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| you were good friends in the childhood/ she is your first love |
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| she cares about you very much |
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| her face looks so pretty |
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| her horoskope fits perfectly to yours |
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| she has the same interests as you |
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| she/ her parents has/ have a lot of money |
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| she is very polite and very sociable/ talkative/ popular |
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| talking with her makes you happy/ you always have something to say to each other |
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ad-miral
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wing
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None of the above, but some are the reasons why I like him, or would choose him, if I needed.
I think it's worth to love someone who is willing to do everything just for you. And that is what I would die for.
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beancurdturtle
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| Posted: Thu Nov 16, 2006 10:13 pm Post subject: |
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| wing wrote: |
| I think it's worth to love someone who is willing to do everything just for you. And that is what I would die for. |
Unselfish love, too often one-sided.
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�Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.�
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wing
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| Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 3:45 am Post subject: |
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| beancurdturtle wrote: |
| wing wrote: |
| I think it's worth to love someone who is willing to do everything just for you. And that is what I would die for. |
Unselfish love, too often one-sided. |
Hm...Unfortunately, including love, nothing is perfect. Love is all about givings and takings. I still believe an angel only follows who can give more than what they take.
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beancurdturtle
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| Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 6:14 am Post subject: |
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| wing wrote: |
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| wing wrote: |
| I think it's worth to love someone who is willing to do everything just for you. And that is what I would die for. |
Unselfish love, too often one-sided. |
Hm...Unfortunately, including love, nothing is perfect. Love is all about givings and takings. I still believe an angle only follows who can give more than what they take. |
You are right - nothing is perfect.
I would say that love is all about both people giving. If it's "giving and taking" then it's commerce, not love.
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Fri Nov 17, 2006 6:32 am Post subject: |
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Fromm also says that "giving is more important than taking and that real lovers would only give to each other without taking. But we also need to know what to give. "Love" is too abstract and in reality that's (or that should?) be understanding each other's disadvantages, being interested in each other's life and still wanting to give.
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wing
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| Posted: Sat Nov 18, 2006 5:27 pm Post subject: |
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| beancurdturtle wrote: |
I would say that love is all about both people giving. If it's "giving and taking" then it's commerce, not love. |
What I really mean is not about material wealth that someone can give, and the other one takes certainly, but something more related to emotions and the spiritual world.
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