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Snake777
Joined: 05 Nov 2005 Posts: 301 Location: Ho CHi Minh , Viet Nam
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 2:12 am Post subject: |
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RedRose wrote: |
Snake777 wrote: |
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But my own opinion , hmmnn i will save it for my future husband hahaha |
You are a good girl
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Lol ofcourse , i'm a good girl
Hey , i dont know why but i have some wierd feelings when i read this topic lol . We rarely talk about sex here . And i'm sure my parents would probably freaked out if they saw what i am writing eventhough they dont understand english but they see the word " S**" haha they dont like that word at all  |
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 7:15 am Post subject: |
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Snake777 wrote: |
RedRose wrote: |
Snake777 wrote: |
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But my own opinion , hmmnn i will save it for my future husband hahaha |
You are a good girl
I am not  |
Lol ofcourse , i'm a good girl
Hey , i dont know why but i have some wierd feelings when i read this topic lol . We rarely talk about sex here . And i'm sure my parents would probably freaked out if they saw what i am writing eventhough they dont understand english but they see the word " S**" haha they dont like that word at all  |
Your parents seem very similar to mine. I recall, when I was about 7~8 years old, my mom took me to the cinema where a Mexican love movie was being played. when I watched a couple of lovers hugging and kissing on the movie screen, and they looked so passionate. I asked my mom:"what's that about?" my mom answered:"a man and a woman are doing something evil! you'd better close your eyes until I ask you open them!"
OMG!! people all over the world are doing something evil!! and people all love to!! |
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eda

Joined: 01 Apr 2005 Posts: 379 Location: Ankara/Turkey
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 8:32 am Post subject: |
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[quote="RedRose"]I am not a girl anymore, but I am a virgin
kidding, of course. nobody would believe I am a virgin! if I said I am a virgin, it sounds like Bush says: [b]US is trying to help Iraq order her country and oil and economy.[/b][/quote]
hahaha
great example  _________________ invasion is so succexy so succexy. |
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Hardi
Joined: 10 Nov 2005 Posts: 72 Location: Estonia
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 8:58 am Post subject: |
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Well.... there is a surgery that makes you again to virgin. I have heard, that In some countries it's very popular. |
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Bob S.

Joined: 29 Apr 2004 Posts: 1767 Location: So. Cal
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 12:37 pm Post subject: |
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RedRose wrote: |
if a couple love each other, then they should sleep together, and they don't have to get married.... since they love each other, why can't they have sex?" |
To quote Tina Turner, what's love got to do with it? A guy gets a pēnis itch and looks for a warm wet place to scratch his itch. Sometimes he has to pay for it. Sometimes he gets it for free by saying "Oooo baby I LUV you SO much!" But don't fool yourself. For a male, love has got nothin' to do with it. As long as you understand that, everything is fine. But if you actually believe his "oooo baby" line, then you are too immature to be having sex.
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but as long as nothing goes wrong it's okay to have sex at 15 i think.. |
Eh?! Some stupid kid who can't remember to turn off the light when she leaves a room or do her homework can be trusted to remember to bring a condom, a diaphragm, and take a pill every day? Gawd save us from these little girls who are playing like grown-up women. You know, they end up getting impregnated by guys in their 20's and 30's. _________________ "It is impossible to speak in such a way that you cannot be misunderstood." -- Karl Popper |
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dragon2008
Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 25
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 5:05 pm Post subject: |
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I have sex with my gf(now she is my wife) when we are 20 yearsold. Before we got married we lived tegother. That's ok as long as you love each other.
but, 15? That's too young to have sex. Such young girl yet haven't ability to answer for such behavior. 15, they still a student in junior high school that they should take much energy to study. _________________ To enjoy the life! |
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stellara

