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Ben Round de Bloc
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1946
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2004 11:19 am Post subject: |
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Just seeking the truth brothers and sisters. Where I live and work I don�t want to have to bury my belongings and hide behind closed doors when the sun goes down. I don�t want to have to play a cheap guitar because I had to leave my Stratocaster back in Canada out of fear of it being stolen.
- The Menace |
If you lived in certain parts of the city where I live, you'd have to do what you mentioned . . . and your cheap guitar would probably get stolen, too. In the part of the city where I live, I have no qualms about walking alone day or night. However, I don't leave my house unattended on a regular schedule, because it would surely be burglarized again.
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And I've never met an English teacher who was a victim of a violent crime in Mexico.
- MELEE |
Not sure if you'd consider it a violent crime, but I was attacked by a guy on a city bus in the middle of the afternoon once. I had red marks on my neck for 2 days as well as bruises on my left should from where he had me pinned between him and the bus window before I could break his hold on my throat and force my way out of the bus seat and into the aisle. He thought I had a laptop computer, but it was only a laptop carrying case with English books in it. When my laptop was stolen from my house, the burglars didn't take the carrying case, so I was using it as "briefcase" for my school stuff. (Dumb on my part, I know now.) That happened about the third month I was here, and I've been here now for over 9 years with no similar incidents.
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Certainly the small towns are extremely safe, much like small towns tend to be in most countries.
- scott wilhelm |
I think that depends on which part of the country and how small the town is. In the part of the country where I live, small villages can be rather lawless, especially when special celebrations are going on in them. Many locals consider the city to be generally safer than lots of the small towns. Based on personal experiences, I tend to agree.
As some others have mentioned, it's about common sense. Granted, bad things can happen sometimes that are beyond our control, but using a bit of common sense certainly lowers the percentages a whole lot. You can find almost anything you're looking for in Mexico. If you're looking for crime and violence, it's not difficult to find them. If you'd rather avoid such things, it's not that hard to do. |
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The Menace

