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manolita · Joined: 22 Jun 2006 Posts: 37

Hello i'm spanish girl and I would like to ask you this question.I'm not very lucky in love but I don't know exactly the reason .Could you tell me why some people find love of your boy or girl and others always are waiting for love and we never find it.I'm 31 years old .Thank you.

asterix · Joined: 26 Jan 2003 Posts: 1654

Perhaps you are drawn to the wrong sort of man?

Mallaien · Posted: Wed Jul 12, 2006 2:45 pm Post subject:

I know how you feel, I am a 33 year old man from America and I just never found the right person. Somtimes I think I might be setting my expectations too high.

All I look for is a nice women that has good intellegence, and can understand my type of humor. Allos someone who share's the same intrests in life.
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ltp-008 · Joined: 09 Apr 2006 Posts: 258

To answer this question ,I think we firstly need to distinguish the meaning of love and sex,for some people sex amounts to love,when they have sexes with someone,they say that they find the love,Joey who is a character in friends is a perfect example,he fall into love with many women in his first sight,but his love didn't last very long,he only wants to have sexes with hot girls,his feeling of love is simplely having sex with someone.

But real feeling of love is a promise,when you think you love someone,you not only want to get love from that person,but also even more want to give you care and love to that person.In deeply meaning,love is giving,you want that person who you deeply love has a happines life.not only do you want to have sex with him or her,but also even more want to take care of him or her.

Finding a real love is not easy thing during people's lifetime,but finding a person who you want to have sex with is much easier.So I agree what manolita said that you are luck when you find real love.But I have a suggestion in which if you have some feelings of love about that person,you 'd better express your feeling to that person through some ways ,in doing so,you won't regret your life no matter what results it may be,this is your life,the most important thing is that when you want to get love from that person,when you want to have sex with that person,tell him or her in a proper way,then you have life powers.

manolita · Joined: 22 Jun 2006 Posts: 37

Thank you very much .I'm agree with us.In definition of love is free every person have one meaning ,I wanted to answer to millaneus I don't remember your name now but I don't use messenger to talk with anybody if you want can we talk in chat,