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Sinaman
Joined: 23 May 2009 Posts: 85
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 4:42 am Post subject: |
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| A contract is a contract is a contract, whether it is in America or Europe or China. The locals have no problem keeping you to it so I dont know why anyone would be willing to compromise on an issue that is important to them |
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A contract is only a paper that outlines an agreement and the interpretation of that agreement is up to the individual..... your issue may not be important to the other contract signer ..... a savy FT knows when to give or push .....the world is built on compromise after agreements and it is no different here... the only work where your type of non compliant attitude will work in your favor is that of a ..come to think of it ..NONE! |
um no, and shame on anyone for signing a contract that is ambiguous.
I couldnt care less if an issue is not important to the other party of the contract, if its important to me I will point it out.
Now if the issue cannot be resolved then I dont see any problem with packing my bags and leaving. Either that or hire a lawyer to work on your behalf (although I doubt the average teacher would have the money, patience or the inclination to do so).
I have compromised on many things in my time here, things that to me werent a big deal, but will not compromise on issues that are "big" to me.
"The world is built on compromise after agreements..." maybe in china but nowhere else where Ive been.
And BTW Ive been in China since 2001 and have never needed to walk out on a contract (I have exercised a clause on a contract that said I could leave with enough notice) and I never felt the need to back down on a point that was important to me. Any time that a problem has happened that I wouldnt compromise on, I just refused to do it and that was it.
Have fun with your 2014 being exploited goals. |
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choudoufu

Joined: 25 May 2010 Posts: 3325 Location: Mao-berry, PRC
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 4:59 am Post subject: |
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| george bernard shaw shoulda wrote: |
| The reasonable FT adapts himself to China; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt China to himself. Therefore, a harmonious win-win countryside depends on the reasonable man. |
| Sinaman wrote: |
| A contract is a contract is a contract, whether it is in America or Europe or China. |
unless of course, you happen to be in "our china," in which case a
contract is merely an artist's conception. |
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Sinaman
Joined: 23 May 2009 Posts: 85
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 5:11 am Post subject: |
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And for the life of me, if you are experiencing these things, I dont know why anyone would put up with it; for a measly RMB5,000 a month? seriously?
There are so many jobs out there, why put up with it? What kind of servile losers are these teachers? Leave! |
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muffintop
Joined: 07 Jan 2013 Posts: 803
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 7:33 am Post subject: |
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| Hardline and rigid attitudes like "no negotiation on this one" (is that what they teach in labor studies now?) often lead to a short and bitter experience in China. Those who are happy and successful here are those who are willing and able to find compromise, even if that compromise falls slightly outside the terms of your contract (which some on here are fond of saying ain't worth the paper it's printed on anyway). |
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The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man.
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A contract is a contract is a contract, whether it is in America or Europe or China. The locals have no problem keeping you to it so I dont know why anyone would be willing to compromise on an issue that is important to them. You really dont think they know they are taking the p*ss out of you when they ask you to go above and beyond what is written? Stop being such a soft mark and stand up for yourself!
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Actually, I bet more than a few of them don't.
I've yet to meet a Chinese person who stood up and told their boss 'NO!' because something wasn't in their contract or because they were asked to work extra hours or whatever. This is their...culture.
I have no problem standing up for myself when it's worth it. I have seen too many get all bent out of shape over every minor issue though. Those clowns...if they even make it through a singe contract...are not asked back. They bounce from school to school usually leaving headaches for other FT's in their wake.
I've walked away from schools and private gigs for numerous reasons. All of them to me were important. To somebody else...maybe less so. It's not for me to decide what should make somebody else leave a school...everybody has their own limits. There is no real right or wrong here.
Calling people marks...is more than a little pathetic. |
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NoBillyNO

Joined: 11 Jun 2012 Posts: 1762
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 7:48 am Post subject: |
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um no, and shame on anyone for signing a contract that is ambiguous.
I couldnt care less if an issue is not important to the other party of the contract, if its important to me I will point it out.
Now if the issue cannot be resolved then I don't see any problem with packing my bags and leaving. |
well you know that they say .. no one is so valuable they cant be replaced...and packing your own bags sure saves them lot of trouble....i just witnessed a British colleague, who signed a British contract, and was unwilling to compromise and now he has been replaced "toot sweet"... while your stand fast attitude will surely be admired by some, if there were mouths to feed or someone counting on you to provide a living .. or how about instruction or guidance...while you draw your line in the sand, others may suffer from your stubborn refusal.....and while I may side with you on this .. I don't want to do what I don't wanna do.. even if I agreed to it.. hey things change... my answer is always that was then and this is now....however I don't have anyone depending on me to put cloth on their backs....if i did .. maybe I wouldn't be so quick to draw that line .....this world and this board needs more understanding that where all individuals with our own game plan and sense of reality ....besides those that front this kind of resistance and are "popin off at the bill" as to what they will do.. rarely do what they have said...I am afraid I would have to call B.S. on what you wrote... |
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Sinaman
Joined: 23 May 2009 Posts: 85
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 7:52 am Post subject: |
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| muffintop wrote: |
| Sinaman wrote: |
| Javelin of Radiance wrote: |
| Hardline and rigid attitudes like "no negotiation on this one" (is that what they teach in labor studies now?) often lead to a short and bitter experience in China. Those who are happy and successful here are those who are willing and able to find compromise, even if that compromise falls slightly outside the terms of your contract (which some on here are fond of saying ain't worth the paper it's printed on anyway). |
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The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man.
George Bernard Shaw |
A contract is a contract is a contract, whether it is in America or Europe or China. The locals have no problem keeping you to it so I dont know why anyone would be willing to compromise on an issue that is important to them. You really dont think they know they are taking the p*ss out of you when they ask you to go above and beyond what is written? Stop being such a soft mark and stand up for yourself!
