I noticed my agreement got a bit messed up just after the bit you quoted, strange. Sorry about that.metal56 wrote:How can you be sure those relationships are so very real? Do you think the social relationships we have with our colleagues daily are always very real? I know my social relationship with my Mum is real, and even that took time to achieve, but students?fluffyhamster wrote:There seems to be no attempt to make the unfolding and very real social relationships we have with our students :
Anyway, I felt this would come up at some point on this thread, and sooner rather than later with the "help" of my input (that is, it seems I have made the question arise - wonderful me!

Okay, I admit, even with the best methodology and the greatest will in the world, there are limits to how "real" the social relationships of the classroom can ever become, but what else can you expect, when many teachers don't seem to want to ask themselves how they might introduce the language (that they are always proffering only at arm's length, along with healthy lashings of chalk, printouts, the whip-'em-up whip etc) in more subtle, friendly, real ways? I'm not demanding huge changes, just little things like "guessing" what a sound was, as opposed to what a sound is (or even could be), unless of course it is a continous sound (to add yet another factor that could've been considered, but seems not to have been, in Rinvolucri's activity there).
I'm not saying (with regard to continous sounds) that you should lie to your students about needing to take a whizz, set off the fire alarms in the school, walk nonchalantly back in and only then feel you have set up enough context to innocently ask, "What could that sound be?", making some recordings and pretending you were all wherever would achieve much the same effect. The continuous sound would also be more suited to "feeling a need to describe it" ('That's really irritating/loud') than with "past" sounds ('What was that? ?It was really loud > I don't know, maybe a bomb?!).
Rinvolucri's hasn't said which tense he would ask students to use, but I'll credit him with a brain and presume that in relation to his (presumably mainly non-continous sound-producing objects), he could easily add "past" for guesses vs. the descriptions, but here's yet another thought: You wouldn't need to ask students to close their eyes at all if you'd just made a tape, the tape would create a knowledge gap in terms of invisibilty and/or distance right away!).
Perhaps I'm frothing, but this to me saying 'Close your eyes' is the unnecessary layer of "methodology" that immediately makes this just another activity rather than something that could potentially feel more real. People don't close their eyes to listen to strange sounds (unless it's music), they tend to look (want to look, check, investigate, peek at the crazy teacher tapping his dead human skull).
If I want to tell students to close their eyes, chances are it will be to practice visualization or relaxation techniques, because I want those to be the topics now, for whatever hopefully linguistic reason (problem+advising functions+solution using imperatives, perhaps, a mixed bag perhaps, but nothing too complex, and who's to say we can't spread that sequence over two lessons, picking up where we left off last time? (Obviously I would accept that kind of "break" as being absolutely necessary
