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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 3:12 am Post subject: have you ever suffered from sexual harassment? |
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I guess many woman have such experiences, especially from your boss.
when you face such harassment, how do you overcome it?
I have often suffered from sexual harassment from bosses since I graduated from university. and even when I was a college student, my chemistry teacher once sexually harassed me. I remember, it was in my first college year, after we finished my chemistry experiment, my teacher asked me to stay for a while, he claimed that he would tell me my mistakes in my chemistry experiment. I stayed. after all other classmates left, he told me:"you had no mistake in your experiment. I just wanna tell you how much I love you!" at that time, he hugged and kissed me without my consent! I felt so scared! you know, for a 17-year-old girl, that's definitely a shock! but I forced myself to calm down, and I told him:"teacher, you have to give me some time to think about your words, actually, you know? I also have some feelings for you I guess, but I am not sure!" he stopped while listening to my words. and he stared at me in surprise. I said:"yeah, I would tell you what I feel tomorrow, but now I have to pee. I guess I am too nervous!" he loosed me. I ran off in panic.
after I ran into my dorm, I felt very furious, and I decided to take revenge on him. the next night, I asked my best friend to accompany me to visit him in his appartment. my best friend talked to him, and I threw some lapactic into his cup when he was unaware.
In the following days, he even couldn't give a class I guess that lapactic was having some reactions on him! |
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Hayde
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 177 Location: Icheon, Korea
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 3:41 am Post subject: |
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Once again RedRose, remind me never to make you angry
At first I though you should have kicked him right in the @#$% but I like your idea better!  _________________ I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.
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Hayde
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 177 Location: Icheon, Korea
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 4:00 am Post subject: |
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I know this is offtopic (sorry RedRose) but as a teacher, what that teacher did is really horrible and sleazy. A teacher/student relationship is sacred, has been for aeons (well, millenia atleast). _________________ I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 4:19 am Post subject: |
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but he thought he was available. at that time, he was unmarried.
Hayde, here in China, many teachers date their students. I think the same way as you do. I think the teacher-student relationship is holy. But that teacher was really awful!
and why do you always ask me to remind you never to make me angry? haha
hummm, I don't think it is a great idea to kick a man's d-ick. what if he can't get a baby after a powerful kick?  |
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Hayde
Joined: 23 Oct 2005 Posts: 177 Location: Icheon, Korea
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 4:22 am Post subject: |
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RedRose, do you really want that guy to procreate  _________________ I know not with what weapons World War III will be fought, but World War IV will be fought with sticks and stones.
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 4:25 am Post subject: |
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Hayde wrote: |
RedRose, do you really want that guy to procreate  |
wooooow!!! hahhahahahhahahhahahhahahahahaah!!!!
I got a terrible stomachache for your msg!! Hayde, thank you for making my day!!!! |
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 5:40 am Post subject: |
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seriously, why do men harass women?
actually, I seldom flirt with men, therefore, in my case, I guess that's not my problem, it's men's. |
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admiral

Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Posts: 546
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 8:14 am Post subject: |
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because it's not our fault that they look sexy  _________________ If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I love inside you everyone else. I love the whole world because of you. I also love myself inside you" |
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phucauto

Joined: 25 Nov 2005 Posts: 94 Location: HaNoi/VietNam
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 8:39 am Post subject: |
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a teacher loves the student!! why not??if a guy love a girl, the position, the former relationships are meaningless.
but in your case, he 's a mad man. It 's not the way for him to express his feeling to you. I think he abused his position. I think he didn't love you at all but he wanted to exploi a pitiable girl student by the way, he is a despicable man.  _________________ the sword conquers for a while, but the soul conquers forever! |
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 3:49 pm Post subject: |
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yeah, he was a cheap little guy! I should have squeezed his balls to death!
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