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imjustme
Joined: 26 Jan 2012 Posts: 28
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Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2012 8:15 pm Post subject: OMG! |
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Backstory:
It's been eleven years now--count them--eleven plus, in fact, that I've been teaching English in East Asia. Done the Korean thing, done the Chinese thing, been many times on holiday to Thailand, Indonesia, been briefly in Cambodia, Singapore, Japan, and so on.
Nowstory:
I arrived in Hanoi, Hoan Kiem district (Old City) by train from China early yesterday morning. OK, yes, so this must be the proverbial honeymoon. And, OMG! People here are roughly 16 times friendlier than in South Korea, roughly sixteen THOUSAND times friendlier than in China!
The food here is underpraised. Friends, I've been in East Asia for eleven-plus years, but here in Vietnam I've just eaten both the best noodle dish AND the best rice dish in all that time. Hint: these dishes look bland, but pack in the flavor like none other. Vietnamese cuisine ranks about zero for presentation, but about 10+ for taste, if my admittedly rather small sampling of just one day is anything to go by.
Can't believe I've escaped China, at long last, and come to a place so much better. Sixteen MILLION times better might just about approach it.
No more zombies, either: Vietnamese people are alive. That may sound insane to anyone who hasn't been to both places. But believe me: I was in Nanning, China two days ago surrounded by ZOMBIES. I'm in Hanoi today, and the people here are ALIVE!
OMG!
P.S.: On another recent thread, MOD EDIT And YES, Vietnam's one of your better choices! Trust me, friends. Just trust me. |
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teacherkev
Joined: 05 Feb 2012 Posts: 18 Location: Vietnam
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 12:24 am Post subject: |
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Shout it from the roof tops brother. Tell your nearest and dearest too, unless they are all on Daves . They'll want to know you have found your own eutopia on this crazy planet. |
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Sudz
Joined: 09 Aug 2004 Posts: 438
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 12:26 am Post subject: |
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Glad to hear you're enjoying it.
I have to say though, I traveled to China for a few weeks, and found the people to be quite friendly (granted, I was in the more 'desirable' areas). Ran into a couple scams in Shanghai though, the likes of which I haven't experienced in Saigon (much more 'sophisticated' in nature).
Sounds like you're going through the honeymoon stage - which was probably what I was going through during my 3 weeks in China. You are experienced though, so I'm sure you do have a lot of other experiences to compare to.
Hanoi though?? They don't have the best reputation (not always deserving on a case-by-case basis), and I myself (through my limited time there) didn't find them to be overly friendly compared to the locals in HCMC. That said, I do think the differences between the two cities is somewhat inflated: 'friendly' Saigon, and 'cold' Hanoi).
On a somewhat related note (and perhaps contracting myself on the above paragraph a bit): After my several years hear, I get annoyed when people make sweeping generalizations about this place (not relating to your post at all). I get just as annoyed though hearing that the Vietnamese are 'so friendly' (usually a comment made by the locals) as hearing they are 'so dishonest' (this is usually related to experiences with shopping - though I'm not denying it doesn't happen in other situations). Truly though, I personally have had more experiences with extreme kindness than extreme dishonesty. Mostly in the countryside though (worth noting, as most people see Vietnam through the context of living in Hanoi/HCMC.)
Anyways what do I know....enjoy your stay. |
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1st Sgt Welsh

Joined: 13 Dec 2010 Posts: 946 Location: Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 12:51 am Post subject: |
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Good to see you are enjoying Vietnam imjustme . I'm personally not a big fan of Hanoi, but I know plenty of people who are. In regards to Vietnamese food, there are quite a few dishes which I think are nice, but, when it comes to eating, Vietnam, IMHO, ain't no Singapore .
My advice to any qualified person who is interested in coming to Vietnam for work has always been just to go for it! Maybe they will like it, maybe they won't. If they don't like it, at least they can say that they have tried it for themselves. Besides, if things don't work out, they can always move on. However, I now think that prospective new arrivals should perhaps seriously consider whether they are the sort of person who can hack it and adjust to living in a developing country (i.e. where about eighty-five percent of the world's population live). If they think they are not then maybe it's best for them, and everybody else, if they just give Vietnam a miss. |
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just noel
Joined: 17 Jul 2006 Posts: 168
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 12:58 am Post subject: Re: OMG! |
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imjustme wrote: |
I arrived in Hanoi, Hoan Kiem district (Old City) by train from China early yesterday morning. |
You have been in Hanoi for one day.
You cannot judge, be it good, neutral, or bad.
Wait a few months, and then make an assessment. |
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1st Sgt Welsh