Joined: 02 Apr 2005 Posts: 583 Location: germany
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Posted: Fri Jan 06, 2006 5:51 am Post subject: |
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Bob S. wrote: |
Eh?! Some stupid kid who can't remember to turn off the light when she leaves a room or do her homework can be trusted to remember to bring a condom, a diaphragm, and take a pill every day? Gawd save us from these little girls who are playing like grown-up women. You know, they end up getting impregnated by guys in their 20's and 30's. |
okay, okay, i also said *if* they prevent in the right way, means the pill and a condom, the I think it's unlikely to get pregnant. but you're right, probably they are too young to think of both, or even one.
When my female friends were 16, they went to the gynecologist and took the anti-baby pill, they didn't forget it. if they wore a condom too, I don't know but they are not pregnant so they made it to prevent the right way. so I didn't remember that fifteen may be a bit young to think of a good prevention.. but in case of doubt, you are absolutely right.
okay, in germany there are other attitudes towards early sex than in America (and else, like china, i see ) which is ahm, fairly a pity if not more. there is a magazine for young girls, used to be read by 14-16 years old girls but now it's read by 11/12-years old girls, too it's a bit like "cosmopolitan" for young girls, some fashion advices, some articles like "What boys like"/"how to flirt in the right way" things like that. but there's also a question-and-answer part in which girls or also boys can write to the editor and get answers. mostly there are questions about sex, the First Time, preventing and so on. like i said, in the past (hm, maybe ten years ago) the readers were about 15/16/17. now I see girls in the fifth/sixth grade read this magazine! (here they attend the fifth grade with 11). and from what I understood, to have sex with 13/14 is not that unusual here anymore. that's a shame!
so with this background I thought having sex with 15 is okay, as long as they prevent well (mainly because having sex with 13 is absolutely not okay!) do you understand me now?
greets  _________________ Don't cry because it's over - smile because it happened!
MOKEY ROCKS!!! |
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 12:09 am Post subject: |
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Bob S. wrote: |
Sometimes he gets it for free by saying "Oooo baby I LUV you SO much!" But don't fool yourself. For a male, love has got nothin' to do with it. As long as you understand that, everything is fine. But if you actually believe his "oooo baby" line, then you are too immature to be having sex. |
Nobody never told me "ooooo, baby"! HHAHAHAHAHHAHA |
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Hayde
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 177 Location: Icheon, Korea
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 9:56 pm Post subject: |
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My favourite pick-up line is... (I NEVER USE THIS, but I heard it once)
"I lost my teddybear, will you sleep with me?"
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:16 am Post subject: |
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Hayde wrote: |
My favourite pick-up line is... (I NEVER USE THIS, but I heard it once)
"I lost my teddybear, will you sleep with me?"
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what do you mean by teddybear here? that means d-ick? if so, then this sentence is pretty funny!!!  |
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stellara

Joined: 02 Apr 2005 Posts: 583 Location: germany
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:59 am Post subject: |
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no I think in this case it just means a cuddly toy which every one has, normally it's a teddy bear but can be any animal or toy you liked/used to sleep with when you were a child.
funny association anyway but I would be shocked if anyone then expects more from me than just laying in bed and sleeping  _________________ Don't cry because it's over - smile because it happened!
MOKEY ROCKS!!! |
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Hayde
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 177 Location: Icheon, Korea
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 4:07 am Post subject: |
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stellara wrote: |
no I think in this case it just means a cuddly toy which every one has, normally it's a teddy bear but can be any animal or toy you liked/used to sleep with when you were a child.
funny association anyway but I would be shocked if anyone then expects more from me than just laying in bed and sleeping  |
Yes, stellara is right. It is a cute toy most children (and a lot of grown up women) have. Men don't usually have one, so it is a little funnier
Here this is for you RedRose.
And this is for you Stellara
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admiral

Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Posts: 546
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 6:51 am Post subject: |
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Condoms also carry a 15% failure rate. That's quite high.
So I really think that not doing it is much more safer than anything else.
Everybody thinks that with condoms everything is ok, I doubt this idea. _________________ If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I love inside you everyone else. I love the whole world because of you. I also love myself inside you" |
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stellara

Joined: 02 Apr 2005 Posts: 583 Location: germany
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 8:25 am Post subject: |
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oh, I just was a bit confused about your comment because it's absolutely not referred to our cuddly toy discussion..
no, you're right condoms are fallible. but the anti-baby pill is quite secure (its Pearl-Index is between 0.1 - 0.9, the one of a condom is around 2 - 12, see The Pearl Index (en) or The Pearl Index (de)) so if you're taking the pill and the man's wearing a condom (to prevent diseases) it should be pretty okay.
Hayde *thanks* for this wonderful, cute teddy!!!  _________________ Don't cry because it's over - smile because it happened!
MOKEY ROCKS!!! |
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 8:36 pm Post subject: |
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wow! Hayde, I love my cute teddy!! thank you so much!!
Kiss from China! |
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