or the way to talk can be crues to know that person. having met before is a big matter for me,i think. ppl can fake in the real world and on the internet as well. i just said theres possibilities and its higher than real world. thats why i dont believe internet. i think what u say"friends" is u hit it off, for me. but its none of my business anyway. |
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004
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Location: GuangZhou, China
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| Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 9:53 am Post subject: |
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i dont have to be said that i love telling lies.
its difficult to know someone deeply only typed words. tone of voice, face expression or the way to talk can be crues to know that person. having met before is a big matter for me,i think. ppl can fake in the real world and on the internet as well. i just said theres possibilities and its higher than real world. thats why i dont believe internet. i think what u say"friends" is u hit it off, for me. but its none of my business anyway. |
there is such a possibility. but that shouldn't be the reason for us to distrust all internet people. My internet friends help me improve my english, and when I feel blue, they cheer me up by telling me something amusing; and sometimes they give me useful advices when I need...that's true, and that's what a friend for, whether internet friends or realistic friends, they make me feel the same--->friendship, support, concern. that's why I am grateful to my friends, from both internet and real life.
You distrust internet people, that's your bussiness indeed. but I still think it is a pity for you. |
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::NiCE::
Joined: 09 Nov 2005
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ADAM MICKIEWICZ
Polish romantic poet and playwright, the leader of Polish Romanticism. Mickiewicz's best-known works include Forefathers' Eve, Grazyna, Konrad Wallenrod, and the long narrative poem Pan Tadeusz. Much of Mickiewicz's work was written in exile in Russia. After release he spent the rest of his life in Western Europe, where he became the spiritual leader of Polish emigr�s.
"Litva! My country, like art thou to health,
For how to prize thee alone can tell
Who has lost thee. I behold thy beauty now
In full adornment, and I sing of it
Because I long for thee."
(from Pan Tadeusz)
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THE ROMANTIC
"Silly girl, listen!"
But she doesn't listen
While the village roofs glisten,
Bright in the sun.
"Silly girl, what do you do there,
As if there were someone to view there,
A face to gaze on and greet there,
A live form warmly to meet there,
When there is no one, none, do you hear?"
But she doesn't hear.
Like a dead stone
She stands there alone,
Staring ahead of her, peering around
For something that has to be found
Till, suddenly spying it,
She touches it, clutches it,
Laughing and crying.
Is it you, my Johnny, my true love, my dear?
I knew you would never forget me,
Even in death! Come with me, let me
Show you the way now!
Hold your breath, though,
And tiptoe lest stepmother hear!
What can she hear? They have made him
A grave, two years ago laid him
Away with the dead.
Save me, Mother of God! I'm afraid.
But why? Why should I flee you now?
What do I dread?
Not Johnny! My Johnny won't hurt me.
It is my Johnny! I see you now,
Your eyes, your white shirt.
But it's pale as linen you are,
Cold as winter you are!
Let my lips take the cold from you,
Kiss the chill o f the mould from you.
Dearest love, let me die with you,
In the deep earth lie with you,
For this world is dark and dreary,
I am lonely and weary!
Alone among the unkind ones
Who mock at my vision,
My tears their derision,
Seeing nothing, the blind ones!
Dear God! A *beep* is crowing,
Whitely glimmers the dawn.
Johnny! Where are you going?
Don't leave me! I am forlorn!
So, caressing, talking aloud to her
Lover, she stumbles and falls,
And her cry of anguish calls
A pitying crowd to her.
"Cross yourselves! It is, surely,
Her Johnny come back from the grave:
While he lived, he loved her entirely.
May God his soul now save!"
Hearing what they are saying,
I, too, start praying.
"The girl is out of her senses!"
Shouts a man with a learned air,
"My eye and my lenses
Know there's nothing there.
Ghosts are a myth
Of ale-wife and blacksmith.
Clodhoppers! This is treason
Against King Reason!"
"Yet the girl loves," I reply diffidently,
"And the people believe reverently:
Faith and love are more discerning
Than lenses or learning.
You know the dead truths, not the living,
The world of things, not the world of loving.
Where does any miracle start?
Cold eye, look in your heart!"
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::NiCE::
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'*'-.,_,.-'*'-.,_,.-'*'-.,Do YoU LIkE LoVe PoEmS??__,.-'*'-.,_,.-'*'-.,_,.-'*'-.,
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::NiCE::
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History of Valentine's Day
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For Sweethearts and lovers there is Valentine's Day
To say that, "I love you", in a most special way
With flowers, candy, and cards saying, "I care,"
I reached into my pockets, but my pockets were bare
If I could slide down a rainbow, to a pot of gold
And, have all the treasures my pockets could hold
I'd buy you a dream you could hold on to
I'd buy you an Angel to watch over you
With all the things my treasures could buy
I'd buy a smile for your face and a wink for your eye
I'd buy you a star that you could wish on
I'd buy you the clouds, the wind, and the sun
If I had fortune and wealth untold
If my pockets were lined suddenly with gold
I'd buy you the world and place at your feet
I'd buy you an echo so your song could repeat
But all that I have I will offer to you
My love and a promise, I'll always be true
A heart that beats to the sound of your name
For faithful and true, I will always remain
I'll give you my heart, if you give me your hand
With three little words and a gold wedding band
I will have found my rainbow and pot of gold
I'd be far richer than my dreams could behold
If you'll be my Valentine, I will promise you this
A hug each night and to awake with a kiss
To be by your side every step of life's way
To make every day of our life, "Valentine's Day".