Joined: 05 May 2003 Posts: 54 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2004 3:51 pm Post subject: |
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must be happy hour in Beijing
Ben Round,
Thanks for your comments.
Let me see if I understand. In Merida, where you live, common sense would dictate that walking around town during the day or going to and from school carrying your laptop, or something that looks like a laptop, would be a dumb idea. Is that right? I�m not sure I like the sounds of that.
Second, when you say you don�t leave your house unattended on a regular schedule, in what you would consider a safe part of town (as you say you can walk around alone at night), does that mean that if you went away for the weekend you would need a house sitter or someone watching your house at night? Not sure I like the sounds of that either.
I suppose it�s all relative, where I live I don�t lock my car in my driveway, usually forget to lock my doors at night; and when I go away for a month my only concern is, who will water my plant. (yes, plant, I can only manage to keep one alive) Of course I almost ran right into a grizzly bear on my mountain bike this week who scarred the be-jesus out of me. Two years ago a guy was almost killed by one at that very same spot. It doesn�t stop me from going there though.
It�s nice to know what to expect and not expect everything to be ok just because you want it to.
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Ben Round de Bloc
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1946
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2004 4:33 pm Post subject: |
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In Merida, where you live, common sense would dictate that walking around town during the day or going to and from school carrying your laptop, or something that looks like a laptop, would be a dumb idea. Is that right?
- The Menace |
Yes, that's right.
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Second, when you say you don�t leave your house unattended on a regular schedule, in what you would consider a safe part of town (as you say you can walk around alone at night), does that mean that if you went away for the weekend you would need a house sitter or someone watching your house at night?
- The Menace |
Yes, right again . . . except I'd want someone watching my house during the day, too.
One way or another, in this city it's necessary to have some type of home security: a gated community, a secure apartment complex, a neighborhood/street where everyone chips in for a security guard (often not particularly effective,) live-in domestic who additionally functions as security (very common,) at least one family member at home almost all the time (also common,) an extensive alarm system (also not particularly effective,) or a large dog (but then someone needs to feed it, water it, and let it out of the house if you're gone.)
Merida is not an unsafe city in which to live. For Mexican cities of its size, it ranks among the safest, I think. Violent crimes are rare. I don't consider it as a place with a threatening environment in which to live.
Also, unlike your adventures . . . or Guadalajara, according to Pete . . . no bears here.  |
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delacosta
Joined: 14 Apr 2004 Posts: 325 Location: zipolte beach
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2004 11:27 pm Post subject: safeti inmexico |
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Ok this should be fun:
I live and work in a very small town. People get murdered here quite often.
Not too long ago: two 'best buddies' on a borrachera, one of them says the wrong thing to the other- the offended party stumbles home and returns with his machete-cutting his friend to pieces.
Uncommon? Unfortunately not. I've heard this story a few times, once between brother and brother.
Foreigners have also ended up dead. The people who sell hard drugs in Mexico are not a nice bunch...
A fellow teacher where I work was once walking home from the bar late at night when a car pulled over, someone pointed a gun at him and took him for a ride-after having covered his head with a pillowcase. They took him to his place and robbed him of all his worldly possessions-those being his ghetto blaster and a few cd's.
And the funny thing is, I feel perfectly safe. Never lock my door at night and often step out leaving my door unlocked. I've never been robbed or broken into.
There's lots of scorpions where I live as well, and other nastier deadlier critters. Do I worry that I'm going to get stung? NO! If it's in the cards you're gonna get dealt anyway, whether you worry or not.
Come on down man, Mexico's a cool place.
Really. |
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scott wilhelm
Joined: 09 Feb 2004 Posts: 63 Location: st louis, mo
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Posted: Thu May 27, 2004 12:12 am Post subject: Safety in Mexico |
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I'm quoting here from the 2000 edition of Lonely Planet's guide to Mexico.
In the Mexico City section, under the heading Dangers & Annoyances :
"Foreigners have been the victims of far too many violent incidents (including assaults by the police) for anyone to deny the risks. But there's no need to walk in fear whenever you step outside your hotel: a few precautions greatly reduce any dangers."
I think that the precautions one can take to avoid crime in Mexico can be compared to the precautions any smart paddler would take before running a Class IV or V rapid- scout it and avoid the holes and undercuts. If taking a short cut down a dark and scary looking street gives you a bad feeling ( and it should) run the sneak route (stay on the more well-lit and well-travelled streets that will get you where you're going). And if an area looks like it is pushing Class V+, do what I did at Bull Sluice on the Chattooga at flood stage-portage.
In any event, Mexico is a river that The Menace should run. Just set a few safety ropes.
Believe me, Menace, Class IV or better whitewater is a whole lot scarier than anything you're likely to run into in Mexico. |
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The Menace

Joined: 05 May 2003 Posts: 54 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Thu May 27, 2004 1:02 am Post subject: |
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The only problem is; while you were scouting that class V drop someone�s pinched your boat and down at the takeout someone has stripped your vehicle down to the chassis, and your stuck up the creek with only a paddle and a stinky wet suit.
Sorry, can't help myself. Good boating analogies though.
Lot's of scary stuff happening but everyone seems to feel safe.
I think you're all nuts.
I may have to come check it out. |
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moonraven
Joined: 24 Mar 2004 Posts: 3094
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Posted: Thu May 27, 2004 1:27 pm Post subject: |
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Menace,
Maybe you should look at this from a different angle: Who wants to be SAFE anyway? Doesn't that sound a little boring, a little too much like something you've already experienced? |
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hooshootoo
Joined: 27 May 2004 Posts: 3 Location: Louisiana
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Posted: Fri May 28, 2004 2:43 am Post subject: |
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Re: I'm Canadian, so I get nervous going to the US let alone Mexico.
I am an American who lived in Progreso, Yucatan, for a while. I love Merida and feel perfectly safe there day and night. ...and I cannot remember anyone ever having a safety problem in Progreso. That having been said, we must remember that everyone in both Merida and Progreso is safety concious - close the gate, lock the door... just normal safety precautions.
In the States, on the other hand, we have serial killers, child molesters, and gangs who shoot into school busses - and I live in the "Bible Belt"!!! I have even been robbed at gunpoint in a Wal-Mart parking lot!
On the drive down to Yucatan, I was terrified of crossing Texas. I had checked a crime web site and discovered the number of serial killers I would be driving through. Scared me half to death! When I got to Progreso, my neighbor learned that I had driven down alone (with 3 dogs and a cat). He laughed and said, "You mean you weren't afraid of bandits?" We both had a good laugh over that. I was FAR safer on Mexican highways than I was trying to cross Texas!
I came back to the States because I didn't particularly care for living at the beach. It seemed like a good idea at the time, but I didn't realize I would be waking up with pulvo in my eyelashes every morning. I also wanted to come home for an impending avalanche of new grandbabies. However, ever since I have been here, the nightly news is scaring me half to death (giving "instructions" on how elderly folks can safely bring in their own mail at their own homes!!!) - so I will head back for Merida - because it is a SAFE place to live - as SOON as these next 2 grandbabies get here and settled in. |
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The Menace

