How to make friends abroad?
Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 4:08 pm
I'm not entirely sure which forum to post this in, so I'm most likely going to be cross posting this a fair bit. Apologies if you see this more than once!
Essentially, I am thinking about doing my CELTA next year, and have been leaning predominantly towards the more economical option of studying for that here before jetting off after. However, I am slightly anxious that by not doing my CELTA in the country in which I intend to teach, I am denying myself a vital opportunity for making friends in that country. A teacher friend of mine in Madrid highly recommends spending the extra money and taking my CELTA in the country in which I intend to teach, as virtually her entire social life stems from her coursemates, and indeed she says that she doesn't know how she would have made friends otherwise as all the other teachers in her school are on quite different wavelengths, i.e. married with children and definitely not up for for exploring the highs of Madrid's party scene.
However, there must surely be other ways of forming a strong social network that I've not thought of, right? After all, people frequently take their CELTA in one country and then leave for another. If any of you ended up teaching in a different country to which you took your initial course, then I'd be extremely interested to hear your experiences-positive or negative-of building up a social network without a ready made group of coursemates. At the moment I'm wondering whether saving money by staying in the UK to take my CELTA will really stand me in good stead when the time comes to move abroad and find a new social life.
Cheers!
Essentially, I am thinking about doing my CELTA next year, and have been leaning predominantly towards the more economical option of studying for that here before jetting off after. However, I am slightly anxious that by not doing my CELTA in the country in which I intend to teach, I am denying myself a vital opportunity for making friends in that country. A teacher friend of mine in Madrid highly recommends spending the extra money and taking my CELTA in the country in which I intend to teach, as virtually her entire social life stems from her coursemates, and indeed she says that she doesn't know how she would have made friends otherwise as all the other teachers in her school are on quite different wavelengths, i.e. married with children and definitely not up for for exploring the highs of Madrid's party scene.
However, there must surely be other ways of forming a strong social network that I've not thought of, right? After all, people frequently take their CELTA in one country and then leave for another. If any of you ended up teaching in a different country to which you took your initial course, then I'd be extremely interested to hear your experiences-positive or negative-of building up a social network without a ready made group of coursemates. At the moment I'm wondering whether saving money by staying in the UK to take my CELTA will really stand me in good stead when the time comes to move abroad and find a new social life.
Cheers!