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mikomouse



Joined: 26 Dec 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 7:04 am    Post subject: how is your sexlife? Reply with quote

It is so funny. I have been wanted to have sex for a long time. It is not anything like I dont' have a boyfriend. I do have a great partner!
But, my partner and I have been so busy and we are both tired.
Everytime we get together we end up falling asleep.
What is that?It seems like I can not spend romantic evening together with my hunny!!! help!!!arrgh!!
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loveville



Joined: 04 Dec 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 27, 2005 6:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hei...what is wrong with you?!...do you really thing that having sex with someone is something that you really hope to do?do you think that loves someone means that you have to sleep with her?...wake up!..i think that oppurtunity to share the quality time with someone that we love is enough already in this special relationship..what's most important is the feeling that we share together..it doesn't mean that only body contact and sex can express your feeling towards someone that we really love..hei..love mean respect too..do you think that a person who has a active sex lifestyle with someone who is totally not (husband@wife) is a honour person?....they are crazy and out of their mind! they don't have important value(honour)...they just think about their satisfaction!..or in other word..take advantages to other person!...
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PostPosted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 5:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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NanaimoGirl



Joined: 12 Nov 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Dec 31, 2005 1:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

People get married to have sex. Some people say it's the best thing ever!
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isalm_spirit



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 11:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

loveville wrote:
hei...what is wrong with you?!...do you really thing that having sex with someone is something that you really hope to do?do you think that loves someone means that you have to sleep with her?...wake up!..


im fully agrered with these word......u r right.

i can't understand......why the majority in the western life must do sex without marriage....and y they cnsider their relation with woman must = sex.

the relation with woman is not 4 sexuality only.....i can't deny that it is aside in our life ..... as it is adesire that allah put in us .......yes....aside but not all the life.

the relation with the woman is love ,home,children.kindness,satisfying othe sexuality needs.

and all of that only done with marriage and not friend or hired......with them u can make sex only and not full love ....as the real love come only with continuity....and not woman u will stay with in the bed.

and i will end my words by these (And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. (30:21))

alife of love ,children,continuity,sex.

not alife of sex,sex,sex,sex.
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scipio



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PostPosted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 4:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

isalm_spirit wrote:
loveville wrote:
hei...what is wrong with you?!...do you really thing that having sex with someone is something that you really hope to do?do you think that loves someone means that you have to sleep with her?...wake up!..


im fully agrered with these word......u r right.

i can't understand......why the majority in the western life must do sex without marriage....and y they cnsider their relation with woman must = sex.

the relation with woman is not 4 sexuality only.....i can't deny that it is aside in our life ..... as it is adesire that allah put in us .......yes....aside but not all the life.

the relation with the woman is love ,home,children.kindness,satisfying othe sexuality needs.

and all of that only done with marriage and not friend or hired......with them u can make sex only and not full love ....as the real love come only with continuity....and not woman u will stay with in the bed.

and i will end my words by these (And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts): verily in that are Signs for those who reflect. (30:21))

alife of love ,children,continuity,sex.

not alife of sex,sex,sex,sex.


Its obvious you aren't getting any p*ssy
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lovelybird



Joined: 17 Apr 2005
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 02, 2006 3:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hi everybody......
i think it is good topic to be discussed...
i dont with you miko...i'm a girl and if i want to love sommmeone..i want to love his personality,his qualities,his thoghts,generally his soul and his appearance....i dont love anyone to just have sex with him..
sex doesnot lead to love...... real love is the contact of souls not bodies..
also when i want to be loved..i hope that for my soul not just for my look..
idont like the idea is the lovers should be pretty and attractive.. i think that idea is the main topic for more movies...
in my culture we say " the beauty is the soul's beauty"
and i agree you islam spirit ...
when i love someone and i want to have sex with him i want that in formal frame...i mean i hope to be married with whom i love and we can spend great times ...... also we might have children....
life doesnot mean just live and love..it means also give someone birth,effect on whom around you<all in all make ur life special..
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RedRose



Joined: 21 May 2004
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 12:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

what's wrong with sexlife??

If you love someone, then it's totally normal to have sex with him/er. love-making with someone you love is the most amazing thing in the world.
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admiral



Joined: 17 Sep 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 7:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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It is so funny. I have been wanted to have sex for a long time. It is not anything like I dont' have a boyfriend. I do have a great partner!
But, my partner and I have been so busy and we are both tired.
Everytime we get together we end up falling asleep.
What is that?It seems like I can not spend romantic evening together with my hunny!!! help!!!arrgh!!


This is the situation now

And the contra-position is:
Quote:
hei...what is wrong with you?!...do you really thing that having sex with someone is something that you really hope to do?do you think that loves someone means that you have to sleep with her?...wake up!..i think that oppurtunity to share the quality time with someone that we love is enough already in this special relationship..what's most important is the feeling that we share together..it doesn't mean that only body contact and sex can express your feeling towards someone that we really love..hei..love mean respect too..do you think that a person who has a active sex lifestyle with someone who is totally not (husband@wife) is a honour person?....they are crazy and out of their mind! they don't have important value(honour)...they just think about their satisfaction!..or in other word..take advantages to other person!...


However, this posting is more correct:
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what's wrong with sexlife??

If you love someone, then it's totally normal to have sex with him/er. love-making with someone you love is the most amazing thing in the world.


I neither perceive from mikomouse's point that she is sex-addicted, nor that she only loves her partner for sex. If you do, please tell me which lines you refer to.
Concerning this, it's talking-around-the-point to define mikomouse as sex-addicted.

Maybe mikomouse can try to plan her time better, spend less time for unimportant things and spend more time with the husband. Somehow saying: "I want to have more time with you" directly is also good.
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justinlan



Joined: 12 Feb 2006
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PostPosted: Sun Feb 19, 2006 10:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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advoca



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 06, 2006 7:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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what's wrong with sexlife??

If you love someone, then it's totally normal to have sex with him/her. love-making with someone you love is the most amazing thing in the world.


Hear hear, RedRose. I completely agree. Very sensible, very mature, and completely normal and reasonable for all intelligent adults.
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Caro84



Joined: 07 Mar 2006
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PostPosted: Wed Mar 08, 2006 5:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Every time you fall asleep?! - maybe you can walk with your partner and than maybe have sex in the nature!

I think sex is important if you are in a relationship but there are a lot of other things which are important too.
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lily2006



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 09, 2006 12:20 pm    Post subject: We are busy too Reply with quote

My partner and I are busy too. We both work full time in the day, and have to work on our housework in the evening. And I am early bird, Wake up early so I sleep early too. However, he is not. Everyday, he is still on the bed when I leave.

I am thinking life it is like this. We have spent all of our passion in first sevral years. Now what we have it is peaceful and mental love.
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justinlan



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 12:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

RedRose wrote:
what's wrong with sexlife??

If you love someone, then it's totally normal to have sex with him/er. love-making with someone you love is the most amazing thing in the world.


Exactly! Very Happy
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Philo Kevetch



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 1:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sexlife? Never heard of that! What is it? Am I missing something???:) Philo
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