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RedRose
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I must have missed something! or something I don't get....
So winky, is he your blood-relative brother or just classmate? if he was your classmate, then you guys must have fellen in love with each other, if he's your blood-relative brother, then I don't see why you guys should be so sad for not being in the same class anymore. after all, you guys can still get along at home. |
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winky
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| Posted: Sat May 12, 2007 6:59 pm Post subject: |
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| RedRose wrote: |
I must have missed something! or something I don't get.....
So winky, is he your blood-relative brother or just classmate? if he was your classmate, then you guys must have fellen in love with each other, if he's your blood-relative brother, then I don't see why you guys should be so sad for not being in the same class anymore. after all, you guys can still get along at home. |
Yes,since I have explained it to Lorikeet!
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He is not my real brother since we don't have any kin!
I didn't know who he was until I entered senior high school!
For we had a lot of things in common,I would like to regard him as my brother,and he would like to call me sister!
So I prefer him to be my "brother" like a friend(But not a boyfriend!)!
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Fall in love?  I don't think so~~~ 
And now,since I have told him something,he might be angry or sad now!We didn't meet each other for about two weeks!I know,he is eluding me,maybe so am I ! 
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 10:53 am Post subject: |
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I have a tip for you: Let your "brother" read this discussion "A parting Lantern Festival!" and see how he reacts.
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winky
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| Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 1:57 am Post subject: |
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| ad-miral wrote: |
| I have a tip for you: Let your "brother" read this discussion "A parting Lantern Festival!" and see how he reacts. |
Er...
He didn't come to see me from then on~~~ 
I am confused!!!
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 4:16 am Post subject: |
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maybe he has a girlfriend
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RedRose
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| Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 5:52 am Post subject: |
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| ad-miral wrote: |
| maybe he has a girlfriend |
I think so too. |
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winky
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| Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 5:52 am Post subject: |
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| ad-miral wrote: |
| maybe he has a girlfriend |
No!He doesn't have one!
I meet him two times during these days.From his eyes,I know he still remembers me!And...
However,I don't know the reason why he doesn't greet me?!
Is he angry or sad?
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beancurdturtle
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| Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 10:17 am Post subject: |
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Sorry to be so direct, but you're going to drive yourself crazy.
It's critical for a woman's good mental health to have confidence that she knows the true feelings of her partner in an emotional relationship. Seeing something to guess at in his eyes, or in his lack of attention will make you crazy.
Find a man with some confidence. Find a man who can let you know exactly what he feels.
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 11:11 am Post subject: |
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| winky wrote: |
| ad-miral wrote: |
| maybe he has a girlfriend |
No!He doesn't have one!
I meet him two times during these days.From his eyes,I know he still remembers me!And...
However,I don't know the reason why he doesn't greet me?!
Is he angry or sad? |
how about asking him 
There are some shy boys who don't speak if they are not confronted.
Platon said: "The actual real thing inside the reality is the depth of the reality."
If you only guess his feelings, you won't touch the reality because it's
only thinkings in your head.
And I don't really see the problem in asking him: "Why are you not talking to me any more?" Could anyone explain it to me?
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RedRose
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| Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 6:00 pm Post subject: |
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| beancurdturtle wrote: |
Sorry to be so direct, but you're going to drive yourself crazy.
It's critical for a woman's good mental health to have confidence that she knows the true feelings of her partner in an emotional relationship. Seeing something to guess at in his eyes, or in his lack of attention will make you crazy.
Find a man with some confidence. Find a man who can let you know exactly what he feels. |
I agree with Turtle. Yeah, winky, you are going crazy. it's time for you to move on. Find another boy instead.
Frankly, I don't think teenage love has any future, mostly. Because people of this age are very emotional and too romantic to concider future or relationship or something.
So just have fun dating, don't stick too much of yourself to the boy. |
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winky
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| Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 10:24 pm Post subject: |
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Oh~~~
I agree with beancurdturtle and RedRose,actually,I am really going to be crazy now!
I saw his notebook by accident yesterday.
All his diary were filled with "WINKY"!!!
What should I do?
All his words showed that he missed me very much~~
And,his friend told me he always satred at me deeply but he didn't let me know that!
So it means that he still remembers me,and ....Maybe he is missing me now! 
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winky
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| Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 10:32 pm Post subject: |
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| RedRose wrote: |
Find another boy instead.
Frankly, I don't think teenage love has any future, mostly. Because people of this age are very emotional and too romantic to concider future or relationship or something.
So just have fun dating, don't stick too much of yourself to the boy. |
Find another boy instead?
Oh,no!!!!
You know a true friend can't be instead by another one forever!
Though the boy cared for me,but I didn't think I loved him! I am sure that I only treated him as my good friend!
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ad-miral
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If your radio is broken you buy another, if your exercise book is full you buy another, if your boyfriend is too insubstancial you find another. What's the problem?
What seems to me is that you are his first love so he doesn't really know how to act according to you. For him it's like getting lost in a crowded city or so. Either you can talk with him or you let him find the right way by himself. I mean we are still young, aren't we? We don't have to hurry that much for finding a girl/ -boyfriend.
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RedRose
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| Posted: Sun May 20, 2007 1:17 am Post subject: |
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| I agree with Admiral on this issue. |
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hoshi
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| Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 1:51 pm Post subject: |
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I think winky loves him but she doesn't accept it
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