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mikomouse
Joined: 26 Dec 2005 Posts: 1
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Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 7:04 am Post subject: how is your sexlife? |
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It is so funny. I have been wanted to have sex for a long time. It is not anything like I dont' have a boyfriend. I do have a great partner!
But, my partner and I have been so busy and we are both tired.
Everytime we get together we end up falling asleep.
What is that?It seems like I can not spend romantic evening together with my hunny!!! help!!!arrgh!! |
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loveville
Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 14 Location: malaysia
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Posted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 6:41 pm Post subject: |
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hei...what is wrong with you?!...do you really thing that having sex with someone is something that you really hope to do?do you think that loves someone means that you have to sleep with her?...wake up!..i think that oppurtunity to share the quality time with someone that we love is enough already in this special relationship..what's most important is the feeling that we share together..it doesn't mean that only body contact and sex can express your feeling towards someone that we really love..hei..love mean respect too..do you think that a person who has a active sex lifestyle with someone who is totally not (husband@wife) is a honour person?....they are crazy and out of their mind! they don't have important value(honour)...they just think about their satisfaction!..or in other word..take advantages to other person!... _________________ hunga |
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admiral

Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Posts: 546
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Posted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 5:21 am Post subject: |
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Search for a gigolo. _________________ If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I love inside you everyone else. I love the whole world because of you. I also love myself inside you" |
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NanaimoGirl
Joined: 12 Nov 2005 Posts: 48 Location: Nanaimo
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Posted: Sat Dec 31, 2005 1:00 pm Post subject: |
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People get married to have sex. Some people say it's the best thing ever! |
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isalm_spirit

Joined: 29 Dec 2005 Posts: 8
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Posted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 11:51 am Post subject: |
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loveville wrote: |
hei...what is wrong with you?!...do you really thing that having sex with someone is something that you really hope to do?do you think that loves someone means that you have to sleep with her?...wake up!.. |
im fully agrered with these word......u r right.
i can't understand......why the majority in the western life must do sex without marriage....and y they cnsider their relation with woman must = sex.
the relation with woman is not 4 sexuality only.....i can't deny that it is aside in our life ..... as it is adesire that allah put in us .......yes....aside but not all the life.
the relation with the woman is love ,home,children.kindness,satisfying othe sexuality needs.
and all of that only done with marriage and not friend or hired......with them u can make sex only and not full love ....as the real love come only with continuity....and not woman u will stay with in the bed.
and i will end my words by these (And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. (30:21))
alife of love ,children,continuity,sex.
not alife of sex,sex,sex,sex. _________________
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scipio

Joined: 22 Dec 2005 Posts: 55 Location: spaced out
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Posted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 4:19 pm Post subject: |
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isalm_spirit wrote: |
loveville wrote: |
hei...what is wrong with you?!...do you really thing that having sex with someone is something that you really hope to do?do you think that loves someone means that you have to sleep with her?...wake up!.. |
im fully agrered with these word......u r right.
i can't understand......why the majority in the western life must do sex without marriage....and y they cnsider their relation with woman must = sex.
the relation with woman is not 4 sexuality only.....i can't deny that it is aside in our life ..... as it is adesire that allah put in us .......yes....aside but not all the life.
the relation with the woman is love ,home,children.kindness,satisfying othe sexuality needs.
and all of that only done with marriage and not friend or hired......with them u can make sex only and not full love ....as the real love come only with continuity....and not woman u will stay with in the bed.
and i will end my words by these (And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. (30:21))
alife of love ,children,continuity,sex.
not alife of sex,sex,sex,sex. |
Its obvious you aren't getting any p*ssy _________________ Choo Choo |
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lovelybird
Joined: 17 Apr 2005 Posts: 16
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Posted: Thu Feb 02, 2006 3:13 pm Post subject: |
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hi everybody......
i think it is good topic to be discussed...
i dont with you miko...i'm a girl and if i want to love sommmeone..i want to love his personality,his qualities,his thoghts,generally his soul and his appearance....i dont love anyone to just have sex with him..
sex doesnot lead to love...... real love is the contact of souls not bodies..
also when i want to be loved..i hope that for my soul not just for my look..
idont like the idea is the lovers should be pretty and attractive.. i think that idea is the main topic for more movies...
in my culture we say " the beauty is the soul's beauty"
and i agree you islam spirit ...
when i love someone and i want to have sex with him i want that in formal frame...i mean i hope to be married with whom i love and we can spend great times ...... also we might have children....
life doesnot mean just live and love..it means also give someone birth,effect on whom around you<all in all make ur life special.. |
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RedRose

Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 12:26 am Post subject: |
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what's wrong with sexlife??
If you love someone, then it's totally normal to have sex with him/er. love-making with someone you love is the most amazing thing in the world. |
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admiral

Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Posts: 546
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Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 7:16 am Post subject: |
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It is so funny. I have been wanted to have sex for a long time. It is not anything like I dont' have a boyfriend. I do have a great partner!
But, my partner and I have been so busy and we are both tired.
Everytime we get together we end up falling asleep.
What is that?It seems like I can not spend romantic evening together with my hunny!!! help!!!arrgh!! |
This is the situation now
And the contra-position is:
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hei...what is wrong with you?!...do you really thing that having sex with someone is something that you really hope to do?do you think that loves someone means that you have to sleep with her?...wake up!..i think that oppurtunity to share the quality time with someone that we love is enough already in this special relationship..what's most important is the feeling that we share together..it doesn't mean that only body contact and sex can express your feeling towards someone that we really love..hei..love mean respect too..do you think that a person who has a active sex lifestyle with someone who is totally not (husband@wife) is a honour person?....they are crazy and out of their mind! they don't have important value(honour)...they just think about their satisfaction!..or in other word..take advantages to other person!... |
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what's wrong with sexlife??
If you love someone, then it's totally normal to have sex with him/er. love-making with someone you love is the most amazing thing in the world. |
I neither perceive from mikomouse's point that she is sex-addicted, nor that she only loves her partner for sex. If you do, please tell me which lines you refer to.
Concerning this, it's talking-around-the-point to define mikomouse as sex-addicted.
Maybe mikomouse can try to plan her time better, spend less time for unimportant things and spend more time with the husband. Somehow saying: "I want to have more time with you" directly is also good. _________________ If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I love inside you everyone else. I love the whole world because of you. I also love myself inside you" |
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justinlan
Joined: 12 Feb 2006 Posts: 43 Location: Guang Zhou CHINA
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Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 10:00 am Post subject: |
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advoca
Joined: 09 Oct 2003 Posts: 422 Location: Beijing
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Posted: Mon Mar 06, 2006 7:05 pm Post subject: |
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what's wrong with sexlife??
If you love someone, then it's totally normal to have sex with him/her. love-making with someone you love is the most amazing thing in the world. |
Hear hear, RedRose. I completely agree. Very sensible, very mature, and completely normal and reasonable for all intelligent adults. |
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Caro84
Joined: 07 Mar 2006 Posts: 7
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Posted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 5:44 am Post subject: |
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Every time you fall asleep?! - maybe you can walk with your partner and than maybe have sex in the nature!
I think sex is important if you are in a relationship but there are a lot of other things which are important too. |
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lily2006
Joined: 09 Mar 2006 Posts: 2
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Posted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 12:20 pm Post subject: We are busy too |
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My partner and I are busy too. We both work full time in the day, and have to work on our housework in the evening. And I am early bird, Wake up early so I sleep early too. However, he is not. Everyday, he is still on the bed when I leave.
I am thinking life it is like this. We have spent all of our passion in first sevral years. Now what we have it is peaceful and mental love. |
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justinlan
Joined: 12 Feb 2006 Posts: 43 Location: Guang Zhou CHINA
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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 12:38 am Post subject: |
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RedRose wrote: |
what's wrong with sexlife??
If you love someone, then it's totally normal to have sex with him/er. love-making with someone you love is the most amazing thing in the world. |
Exactly!  _________________ Msn:[email protected].
Add me,I am glad to be your friend.
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Let's go back,go back to the beginning,back to when the earth,the sun,the stars all aligned... |
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Philo Kevetch
Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 564
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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 1:04 am Post subject: |
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Sexlife? Never heard of that! What is it? Am I missing something???:) Philo |
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