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KSA - your expectations vs reality?
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Hatcher



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PostPosted: Fri May 03, 2013 4:13 am    Post subject: KSA - your expectations vs reality? Reply with quote

I am curious what people expected or what perceptions they had vs what the KSA actually is, in their view.

For me, it is how many Saudis who consider the KSA to be the beautiful place on earth and almost paradise compared the most Jordanians and Egyptians who say it is incredibly tough to be here. I assumed that the Jordanians wouldnt have much trouble being here. My student from Kuwait said he found it tough here as well.
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cmp45



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PostPosted: Fri May 03, 2013 5:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Of course many Saudis will tell you KSA is the best place on earth...it is their home...they are going to be biased Surprised However, I have met a few Saudis that do not share this sentiment due to various (personal) reasons.

Most expatriate workers and students having a difficult time in KSA are more likely just homesick for their family, friends and all things familiar. This is normal. However, it is easier for people to project such feelings onto the host country, using KSA as the reason for all thier problems rather than addressing the real issues for their malaise....homesickness being one of the main reasons and differences in culture, customs and religon being another.
Your Kuwait student is a good example of this...

Obviously those that are stuck in a bad work situation may feel otherwise, but then again they can certainly choose to leave despite the problems or excuses they have for keeping them stuck in KSA. No matter what people may say about KSA; they chose to come, they can choose to leave.

Home is where I lay my hat.

Yes, KSA has its challenges, most places will have some challenges, perhaps KSA is more so, nevertheless, I take full responsibility for my emotions and attitude, I do not blame KSA for any of it. I was fully aware of the laws and restrictions before hand. If it gets to the point of bashing KSA when I am feeling down, then I will leave and go somewhere else.
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Hatcher



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PostPosted: Fri May 03, 2013 8:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you. I was only asking about expectations and reality...
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Wilsonthefarmer



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PostPosted: Fri May 03, 2013 9:25 am    Post subject: Re: KSA - your expectations vs reality? Reply with quote

Hatcher wrote:
For me, it is how many Saudis who consider the KSA to be the beautiful place on earth and almost paradise compared the most Jordanians and Egyptians who say it is incredibly tough to be here. I assumed that the Jordanians wouldnt have much trouble being here. My student from Kuwait said he found it tough here as well.

The reality of the Magic Kingdom is that the expat from Egypt, Sudan, Jordan, and other Arab countries are not treated equally as the Saudi citizens. Also, the social life in the Magic Kingdom is more conservative comparared to life in most of the Arab/islamic countries. That's why most of the expat from Arab/Islamic countries find it tough in the Magic Kingdom, and are supporting this for keeping their job and most of them use the rule "keep low profile and shut up"!
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cmp45



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PostPosted: Fri May 03, 2013 9:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hatcher wrote:
Thank you. I was only asking about expectations and reality...


Yes and I told you what I thought...perhaps a more direct approach may help you get what I was trying to say...many people, usually from other less conservative (Muslim) nations...in other words...every other country in the world, have distorted expectations that life in KSA will be similar to life back home, but when they get here they realize (the reality) it is not...thier expectations have not been met, so they blame it all on KSA for not having the same culture, and customs or accommodating theirs. They are upset because they have to conform to the laws of the land...and complain because everything is so different from home. And yes they may not get the same 'respect' they may have at home. Alot of people just can not cope or adjust. They wish/ want/ desire life to be more familiar... like home.
My advice to these unfortunate souls...is to stop moaning and make the best of the situation or go home!

