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[pam806]

I wonder if everyone has the same confuse with me? I always feel sorry for those things that happened? I always keep asking myself that if I did the right thing? I am not yong anymore, but way I still not satisfied with those things happened in my life?

yesterday, I angryed with my roommate, becasue she spyed your business, but when you ask her the same question that she asked you, she never answer it. I don't know why people will like that. therefore, I called me sister and complained about that .but my sister blame me, she said I need learn from her, and she said all those things prove that I am not mature enough. both my sister and my cousin said I am kind of naive, and they were worried about my future. they believed that I may could not protect myself. all those words made me so sad. why I still have a naive heart with old age. what can I do, try to be a person with lots of lies. that is the kind of people that I hated.

why the world made people like that? is that a kind of nature choice? people are getting more unreally and untrustful? is that a really truth?

I belive that I can not find the answer and still confuse with those rules.
and I believe I will try my best to be a successful normal people , which is not mean money or career, but in mind.

[stellara]

Hey

that's a good question, really!
to my opinion do people who don't lie and whom you can trust really have a happier life in the long run than people have who never (or almost) say the truth. people like you much more when they know that they can absolutely trust you and they weren't lied at. and I do think that there are still many people (the majority I hope) who don't like liars either and who are trustable. I don't know your friends (or maybe 'friends') but they don't seem to be real friends because these don't lie to each other and accept you just as you are. I think you've made some bad experiences but please don't gather from this to everything!
I hope that I can say that my friends are telling me the truth. I can always trust them although I don't tell them every little detail of my life - I like to have my privet life..

sure you should know when someone is lying at you but don't do the same just because everyone seems to do it.

at the moment it seems to be some absurd kind of 'modern' or 'in' not to tell the truth and to lie just because there could be an advantage for them, and you seem to get away with it really good and can get ahead at that too. but like I already said, in the long run that doesn't pay off.

and you are definitely kind of naive if you think that everyone is always telling you the truth, but you're not naive if you just expect that someone tells you the truth. because that should be.

hope that you can understand my opinion,
greets, Sarah
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