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sharon.lu
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 Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2007 9:31 pm Post subject: what would you do? |
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what would you do? if you love someone very much, but he/she doesn't love you.
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garfield_jesse
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Giving up and finding another one.
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sharon.lu
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| Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2007 1:50 am Post subject: |
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| garfield_jesse wrote: |
| Giving up and finding another one. |
well, i just think it is difficult for me to do! everything that you could not get is the best!
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ad-miral
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Give her your love and wait, for her, and for girls who are similar or better than her. If you found a girl who is similar to her then flirt with the girl but don't tell her about it.  Ok this is rather a joke, but maybe it functions for you.
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garfield_jesse
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| Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2007 7:07 am Post subject: |
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| ad-miral wrote: |
| Give her your love and wait, for her, and for girls who are similar or better than her. If you found a girl who is similar to her then flirt with the girl but don't tell her about it. Ok this is rather a joke, but maybe it functions for you. |
Finding another girl who is similar??? I dont think it is a good way. You just find the one to full the space in your heart, that's all...Time can help you overcome, i know it' s really difficult but you shouldnt run after the one that dont love you. Suppose that you have her but you dont have her heart...whether do you feel happy? Ok you can wait...but how long? Can you wait for her till you are old?
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ad-miral
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hey jesse... You said: You just find the one to full the space in your heart, that's all...
But look-
Let's say, Tom loves Sarah, but Sarah doesn't love Tom.
Tom must have thought that Sarah is so and so perfect. Let's say Tom likes blond girls who is very beautiful and very honest, and Sarah is blond, very beautiful and very honest. But Sarah doesn't love Tom.
1. So, it's logical that Tom should try to make Sarah loving him. Let's say care for her, giving her cute presents, spending a lot of time with her...
Tom will be very sad if he finds out in the end, that Sarah has done anything very bad, then all the care and money and time would be giving out to no purpose. He will cry a lot etc.
2. But if Tom had found another girl, let's say Mary, who is also blond and beautiful and honest, and he sees that Sarah has done anything bad, he could say: "Oh how bad so our relationship is gone." He could concentrate on Mary and say to Sarah: "There is the door..."
Don't take it too seriously
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garfield_jesse
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| Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 1:28 am Post subject: |
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Funny example Admiral
I said that You just find the one to full the space in your heart in the situation you love her but she dont reciprocate your love. You find another to full the space in your heart without loving. And if you meet another girl similar with her...if you love similar one and she loves you too it's really good. I have no idea
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RedRose
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If I love someone, I would secretly seduce him. I mean, he won't know I am seducing him when I am doing that.  If he still dosen't love me back, I would directly tell him about my feelings. if that still dosen't work out, I will give up and think that he is stupid.
Of couse, I have never met such a man who didn't accept me but I loved. |
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hoshi
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| RedRose wrote: |
If I love someone, I would secretly seduce him. I mean, he won't know I am seducing him when I am doing that.
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I did exactly the same with my actual gf, it is too hard and takes too much time but in the end you can get what you want, just continue trying and tell her why is she important for you? obviusly some secretly and then...  but be patient, don't try to get her love in a month or two...
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Leon Young
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| Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2007 9:37 pm Post subject: what should i do? |
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what should i do?I got the same problem as you did,that feelings is not so good,now, we are friends,i just try litlle by liltte,It's ok!may be someday she can feel your love.hold on,you guy.we are here surporting you!
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RedRose
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| Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2007 1:57 am Post subject: |
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| hoshi wrote: |
| I did exactly the same with my actual gf, it is too hard and takes too much time but in the end you can get what you want, just continue trying and tell her why is she important for you? obviusly some secretly and then... but be patient, don't try to get her love in a month or two... |
You know what? at the beginning, I thought you meant "in the bed" later I found I'd made a mistake
However, if you do the same as I said, you really can get whatever you want in the bed |
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hoshi
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| RedRose wrote: |
You know what? at the beginning, I thought you meant "in the bed" later I found I'd made a mistake
However, if you do the same as I said, you really can get whatever you want in the bed |
Well, it was at the end of all the troubles a person can have doing this...
..............|--->beginning (you suffer a lot) 
Troubles |
..............|--->end [you got what you want (love not sex)]
..................................................|--->beginning (all is beautiful and
..................................................|.......perfect)
After the troubles (relationship)|
..................................................|--->more little troubles (but
....................................................with the things you want)
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RedRose
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| haha!! with the thing you want? that's totally worlth it! |
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