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Michelle 1203



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 1:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

>>RedRose

You have no mission!?
I think that is not ture.
All human begings have some missions that is why we were born on this world.
Why don't you look for your mission?
Sometimes you are not realizing your mission.
You have the mission .
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 1:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Michelle 1203 wrote:
>>All human begings have some missions that is why we were born on this world.
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why were we born? that's a silly question, IMHO.

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Why don't you look for your mission?


Why should I? I am living a happy life, I don't see why I should waste time to think about something complicated.
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beancurdturtle



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 1:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My mission is to live in harmony, contentment, and peace.

If the world wants to join me in my mission, that would be great! But I know this is unlikely, and a waste of time to try to make it happen.

Most people are more concerned about superficial things like money, good looks, and material possessions.

That's ok - live and learn. Smile
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 1:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

RedRose wrote:

why were we born? that's a silly question, IMHO.

I agree with you. Same amount of sillyness as "what happens after we die?"
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ad-miral



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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why were we born? that's a silly question, IMHO.

That's not a silly question! We were born to earn money.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ad-miral wrote:
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why were we born? that's a silly question, IMHO.

That's not a silly question! We were born to earn money.


Yeah, we are alive to make money, and love Laughing Laughing
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

oh rr how good you understand me!
Yeah we are born to love because of the sexual organs in our body. And to get the love we need to have money.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 6:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ad-miral wrote:
oh rr how good you understand me!
Yeah we are born to love because of the sexual organs in our body. And to get the love we need to have money.


you are money+boob-oriented.
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ad-miral



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 2:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If I'm not (so called) "boob-oriented", then I'm not a real guy. You know as long as I'm normal and not homosexual, I'm "boob-oriented", so I can't do anything about it.

But the money orientation is the key of success in this modern society. So there is a big difference in both orientations: "boob-orientation" is what I should be naturally, and money orietation is my own realization as the best method to get power.

So for me money-orientation is more important.

PS: Come out of your strange Freud-kind of thinking which says that sexuality is the main point in love! Freud's thinking was that of the 19th century, which has been influenced by the Victorian age very much, which is strongly materialistic!!! He could only be popular because there was a change of thinking in human head that spending money is more important than saving money, he could only be popular because all men had a materialistic thiking in that time!
If a man and a woman do nothing else than sex all day, will they be happy? NO!
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 28, 2006 2:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ad-miral wrote:
If I'm not (so called) "boob-oriented", then I'm not a real guy. You know as long as I'm normal and not homosexual, I'm "boob-oriented", so I can't do anything about it.
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Not really. some guys ain't gay, but they prefer women's butt to boobs, so they are supposed to be another sort: butt-oriented men.

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PS: Come out of your strange Freud-kind of thinking which says that sexuality is the main point in love! Freud's thinking was that of the 19th century, which has been influenced by the Victorian age very much, which is strongly materialistic!!! He could only be popular because there was a change of thinking in human head that spending money is more important than saving money, he could only be popular because all men had a materialistic thiking in that time!


I admit that I used to be a fan of Frued. especially during my college years. but not anymore. but I still have a materialistic thinking. therefore, I don't think what's wrong with money-orientation.

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If a man and a woman do nothing else than sex all day, will they be happy? NO


I don't completely agree with you. imagine: a womanizer and a hooker would be very happy asthey have sex all day long and all night long, as long as this hooker dosen't have syphilis or something like that.
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mimie1008



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 15, 2007 7:44 pm    Post subject: mission in my life... Reply with quote

How are you gys? I'm not bad.

I think mission in my life is to establish myself.
As a woman, I may should have a baby.
So I am living my life.
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 15, 2007 9:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ad-miral wrote:
But the money orientation is the key of success in this modern society.

Sometimes money comes from success, sometimes success comes from money. Sometimes money comes from luck - but not often. But money does not equal success.

Money is basically the usual way people in modern society keeps score. Not peace, contentment, or happiness - but money. That seems screwed up to me.

I used to be a Vice President in one of the most exclusive International Private Banks in the world. All of my customers had lots of money. None less than US$5 million, the highest over US$100 million. They were the most stressed, unhappy, frightened group of people I have ever met.

It is very common for wealthy people to live their life in fear that they will lose their wealth. I left that career because I couldn't spend my time around people that were more concerned about the score than about being content.
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fii



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 15, 2007 10:30 pm    Post subject: Mission Reply with quote

We all have a mission Very Happy

Each of us has our own, indispensable role that only we can fulfill Laughing

Therefore, let's respect each other,

and praise one another!!!!

I'm student Very Happy

So, I think my mission is to study hard for world peace Razz

Thank you!
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ad-miral



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PostPosted: Fri Jan 19, 2007 9:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

beancurdturtle wrote:
Sometimes money comes from success, sometimes success comes from money. Sometimes money comes from luck - but not often. But money does not equal success.

Money is basically the usual way people in modern society keeps score. Not peace, contentment, or happiness - but money. That seems screwed up to me.

I used to be a Vice President in one of the most exclusive International Private Banks in the world. All of my customers had lots of money. None less than US$5 million, the highest over US$100 million. They were the most stressed, unhappy, frightened group of people I have ever met.

It is very common for wealthy people to live their life in fear that they will lose their wealth. I left that career because I couldn't spend my time around people that were more concerned about the score than about being content.


Oh really? I haven't thought about it yet. Yeah maybe you are right. If I want to earn big money I also have to spend much time into it, therefore I won't have that much time with friends, with girlfriend, and most important, with my hobby! I would become fat and unsporty (have I told you that I have optimal body-mass-index? Mr. Green )

Yeah you are right, the most important thing is to live a happy life. Laughing You are a nice guy.
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kathepurn



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 26, 2007 4:43 pm    Post subject: Re: What is your mission? Reply with quote

Michelle 1203 wrote:
Let's share your mission!!
If you don't know your mission, let's find it!!
Life is only one time
Time is money, don't waste your time!! Very Happy Very Happy





You say the truth. Moments in the life you live one time. The mission in our life may be to help to other people, because we can to give good things and else. When you are good with you family, friends or neighbours you are good with yourself. In the beginning you have not the aim of your life clear, but you destiny will put it in the way. ok
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