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Which, #1 or #2, does �felt so proud of you� mean in the following letter?
1. I had felt so proud of you.
2. I felt so proud of you.

I thought it means #1, but some people around me chose #2.

A boy did not do well at school. His mother was very upset when she received his reports and wrote him the following letter.

Dear X,
I have much to say to you, but I�m afraid it�s not good news. Look at your place in school! I�m sure you have a thousand excuses for not doing well--- but there the fact remains!
My dear X, I love you, but you make us very unhappy---I had built up such hopes around you and felt so proud of you and now all is gone. If you make a plan of action for yourself and carry it out, I am sure you can do anything. Your brother Y, on the other hand, comes at the head of class every year.
I will say no more now, but X, soon you will no longer be a child. You should think about your final two years and how important they are for your future life－Stop, think it out for yourself, and work hard before it is too late.
Love,
your very unhappy Mother

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As written:

My dear X, I love you, but you make us very unhappy---I had built up such hopes around you and felt so proud of you and now all is gone.

The "had" for "had felt so proud" is implied. It is a case of parallel construction: I had built up and [I had] felt so proud.

The use of past perfect here means that, before the son did so poorly, the mother had felt proud, but not since then.
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