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Do you believe in marriage life?
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dicivi



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 10, 2007 9:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Having been married three times, once divorced, once widowed, I feel I know quite a bit about the subject. My present wife is Asian, we have been married 10 years and have three beautiful children. We love and care for each other and we are very happy.

My teenage daughter by a previous marriage lives to have a good time. She's had four live in boy friends in the last two years and would probably argue against marriage and having children. She likes her freedom and her parties, shuns responsibility and relies on other people to get her out of scrapes. With the help of Prozac I guess you could say she's happy!

Would I give up the commitment I have in my traditional marriage for the life of a swinging single? Not on your life.

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Tone



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 1:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow... interesting point and interesting life. Never give up. Your soulmate is waiting for you somewhere...!!!
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 1:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Let's bring the discussion going on...
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jerlinhuang



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 25, 2009 8:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I believe LOVE. I also believe marriage.Many people said that marriage is LOVE's tomb. But I thought that marriage is LOVE's sublimation.The most important thing is How to catch sight of happiness from your married Life.

Forgive me for needing you in my life;
Forgive me for enjoying the beauty of your body and soul;
Forgive me for wanting to be with you when I grow old;

Look...There is romance in the air.
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icy



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PostPosted: Thu May 14, 2009 8:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Very Happy i believe marriage becauase it is the safe way to get kids .

in this way ( marriage ) the kids know who is their real mother and

who is their real father ?
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Jenniferdu521



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PostPosted: Thu May 14, 2009 9:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know.......In fact, what is the mean of Beliving marriage.

What kind of marriage should be believe?

If you have married, try your best to enjoy it, do your best to cherish it.
Do not always think you want it better or you want your spouse love you forever,etc.

If you haven't married, also do not expect too much for it.

the higher the expectations, the bigger the letdown , it is the fact of life.

Don't forget that their is no perfect in the world. just enjoy our unperfect happiness!
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charlotfernandez



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PostPosted: Fri May 22, 2009 5:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rolling Eyes

Uhmm...look, Men marry because they are tired, women because they are curious; both are disappointed. Crying or Very sad
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Jenniferdu521



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 23, 2009 2:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

charlotfernandez wrote:
Rolling Eyes

Uhmm...look, Men marry because they are tired, women because they are curious; both are disappointed. Crying or Very sad


Curious? I think at least for me, I did not marry just becouse curious.
charlotfernandez, I think you must haven't found your right women, if you found her, you'll change you opinion, I am waiting..........
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Bob S.



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 23, 2009 8:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jenniferdu521 wrote:
charlotfernandez, I think you must haven't found your right women, if you found her, you'll change you opinion, I am waiting..........
Charlot is a female name. I would say miss Charlot has not found a good man yet. Very Happy And with her cynical bitter attitude, maybe she would prefer to find the right woman? Wink
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Anuradha Chepur



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 10:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

charlotfernandez wrote:
Rolling Eyes

Uhmm...look, Men marry because they are tired, women because they are curious; both are disappointed. Crying or Very sad


THAT's pretty accurate! (exceptions notwithstanding)
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Tone



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PostPosted: Tue Jan 26, 2010 1:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

whether you believe it or not. I already got married
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michio



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 14, 2010 6:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am high school student. I have parent who are very kind and have warm hart. They always look happy at home. It is certain that marrige is hard,but they can share the joys and sorrows of life.It is beatiful. So I think that marrige is good. Embarassed
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Reema



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 22, 2012 9:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

In my opinion I think the marriag is very important in our live, but there are rules befor you get marriag .
If you can to be responsible person about your wife\hasbind also your children "in the futur", you have a job and the main rule is "If you have the desire". Aftre these rules you can get marriag Wink
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Ivory2010



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 5:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

im still young and i dont want to tied myself with another perso.but my teacher said if that is a person you loved, it can be a share of freedom, you can do a lot things together instead of by your own. i agree with it. but it is difficult to find a person you love and he loves you too. i dont want to get married.i like to be free.
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 5:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

im still young and i dont want to tied myself with another perso.but my teacher said if that is a person you loved, it can be a share of freedom, you can do a lot things together instead of by your own. i agree with it. but it is difficult to find a person you love and he loves you too. i dont want to get married.i like to be free.
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