Joined: 13 Dec 2010 Posts: 946 Location: Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 1:05 am Post subject: Re: OMG! |
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just noel wrote: |
imjustme wrote: |
I arrived in Hanoi, Hoan Kiem district (Old City) by train from China early yesterday morning. |
You have been in Hanoi for one day.
You cannot judge, be it good, neutral, or bad.
Wait a few months, and then make an assessment. |
I think first impressions are often important just noel, but, on the whole, I agree with you. Also we shouldn't forget that there is a huge difference between visiting a place as a tourist and living and working there. |
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inhanoi
Joined: 22 Oct 2011 Posts: 165
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 1:47 am Post subject: |
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justme has been in Asia for 11 years, noel. I doubt that a lecture on first impressions is required. I found the post to be cheerful and optimistic, no need for lectures or judgements. |
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The Mad Hatter
Joined: 16 May 2010 Posts: 165
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 2:39 am Post subject: |
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inhanoi wrote: |
justme has been in Asia for 11 years, noel. I doubt that a lecture on first impressions is required. I found the post to be cheerful and optimistic, no need for lectures or judgements. |
Exactly......... I just love the liberal sprinkling of life lessons our more cynical posters feel obliged to dole out.
Where does all that come from?
Sounds like the OP is having a ball....... more strength to you justme! |
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1st Sgt Welsh

Joined: 13 Dec 2010 Posts: 946 Location: Bandar Seri Begawan, Brunei
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 2:39 am Post subject: |
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inhanoi wrote: |
justme has been in Asia for 11 years, noel. I doubt that a lecture on first impressions is required. I found the post to be cheerful and optimistic, no need for lectures or judgements. |
Yeah, sure but, even for experienced travelers, first impressions can sometimes be a little misleading, or at least I think so. For instance, I benefited from an act of enormous kindness from some very decent Vietnamese people whilst I was visiting Hoi An. I haven't been back there since (it's something I'm always meaning to do), but I really, really like Hoi An. Actually, Hoi An and Sapa are, in my view, the nicest places to visit in VN . However, I met a Canadian guy a few weeks ago who had had a run of bad luck whilst he was in Hoi An and he hates the place. He told me the story and, if I was him, I would probably dislike Hoi An as well. What I guess I'm saying is that, when you are traveling, it can take only a few bad or good experiences to turn you off or on a place. Maybe that's a bit unfair, but it's probably just human nature.
In regards to the OP's post - I liked it too and I hope things keep working out for him . |
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mark_in_saigon
Joined: 20 Sep 2009 Posts: 837
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 4:22 am Post subject: life's lessons, lectures, cynicism, etc. |
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So, the OP, says, believe me, Chinese are 16 million times more zombied out or whatever his exact number and comment was. Is that not a lecture when he sticks believe me in there? Is that not cynicism when he talks smack about the Chinese?
Guys, there is good and bad everywhere. Discussing the bad does not make you a cynic. Discussing the good does not make us Pollyannas. Posting your experiences or beliefs does not make it a lecture. The value of a site like this is getting honest, reasonable experiences from all, not belittling others for their take on the situation. The subject is a teacher's first impressions of Ha Noi after living and working in China. My first impressions of Ha Noi were somewhat positive, as I was outside of the center most of the time in a nicer area. My later impressions were that compared to HCMC (everything is relative you know), it was a more tedious place to work, although the variation in seasons was a positive to me and I did find it more historically and architecturally interesting. |
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Spinoza

Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 194 Location: Saudi Arabia
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 5:01 am Post subject: |
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imjustme wrote: |
Vietnamese cuisine ranks about zero for presentation, but about 10+ for taste, if my admittedly rather small sampling of just one day is anything to go by. |
North Vietnamese food is delicious, isn't it? I'll never forget the time when I was sat on a little wobbly plastic chair at the side of the street (similar to the one in the above video) eating a hearty bowl of white noodle soup with beef. Or was it white noodle soup with chicken? Mind you, it might've been white noodle soup with fish. Such an interesting and varied local cuisine, it was difficult to keep up!
But anyway, my favorite North Vietnamese dish has to be buncha. Buncha, of course, is pieces of pork that are cooked over a crude barbeque at the side of the street and served in a lukewarm fish oil sauce. While customers wait for their food, they can observe local skilled artisans who do their depressing drudgery on the pavement. For example, the workers around me were welders, so my buncha was infused with sparks and probably tiny pieces of metal. Yum! Anyway, when the buncha arrives, it is served with local rice noodles, which taste similar to soggy paper, and also some leaves which have been washed in the local tap water, which, if you're lucky, won't hospitalize you as it is toxic. |
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The Mad Hatter
Joined: 16 May 2010 Posts: 165
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 5:52 am Post subject: |
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What satisfaction a 34 year old with a BA in Philosophy and History can possibly derive from mischief-making on an ESL teachers forum is beyond me.
Are all English this regressed? |
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Spinoza

Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 194 Location: Saudi Arabia
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 6:01 am Post subject: |
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^ Some of us have gained further qualifications since 2004, The Mad Hatter. Of course, this would be anathema to somebody who's been peddling TEFL in Asia for years on end and is now in Vietdump where they don't even require a degree. |
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bludevil96
Joined: 07 Aug 2006 Posts: 82
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 6:21 am Post subject: Re: OMG! |
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1st Sgt Welsh wrote: |
just noel wrote: |
imjustme wrote: |
I arrived in Hanoi, Hoan Kiem district (Old City) by train from China early yesterday morning. |
You have been in Hanoi for one day.
You cannot judge, be it good, neutral, or bad.
Wait a few months, and then make an assessment. |
I think first impressions are often important just noel, but, on the whole, I agree with you. Also we shouldn't forget that there is a huge difference between visiting a place as a tourist and living and working there. |
It appears Noel, that he did make that judgement...for just one day. Don't worry man, if you spend at least 1 week, you'll see that all Viets are "dishonest, selfish, and greedy". I just don't understand how some people are so miserable but find it ok to make a living off of the miserableness. I'll just second the statement from the good sargeant here. There are good and bad places everywhere...ok, maybe with the exception of China. But don't you worry, China just might decide to invade VN and turn it into the miserable zombie-like place that you just ran from. Hey, I've been here 5 yrs and I haven't hit that invisible wall. I think it has something to do with having a positive outlook and just not letting the little things getting in the way of the big picture.
Welcome to Vietnam. You should see what the whole country is like before deciding where to teach. You'll find the students to be much better to teach than your other places. Saigon is vastly different than Hanoi in terms of culture and people, and they don't like each other AT ALL. I, myself prefers southern hospitality here; it's more genuine and laid back in terms of friendliness culture. Oh yeah, l believe it might even have less dishonesty, selfishness, and greed. |
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Spinoza

Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 194 Location: Saudi Arabia
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Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2012 6:40 am Post subject: Re: OMG! |
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bludevil96 wrote: |
Saigon is vastly different than Hanoi etc etc etc |
Having been to Ho Chi Minh Pit just the once (for a weekend trip in order to briefly relieve myself of the ceaseless, pulverizing bombardment of suckage that is Hanoi), I agree it seemed slightly better, but this is "slightly better" in the same way that drowning is superior to being burned alive. Both are awful. |
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