David Crystal , expert on English, states that two forms of "or" exist. One of these is the exclusive "or":
You can eat now or later, but not both.
And the inclusive "or":
You can eat now or later-I don't mind.
He then states that the "or" in the latter example approaches "and" in meaning. this staement has been causing a lot of grief on another forum. What's your opinion'
Well, let me see if I can put this simply for the both of us.
David Crystal is referring to two types of relationships, groupings, in fact.
Try to imagine inclusive relationships as you would bubbles inside a bigger bubble. Let's say that the word 'now' is a small bubble inside a larger bubble and that the word 'later' is also a small bubble inside the same larger bubble. If it's easier, imagine that 'now' and 'later' are like brother bubbles inside a mother bubble. That image represents an inclusive relationship.
Now, let's talk about the word 'or' as approaching 'and' in meaning.
Keeping the bubble imagery in mind, even though the smaller bubbles are separatly housed in their own bubbles, they belong to the same mother bubble. They share the same larger bubble.
So, whatever happens to the mother bubble will affect both brother bubbles. It is in this way that 'or' approaches the meaning of 'and'. It's like twins inside their mother, they are separate entities yet they are housed in the same space.
In terms of language, 'now' and 'later' are two syntactic units separated by the syntactic unit 'or', yet both 'now' and 'later' can be expresses together as one unit if we house them in the same semantic space. We don't have to change the words, only the space. To do that, the speaker modifies the use of 'or' to include the meaning 'and' by adding 'I don't mind which of the two you choose. I am giving you the choice of both.'
It's in the choice, that 'or' approaches 'and' in meaning, not in the syntactic structure. David Crystal didn't invent it. It's been there all along. He simply put a name to it.
In short,
Exclusive: 'now' , 'later' are not in the same group. They are separate and belong to different groups. They are exclusive. So, if something applies to one group, it cannot apply to the other group. That's the 'or' rule!
Inclusive: 'now' , 'later' are separate but they belong to the same group. They are inclusive. They belong to subsets within the same group. So, if something applies to the group, it applies to both subsets inside the group. This is the 'and' rule!
All the best,
Cas
You go get 'em!