Joined: 05 May 2003 Posts: 54 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Fri May 28, 2004 3:30 am Post subject: |
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I wasn�t going to post this but since you�ve revived this topic I guess I will.
In our local paper this morning I read that one of our citizens was murdered in Mexico. He was driving his car near a town called Culiacan north of Mazatlan heading back to Canada when he was robbed and murdered; they took his Chevy Tracker and left him on the side of the road stripped of any identification. They were able to figure out who his was because his dog was with him, badly injured but still alive and he had dog tags.
Not just a statistic, but someone I know. Eerie since all week I�ve been thinking about and asking a lot questions about safety in Mexico. |
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MELEE

Joined: 22 Jan 2003 Posts: 2583 Location: The Mexican Hinterland
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Posted: Fri May 28, 2004 7:40 pm Post subject: |
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The Menace wrote: |
Lot's of scary stuff happening but everyone seems to feel safe.
I think you're all nuts.
I may have to come check it out. |
I think we're all sane, its the rest of the world that is crazy.  |
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delacosta
Joined: 14 Apr 2004 Posts: 325 Location: zipolte beach
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Posted: Fri May 28, 2004 8:37 pm Post subject: |
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I think you're all nuts.
I may have to come check it out.
Now that's the attitude! |
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moonraven
Joined: 24 Mar 2004 Posts: 3094
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Posted: Sat May 29, 2004 9:21 pm Post subject: |
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Menace,
Ever see a film called "Treasure of the Sierra Madre"--based on one of the many novels by B. Traven, a very talented and very eccentric German guy who spent most of his adult life in Mexico?
One scene toward the end of the picture: a group of Mexican guys on horseback ride up to a tenderfoot prospector called Dobbs (Humphrey Bogart) and strongarm him (and his burro.) When they tell him that they are police, and he asks to see their badges, a particularly nasty looking guy spits out one of the most famous lines in film history: "WE DON'T NEED NO STINKIN' BADGES, GRINGO!"
A word to the wise.... |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sat May 29, 2004 9:34 pm Post subject: Play it, Sam |
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Dear moonraven,
Great movie, great line - but the quote actually went like this:
"Badges? We ain't got no badges. We don't need no badges. I don't have to show you any stinkin' badges!"
Regards,
John |
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moonraven
Joined: 24 Mar 2004 Posts: 3094
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Posted: Sat May 29, 2004 9:44 pm Post subject: |
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Slap my face! Could be that some of us film critics/addicts always remember the best version--and that was the form in which the quote was recycled in "Blazing Saddles"....All sleight of hand and scandalous distortion of quotes in the media aside, I hope that my message was clear.... |
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MELEE

Joined: 22 Jan 2003 Posts: 2583 Location: The Mexican Hinterland
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Posted: Thu Jun 17, 2004 6:48 pm Post subject: |
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FUN FACTS heard on the local radio station this morning:
In the State of Oaxaca:
80% of the homocides are commited by people who were rip roaringly drunk at the time of the crime. (translation my own )
The weapon in the majority of homocides commited in the state of Oaxaca: (sorry, they didn't give a percentage) the machete
The alcohol of choice of Oaxacan murders: Mezcal
Moral of the story??? Don't drink with someone with a machete on their belt.
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