Lastly, any educated person even from another Muslim nation should know that KSA is an ultra conservative country and would certainly NOT be anything like their home country...unfortunately many people do not bother to do any sort of research or inquiry before hand.
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fledex



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PostPosted: Fri May 03, 2013 11:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What I expected or perceived vs. what KSA is? I had lived in the Middle East and other Islamic countries before. So I was expecting it to be like those countries, but more conservative, like no alcohol at all. However, after being there a couple weeks, being watched by CID officers in our hotel lobby, being told to let them know where we went, who we went with, and being followed on the street by police, I felt like I was in one of the old Soviet block countries back in the 1970s (I was in Russia and Poland in the 70s, and in China in 1989). I know a doomed political-economic regime when I see it. I hope the Saudi regime will go the same way as the regimes in those countries went. It's not about culture, it's about repression. Yes, plenty of Saudis hate it also, but are scared to talk about it. The repression helps breed so many of the bad employers in Saudi.
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EYEBALL



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PostPosted: Sat May 04, 2013 4:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is a lot more going on in the background than the rosy picture the official media paints in SA. I have to agree with cmp45, the current SA regime has a limited shelf life left to it. I also think that if the Saud family were overthrown, few tears would be shed anywhere. Rich Saudi's who can afford to get out are making sure they have "Plan B" ready WTSHTF in Saudi.

It has been discussed elsewhere on Dave's about your "exit plans." But consider, if TS does HTF, how much cash will they allow you to take out? They could limit the amount you are allowed take out, even gold and silver. How many teachers here do have Plan B ready?
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Sat May 04, 2013 2:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear EYEBALL,

Don't you send most of your salary home every month? I always did - I learned THAT lesson in Iran in 1978 -1979.

Regards,
John
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cmp45



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PostPosted: Sat May 04, 2013 5:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

johnslat wrote:
Dear EYEBALL,

Don't you send most of your salary home every month? I always did - I learned THAT lesson in Iran in 1978 -1979.

Regards,
John


Yes, it is the sensible thing to do. I send most of pay home each month, and still have plenty left to spend on food etc. Very Happy
another 10 years...and maybe I will be able to retire Shocked
If I manage to stay that long I will have surpassed your '19 years' John.
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Sat May 04, 2013 5:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear cmp45,

Good luck - I have NO regrets about my time there. I was very fortunate; I landed with a good employer and enjoyed my job a lot.

Of course, now I'm totally insane, but hey - there's ALWAYS a downside Very Happy .

Regards,
John
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cmp45



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PostPosted: Sat May 04, 2013 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well if ur insane now, then I am on my way,,,,so far so good...
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Sat May 04, 2013 7:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear cmp45,

"another 10 years..."

Clearly, you are (un)WELL on your way Very Happy

Regards,
John
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fledex



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PostPosted: Fri May 10, 2013 3:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

EYEBALL wrote:
There is a lot more going on in the background than the rosy picture the official media paints in SA. I have to agree with cmp45, the current SA regime has a limited shelf life left to it. I also think that if the Saud family were overthrown, few tears would be shed anywhere. Rich Saudi's who can afford to get out are making sure they have "Plan B" ready WTSHTF in Saudi.

It has been discussed elsewhere on Dave's about your "exit plans." But consider, if TS does HTF, how much cash will they allow you to take out? They could limit the amount you are allowed take out, even gold and silver. How many teachers here do have Plan B ready?


Pay close attention to what happens in Bahrain to get some idea for when and if change comes to Saudi. So many factors are involved: who knows what will happen? Things are not good for a lot of people in Bahrain now. If things get serious in Saudi, I doubt the international backers will be paying so much attention to keeping the regime in Bahrain in power. Frankly, I don't see how such repression can go on for more than another decade. Those kinds of repressive governments in South Africa, Eastern Europe, and the old regime of China are all gone or substantially changed.
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scot47



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PostPosted: Fri May 10, 2013 3:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You cannot compare Bahrain and KSA. Completely different ! I remember back in the 1970s people saying that the Sauds could not last. 40 years later......................................

Of course if you look at the world through liberal, western, secular spectacles you may have problems in figuring out what is there !


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johnslat



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PostPosted: Fri May 10, 2013 4:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Slattery's Law

Revolutions seldom (if ever) happen in countries where much or most of the native population drive Hondas, Toyotas, or better brands. Very Happy

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John
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