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by serendipity » Tue Apr 20, 2004 2:54 pm
Thanks Larry,
I enjoyed your story, and I can see better now where you're coming from.
My story is somewhat different - I'm a non-native speaker who acquired the language the hard way in order to reach beyond the boundaries that were keeping me in. I was exposed to six years of Latin at school, four years of Italian, 10 years of English, and all my teachers ever seemed to get excited about were these darn Present Perfect Tenses and Plusquamperfects and Consecutio Temporums - when there was so much *else* out there.
When I was in my twenties, I mostly travelled - no doubt my knowledge came in handy, but what mattered most was something completely different: Communication styles, for example, ingrained cultural habits that made me appear rude irrespective of how hard I was trying, lack of intonation patterns that made me appear boring and cold, no matter how interesting the tale was I was telling, a habit of using direct questions exclusively that made me appear blunt and tactless - not to mention all the trials and tribulations that come from being madly in love with a person of a different cultural background, and from trying to keep a relationship going.
It didn't work out, though. I returned to live a more settled life with a man from my native village, a man whose parents had gone to school with mine, and who'd never travelled beyond the borders of his own country - yo, and I make my living teaching boys like him, boys who'll probably never travel beyond the borders of their own country either.
What I can do though, is to give them an idea of cultural life beyond "Present Perfect Tense" and all the rest - share my experiences, my enthusiasm, and maybe even awaken a yearning for what lies beyond the mountains, and a new intellectual openness when one encounters people and ideas from over there.
That would be grand, if I could do that!