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[bornoon]

�Gay� is used for homosexual males. Gay is found in all societies throughout the world. In my opinion, there are two factors that explain causes of being a gay.
First, It comes from his family. His mother may be too strong and suppresses his father. He is raised in too strict tradition. He hates his father because his father scolds him. When he was a child, he spent much time with his mother.
Second, It comes from himself. He has a genetic defect on X-chromosome (a biological factor) or he is a gay prostitute because he wants more money.
In conclusion, there are many causes that make men become gays . It is not only environmental factors but also biological factors.
Are there other causes that make a man become gay?

[patt]

I think, his father doesn't have time to be a good example to him, so he spend much time with his mother and copy his mother's habit that lead him to has a behavior look like woman.

[Francy89girl]

i think that you can't choose to be or not to be gay! yes, i know that there are a lot of peolple who becomes gay in the future, but i think that the most of gays are so from their birth.
Sorry if you didn't understand, but i don't know english, so sorry for my mistakes.

[Jaaey]

I don't know the reasons that make people became gay.
But I think whatever they will be. They are my friends.

[Francy89girl]

you are a very special people i agree with you!

[hanaka]

In my opinion, because of parents do not have time to take care of their kids.
So,the kids copy behavior that they have seen on television.
However I agree with K.Jaaey. They are our friends. ^v^

[bornoon]

Thank you so much for your opinion.

[SonyeuNAnh]

I dont think it comes from family or anything. I have a friend, his family raised him like any other kids. So I dont think its family, tv, or the body. Its just who likes who I think. My friend went out with one girl before, but from when I first met him, Ive only known him to like guys. So.......o... also, gays are not only used to express men. Sometimes it also express women. Even if they have the word lesbian. Both meaning the same thing. And everyones our friend... I agree

[RedRose]

most gays are born!

Some of gays get married because they wanna escape people's homophobia. but after they get married, their wives have to suffer from the cold mariages and estranged husbands. although those gays get married, they still desire the sexual intercourse with men.

and yes, some of them even have their own kids, but that dosen't mean these gays enjoy the sexual intercourse with a woman, he can make love with a woman by fancying making love with a man.

BTW, I am not a lesbian I am just a physician, and I am heterosexual