JuanTwoThree wrote:You'll permit me a little rant. I haven't had one for ages.
jotham, you cannot seriously be suggesting that any two people, having played a match of some kind with two other people, would ever say, think or write, however outstanding they were being:
"We thought that you were not as good as we but it turns out that you are better than we"
This is an unnatural sounding sentence for reasons other than conjunctions. It's the writer's job to make every part of the sentence sound good in its entirety. I'd rather say, "I didn't think you'd be quite so good as we are, but it turns out that you are." This sounds much better when you manipulate the sentence. The unnecessarily repeated pronoun sounds funny because it's...repeated. But none of this matters because it's just people talking informally. This is precisely what I'm not talking about. Informal discussions need not be polished. And what's wrong with supplying the verb at the end if it sounds better? You make it sound like that doesn't count. But it does count.
But in the end, it could be another difference between British and American. British seem to want to lower the standards of publishing to informal chit-chat; while Americans, on the whole, try to elevate the discussion to organized structure and thinking. It goes back to education. Americans teach structuralism to our children; we teach them five-paragraph essays with an orderly structure, the advantage of topic sentences, paragraph flow, etc., which helps them write in an orderly fashion, with the added benefit of thinking and talking in an orderly fashion as well.
Your quest for "outstanding English for the sake of publishing, business, self-enrichment, and such" really sounds as if you have no instinct, or don't trust your instinct, for what is acceptable The only explanation I can find, though I'm sure that you are an exception, is that there are people who are so insecure, or ashamed of themselves or something, that they swallow every single half-baked invented shibboleth, concocted by largely self-appointed arbiters. Out here in the real world native speakers for the most part trust their own judgement.
It hasn't to do with instinct. Your definition of
instinct is raw thoughts. My definition is unstudied response or expression of those thoughts. I don't believe that my raw thoughts are wrong; I just believe there are poor ways, adequate ways, better ways, and perfect ways of expressing them. So when I study how to communicate better or more effectively, I'm not shunning my "instinct" or thoughts, but rather empowering or enabling them. When I'm just shooting the breeze with people, adequate communication is adequate. Just like I don't need to practice chopsticks and it's still enjoyable to many.
When I'm showing my writing prowess, however, and want to attract as large a base of thoughtful readers as possible, adequate isn't sufficient; then I would shoot, strive, and sweat, and even lose sleep for perfect. Likewise when I play Beethoven, I can't get away without practice or struggle. I could play it adequately and get polite applause from those who know better, or I could perform superbly, move people's hearts, and get a standing ovation.
However, if proof were needed, I could cite an arguably largely well-written and formal source. Let's look at "The New Yorker" but it could be any other:
Exact phrase "than me" only from
www.thenewyorker.com. 126 hits from writers such as Paul Theroux and Hanif Koureishi.
Exact phrase "than I" without "am, was, do, did, can, will, must, should" from the same site. Not one result.
The New Yorker is full of stories. When I do searches, it seems nearly to be in quotes all the time. Same with the
New York Times, (where William Safire works). They're not going to change what people say.
Nobody has written "than I" in the web version of The New Yorker without following it up with an auxiliary or a main verb.
What's wrong with following it up? Why doesn't that count? Maybe that's part of their editing guidelines. Such doesn't countermand the grammarians' position.
"Better than I" in
New York Times gets 4,490 hits.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=%2 ... nochrome=1
"Better than me" gets 1,380 hits, and almost always in quotes:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=%2 ... nochrome=1
English is a dirty, slutty language that has nothing to go on except for the gut feelings of its users.
This is a perfect description of descriptivist philosophy. I'm sure glad there aren't descriptivists in music, sports, or other field of refinement or attainment. Nothing is wrong with slutty, dirty, gut instinct; but neither should it bar others from seeking otherwise or somehow replace attainment and a striving for excellence or perfection. It's the human spirit to excel; why should written communication be different from any other endeavor? To each his or her own.
I don't criticize those who use
than me, just as I don't those who wear jeans and sandals instead of a suit and tie depending on the situation. So why do you criticize those who use
than I, granted the entirety of the sentence is sound?