What is Love?
Love is .. a rainbow, right after the rain,
That hugs the sky, no two colours the same.
Love is .. a child, who cries out in the night.
Love is .. a mother who comforts their fright.
Love is .. an angel, who brightens our days,
In so many mystical, wonderful ways.
Love is .. the ocean, whose waves kiss the shore.
Love is .. the dew, on a crisp summer's morn'.
Love is .. a father, with strong hands to provide.
Love is .. the woman who stands by his side.
Love is .. a dove, flying high in the sky.
Love is .. wiping a tear from your best friends eye.
Love is .. sharing your feelings, with ones you hold dear.
Love is .. caring for people, both far and near.
Love is .. cradling someone, whose heart's full of sorrow.
Love is.. belief, in a brighter tomorrow.
Love is .. being honest in all that you do.
Love is .. strength from your friends, who never leave you.
Love is .. a bridge, between two lonely hearts,
Love is.. doesn't judge distance, no matter how far apart.
Love is .. a prayer, from the heart of a man.
Love is .. an answer, from God's Holy hand.
Love is .. the moonlight, shining on you.
Love is .. the sunshine, in a sky so blue.
Love is .. the wind, caressing the trees.
Love is .. the light in my eyes that you see.
Love is .. a flower born in the spring,
Love is .. a bird, soaring high, with spread wings.
Love is .. my friends, always there, and so true.
Love is .. what I think of, when I think of you.
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" From your Valentine"
In 496 A.D., Pope Gelasius set aside February 14 to honor St. Valentine
I wish everyone in the world to enjoy Valentine's Day::NICE::
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admiral
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| Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2006 9:41 am Post subject: |
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you don't believe in internet friends,???
we join this forum to express our viewpoints of life, make friends? if you don't believe in what other people posted here, so for what reason you enter here??if you don't believe in internet friends because there isn't enough trust, I bet that you're always living in doubt? even in real life, you won't believe in a real friend until they show you enough evidence to prove that they're your true friends.
The life's so bored with you!! |
phuc, here, I give you some reasons:
1. You don't know how the other guy looks like.
2. You don't know anything else about him than words and pictures.
3. He has more possibility to pretend to be the one you like and you have less possibility to realize it.
4. You have more possibility to overestimate or underrate his true character. That leads in massive problems.
5. The life is real, so you have to live in the reality, and not in your internet, or something else.
And you mean that the life is bored with me? That means you define "interesting life" by "having a girlfriend on internet"? Is it what you mean?
 If it is so, then you need to have a girlfriend in reality, to let you see that any girlfriends on internet can't be prepared with her.
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| when I discuss about internet love, It means that I had enough conditions and belief to translate it into a real love |
My personal thought towards it: If you do internet love, it means that you don't have enough confidence towards real love, or it means that you are too frightened to search the real love, or it means that you are dreaming about something which is not real.
Formal friendship is ok, and maybe it's also a way to talk with people if one is lonely, and maybe it's a start for a meeting in the future, which could lead to real friendship. That's the way of becoming friends on internet.
According to this, internet love is illogical because love depends on time, on ration, on understanding, on personal value, and on presence.
Over the medium internet, it's very hard to keep a relationship long, because there is one thing which connects you with her, the computer. It is between you, her mouth, and her brain.
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phucauto
Joined: 25 Nov 2005
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| Posted: Sun Feb 12, 2006 2:12 am Post subject: |
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admiral, I lost! ok? time will give me the answer.
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004
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| Posted: Sun Feb 12, 2006 7:54 am Post subject: |
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| admiral, I lost! ok? time will give me the answer. |
But internet love is supposed to be fruitless and romantic. |
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::NiCE::
Joined: 09 Nov 2005
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Voici mon secret. Il est tr�s simple: on ne voit bien qu'avec le coeur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.
It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; What is essential is invisible to the eye.
What do y think abt it??^^^^^^^
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kingofhell
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| At first i dont believe in love at the first sight ,but it happen to me 5 months ago, when i felt in love at the first sight ,even till now i love her . i think that the love at the first sight is the best relation that will continue and be succeed.IF it not happen to me i dont believe it for all my life |
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::NiCE::
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