How to shorten the gap between parents and their children
Posted: Mon Dec 17, 2007 11:47 am
Nowadays, more and more parents are worry about the problems they meet when they are trying to get along with their children. They are confused by the large gaps between them and their children. So it seems that it is quite necessary for us to think about how to shorten the gap between parents and children so that they could get along well with each other and the children could have a prosperous development in the future.
In my opinion, the first problem that the parents should solve is to have an effective communication with their children. Many of the parents complain that it is two busy for them to sit down and have a long and detailed communication with their children. However, when they find problems from their children, they will be quite regret even though there is no point for them to be like that. So the best way is to find some time and have a relaxed talk with their children from time to time, getting to known about what children are thinking about and how they feel about their studies and daily life.
The second factor I think is that parents should see things more in the terms of children. As we know, teenagers are sensitive to the things happening around their surroundings. It is quite easy for them to have various kinds of thoughts. So as parents are just trying to correct the problems on the children, they should stand on the side of their children more. And they should try their best to understand the children’s psychological condition more often.
The development of the teenagers has great influence on the future of a country. As their first teachers, parents should get to known about the children’s consideration as more as possible.
In my opinion, the first problem that the parents should solve is to have an effective communication with their children. Many of the parents complain that it is two busy for them to sit down and have a long and detailed communication with their children. However, when they find problems from their children, they will be quite regret even though there is no point for them to be like that. So the best way is to find some time and have a relaxed talk with their children from time to time, getting to known about what children are thinking about and how they feel about their studies and daily life.
The second factor I think is that parents should see things more in the terms of children. As we know, teenagers are sensitive to the things happening around their surroundings. It is quite easy for them to have various kinds of thoughts. So as parents are just trying to correct the problems on the children, they should stand on the side of their children more. And they should try their best to understand the children’s psychological condition more often.
The development of the teenagers has great influence on the future of a country. As their first teachers, parents should get to known about the children’s consideration as more as possible.