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whatdaheck



Joined: 24 Jan 2006
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PostPosted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 5:04 pm    Post subject: Help!!! Reply with quote

Hey
Does ''suit yourself'' have a rudeness to it?
And yeah, elaborate it when I say ''something has an air about it" :S
Thanks in advance
Maham
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Philo Kevetch



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 11:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello Whatdaheck -

It could be rude if the speaker uses a rude 'tone of voice' -
if said in a casual/offhand manner....it would not necessarily be rude.

'an air' = appearance/manner/style or atmosphere

Philo
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whatdaheck



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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 1:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So, what about if I write it, suit yourself... Not meant to be rude, right?
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Philo Kevetch



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PostPosted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 4:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

In that case, it would depend on the context/situation/circumstance.

If you wish, provide an example or two with context and it should be easy enough to determine wether it is intended to be rude or not.

Philo
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whatdaheck



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 4:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Like
You could come in any time you want...
Suit yourself!
That's not rude at all,right?
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Philo Kevetch



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 7:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If it's just a simple open-ended invitation - No...it does not sound rude.

If you just slammed the door shut on someone....
Yes, it would sound rude.
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