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manolita
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 Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2006 9:06 am Post subject: Do you think that never it's too late to find love |
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| hello i'm spanish girl .I'm single and my question is do you thing that love is the same when you have twenty than you has thirty .I'm very worried about it because I'm very alone for along time,Nobody is interested in me.I have aproblem with my hair but..I'm a good person this is not enough important.Thank you |
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2006 9:08 am Post subject: |
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It's never too late, I know people who married with 40
And beginning with 30 has it's own benefits, you have your career after you and you still look good.
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Bob S.
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| Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2006 11:36 am Post subject: Re: Do you think that never it's too late to find love |
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| manolita wrote: |
| hello i'm spanish girl .I'm single and my question is do you thing that love is the same when you have twenty than you has thirty. |
First, grammar check.
In Spanish: I have 20 years. You have 20 years.
In English: I am 20. You are 20.
Second, no, love is not the same at 30 compared to 20. As you grow and mature, your view on love also matures. When you are young, love is more like infatuation with the warmies, flirting, making goo-goo eyes, butterflies, and raging hormones of lust. when you become a fully functioning emotionally mature adult, you see things differently. You care less about surface matters (maybe because you can see in yourself that the surface changes with time), and you begin to better appreciate deeper qualities of character that will last through the years.
So don't worry if you are quickly approaching the big three-oh (30 years old) and are still unmarried. It just means you have a better chance of finding a better match (and less chance of divorce). I and my wife married in our late 30's. (This is actually my second marriage. My first marriage was rushed because I also thought "gee, I'm getting older, shouldn't I get married now?" But I and my first wife soon realized we were a bad match and quickly got divorced. We each went on to find better matches for our personalities.) |
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MinhHuynh
Joined: 13 Oct 2006
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Manolita,
I agree with you that "I am a good person but this is not important" but i think, you should feel relax, do not worry about it! Having fun in your life and happies will come with you!
Good luck and have fun!  |
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borerborer
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| Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 8:05 am Post subject: |
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| if you are too old, you cannot make love. what a pity? |
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 11:49 am Post subject: |
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oh well I know people who make greeeat love with 40
You can make love at every time I have read it on a scientifical book. Only with higher ages (~50) the menstruation of the woman vanishes and women can't get children. And however the chance of getting a handicapped children increases with age of mom about 30 or higher, but that doesn't mean that they are forbidden to do sex. Another example that sex is not only for having children.
So borerborer 你错了
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garfield_jesse
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| ad-miral wrote: |
oh well I know people who make greeeat love with 40
You can make love at every time I have read it on a scientifical book. Only with higher ages (~50) the menstruation of the woman vanishes and women can't get children. And however the chance of getting a handicapped children increases with age of mom about 30 or higher, but that doesn't mean that they are forbidden to do sex. Another example that sex is not only for having children.
So borerborer 你错了 |
Good knowledge
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borerborer
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when i am 50 i can have as wonderful sex as i am 22, i always hope that.
Now, it seems not to be difficult. wow there is much longer time for me to find my true love.HOHO^_^ |
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burco_lion
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you can find your true love @ any age it doesn't matter how old you are or how you look like.. also beautifull isn't the face of that person it's inside them so just wait and your love will come on your way one day that's what I believe in......
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wing
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Most girls who feel loney and extremely expect a lover have always imagined that they would live happily in life like Cinderealla when they met the right people, but someday when the fascination is gone they tend to wish they could change the decision they made at that time.
It's worth to taste our lives at an amble.
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