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RedRose



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PostPosted: Sun Aug 28, 2005 9:06 pm    Post subject: student-teacher relationship Reply with quote

I work for a Medicine college. so I see some male teachers date their female students. although my college made up a regulation about that teacher isn't allowed to date a student in my college, but many teachers still break this regulation frequently Wink

In my eyes, student-teacher relationship is normal, because love is great, and love can overcome many factors such as age, nationality, even gender Laughing (I mean, homosexual)

But what is your viewpoint about student-teacher relationship? are you against it?

you are welcome to tell us your viewpoint.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 6:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

In general, male teachers would love to date female students, especially, pretty girls Wink at least I have never seen a female teacher date a male student Wink

however, some girls date their teachers just for love, those girls really adore their teachers. I think that is reasonable. however, after those girls graduate from the college and enter into society, they will probably find someone else who is more suited than their teacher. and then their relationship will probably vanish.

some of student-teacher relationships go into marriages, that is a good come-off.
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cigarette



Joined: 28 Aug 2005
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 8:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I once loved my Math teacher in my high school, she was a pretty woman, and very smart. of course, the love had no future. she even didn't know I loved her. I remember she was 11 years older than me.

Now I have a girlfriend, I don't love my previous teacher anymore. but that nice memory had been always in my mind until last year. last year I went back to my home to spend my vacation. I happened to meet my previous math teacher. I couldn't believe my eyes, she had become so obese in only several years! from then on, I don't want her anymore.

Student-teacher relationship is complicated. If I were a teacher, I guess I wouldn't hit on my students. I always think a teacher is like a father or a mother to students.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2005 5:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

cigarette wrote:
I always think a teacher is like a father or a mother to students.


Not really. in my college, some young teachers have the simlilar age with their students. for example, a teacher just graduated from a master course last year, he is 25 years old now, and his students are about 20. such similar age....it is inevitable for love to happen Wink male teachers are always attracted to pretty students.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 7:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mr.Admiral wrote:
The teacher should be thrown out of the school


why??? love is sinless! if a female student is pretty and smart, it is hard for her teacher NOT to be in love with her Laughing
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