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smooches
Joined: 29 Dec 2010 Posts: 11
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 4:37 pm Post subject: UAE w/ Young Child??? |
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I'm planning to teach abroad for two years or so and I am meeting with recruiters now. I'm considering Abu Dhabi, Dubai, and Al Ain but I could use a realistic perspective about my options.
I'm a US Citizen, Fluent in English, MEd in Education, Certified K-8 teacher, 8 years of experience teaching Kindergarten, 2 years as an Instructional Coach.
I also have a 1 year-old son so I need to know about childcare options. ANY advice is appreciated.
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helenl
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 1202
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 5:09 pm Post subject: |
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Advice about what? About the only thing I can comment on from your post is if you are meeting with recruiters is that the better employers don't use them |
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smooches
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 5:15 pm Post subject: |
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helenl wrote: |
Advice about what? About the only thing I can comment on from your post is if you are meeting with recruiters is that the better employers don't use them |
Thanks for your reply. I'm looking for advice about the best way to get started and the best teaching options that match my qualifications. I also appreciate any perspective about child care for a toddler. |
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mimi_intheworld
Joined: 23 May 2010 Posts: 167 Location: UAE
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 8:00 pm Post subject: |
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If you'd like to work in primary school (which seems likely, given your quals), I am interviewing with ADEC, going through a recruiter. UAE, from everything I've heard, is quite safe for you and your child, and has plenty of English speaking schools if you choose to enrol him. [helenl, ADEC uses recruiters to screen teachers before in-person interviews.] |
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smooches
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2011 8:27 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks mimi, saw your post in another thread.
How was your interview? Do you mind sharing the details of your experience? |
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helenl
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 1202
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Posted: Thu Feb 03, 2011 2:29 am Post subject: |
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ADEC is probably the only decent employer in UAE that uses recruiters. They don't provide any education allowance which would be of importance to the OP. There are nurseries but hours of operation and quality of care can vary - careful research is needed.
Suggest OP researches the k-12 private schools as well as looking at ADEC.
Also, it would be very important that she have documentation concerning the custody status of her son - UAE is very careful to ensure that single women have full custody and the documentation hoops that must be jumped can be tedious. |
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uaeobserver
Joined: 05 Feb 2007 Posts: 236
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Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2011 4:53 am Post subject: |
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The UAE is an exceptionally child-friendly place (in my opinion).
Abu Dhabi and Al Ain (in particular) - are both wall-to-wall parks.
Just make sure you have a good employer - and might find yourself a delightful nanny/maid from Sri Lanka who will spoil your kid, big time. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Fri Feb 04, 2011 3:10 pm Post subject: |
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Few places in the world are more child friendly than the Middle East. But, I just want to emphasize that you will be required to provide written permission from the father... whether you are or ever were married to him.
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smooches
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Posted: Sun Feb 06, 2011 8:10 pm Post subject: Thank You! |
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Thanks everyone for sharing your responses! Sounds like the UAE is more child-friendly than my current city so this is great for my kid. I was choosing between 3 locations and Abu Dhabi is definitely my first choice at the moment.
Dad and I are married and we're all going together but he travels a lot so I need to get a handle on childcare now. I set up an interview and I'm waiting to hear back now. Wish us well! |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 1:08 am Post subject: |
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That is great. So you have back-up if you can't arrange childcare immediately. This can be a difficult process for single mothers.
Good Luck in the interview!
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Tiger Beer

Joined: 08 Feb 2003 Posts: 778 Location: Hong Kong
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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2012 7:26 am Post subject: |
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uaeobserver wrote: |
Just make sure you have a good employer - and might find yourself a delightful nanny/maid from Sri Lanka who will spoil your kid, big time. |
That connects to an inquiry I have about 'nannies'.
Is it common for uni teachers, who have families, to also have a nanny? I.E. is that something that is rare or common?
I believe I've read that many professionals with good jobs have live-in nannies. Same for ESL uni teachers in the UAE? |
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veiledsentiments

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Posted: Sun Dec 02, 2012 3:13 pm Post subject: |
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This is not a cheap option and the only couples that I knew that had live-in nannies were teaching couples. (or those that husbands in high pay non-education jobs) It also requires a large enough flat to house her.
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hamergirl
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2012 8:22 am Post subject: |
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It costs approximately 400 - 500 dollars a month to employ a full time live in nanny. That's pretty reasonable and yes, it is extremely common. |
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Gulezar
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 3:20 am Post subject: Top of the heap |
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You can be selective when choosing a nanny. Americans have a good reputation for treating their help with dignity. In fact, some folks find Americans to be too generous and that they allow "the help" too much latitude. Most nannies would jump at the opportunity to work with an understanding, American teacher who expects the child to have some limits and the husband doesn't jump on anything with a skirt. I bet you would not mind exploring Sri Lankan vegetarian dishes either, as long as the spices are introduced with some restraint. It does take some time to sponsor a nanny as there is a visa process, but you may be able to find a temporary nanny for a short time in the afternoons, but the maid's official sponsor can always demand her services, so it is a bit of a risk. It won't take long before you'll have "I have a cousin in the old country" inquiries knocking on your door asking if you are in need of a cleaning person or child care. |
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Tiger Beer

Joined: 08 Feb 2003 Posts: 778 Location: Hong Kong
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 6:41 am Post subject: Re: Top of the heap |
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Gulezar wrote: |
It does take some time to sponsor a nanny as there is a visa process, but you may be able to find a temporary nanny for a short time in the afternoons, but the maid's official sponsor can always demand her services, so it is a bit of a risk. |
This is an interesting one. How much does this cost?
Basically, have two kids, and moreso to give the wife a break during the day.
Also, wife is thinking of parttime jobs, so a little fill-in time might nice as well.
Basically, this seems much more attractive than someone who just lives there all the time. How much would that cost though - per hour? Or how do they usually arrange that? |
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