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Actually, I bet more than a few of them don't.
I've yet to meet a Chinese person who stood up and told their boss 'NO!' because something wasn't in their contract or because they were asked to work extra hours or whatever. This is their...culture.
I've walked away from schools and private gigs for numerous reasons. All of them to me were important. To somebody else...maybe less so. It's not for me to decide what should make somebody else leave a school...everybody has their own limits. There is no real right or wrong here.
Calling people marks...is more than a little pathetic. |
You think they dont stand up to their boss because they feel that "the world is built on compromise after agreements" or because, like you said, it is in their culture (not for the reason you are assuming but because they have been ingrained to accept authority figures) and because they are afraid to lose their job?
I suggest you interact more with chinese staff at these schools and ask them how they feel about working extra hours, working back, etc. The chinese staff where I have worked hated it, but felt powerless to do anything about it. If you have worked at just the one school for, say, at least 3 years then you will see a huge turnover of staff. Thats part of the reason why.
And sorry, dear but you are a mark if the other party in a contract suddenly changes conditions on you on an issue that you deem to be "big, to your detriment and you just accept it (even if you kick up a fuss about it) |
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Sinaman
Joined: 23 May 2009 Posts: 85
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 8:14 am Post subject: |
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um no, and shame on anyone for signing a contract that is ambiguous.
I couldnt care less if an issue is not important to the other party of the contract, if its important to me I will point it out.
Now if the issue cannot be resolved then I don't see any problem with packing my bags and leaving. |
well you know that they say .. no one is so valuable they cant be replaced...and packing your own bags sure saves them lot of trouble....i just witnessed a British colleague, who signed a British contract, and was unwilling to compromise and now he has been replaced "toot sweet"... while your stand fast attitude will surely be admired by some, if there were mouths to feed or someone counting on you to provide a living .. or how about instruction or guidance...while you draw your line in the sand, others may suffer from your stubborn refusal.....and while I may side with you on this .. I don't want to do what I don't wanna do.. even if I agreed to it.. hey things change... my answer is always that was then and this is now....however I don't have anyone depending on me to put cloth on their backs....if i did .. maybe I wouldn't be so quick to draw that line .....this world and this board needs more understanding that where all individuals with our own game plan and sense of reality ....besides those that front this kind of resistance and are "popin off at the bill" as to what they will do.. rarely do what they have said...I am afraid I would have to call B.S. on what you wrote... |
Actually I do have a wife and baby depending on me.
And yeah a teacher may be easily replaced, but so what? Good on them for finding someone new who will put up with their conditions, at least that Brit teacher wont have to and if hes any good he'll find another job quick smart (if he hadnt already while his dispute was ongoing)...big deal! I see it as a win-win.
Im at a point where I dont need to sign contracts with any employer, but I have to laugh at you for thinking that you have to put up with BS from an employer out of fear of losing your job. Just like a school may easily replace you with another teacher, you, as a teacher, can easily replace your school with another. I can come up with plenty of anecdotes too. A brit teacher when he first came here was making RMB4,000 a month. When I asked him why he agreed to work for so little he said he didnt know any better. He left the job a few months later (dont know the reason why), and I know hes making RMB8,000 now. The DOS at the local EF was sacked from his RMB15K a month position for being an alcoholic loser and (while doing so illegally) now hes making around RMB20K a month doing privates from his home, and he just bought a car actually.
Seriously, anyone who has been here 3+ years should be aware enough to be able to "play the game" and not put up with any excessive BS. If you dont, then youre not doing it right. |
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Bud Powell
Joined: 11 Jul 2013 Posts: 1736
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 8:32 am Post subject: |
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I don't buy the argument that a contract is a fluid thing. Every contract says "agrees" in every paragraph.
Agree:
1.have the same opinion about something; concur.
2. consent to do something that has been suggested by another person
Once both parties have signed the contract, negotiations are over.
The contracts also contain language stating that the terms of the contract may be changed by mutual agreement. If one side unilaterally changes the terms of the contract, that constitutes a breach of contract if the other side does not agree to the change. Every employment contract I've signed in China states this. I doubt that any labor board in China or City Foreign Affairs Office would disagree with the meaning and intent of such language.
I also don't buy the argument that people who expect a contract to be honored are necessarily inflexible and doomed to moving from one employer to another. That one FT has stayed with one employer for a long time doesn't necessarily mean that he is flexible. It could mean that his employer hasn't changed the contract unilaterally or that any change to the contract was arrived at by mutual agreement.
I agree that one must pick his battles. A few extra hours of class time may not create hardship, depending upon the circumstances, the Big Picture. Anyone who has spent time in China must come to expect certain surprises that are not in the contract, things like being asked to give an unscheduled lecture for English Day or some such thing. That's just not worth fighting over. That's the kind of thing that ALL universities do. There are activities that occur throughout the year that just aren't mentioned in the contract, and those activities almost always fall under overtime.
However, there are things that once negotiated should not be changed. One of them is salary. Another is agreement over accommodations. I've had a school disable the a/c during the summer, then the disable the heat in the winter. The schools said it was broken and couldn't afford to fix it. Guess what? No a/c in the dead of summer and no heat in the winter is a major breach of contract in my book when the contract specifically states that the apartment would be heated and air conditioned. I even offered to pay whatever the monthly electricity would cost. (Before anyone suggests it, let me say that this was not an attempt to force me to quit because i was a bad teacher. I had been asked three times to agree to a five year contract). The problem was that the Powers that Be just decided that it could save money by cutting those amenities off. I rolled with the punches and bought a fan for the summer, but the freezing apartment was the last straw. I asked for a release of contract and was granted one by the FAO. The FAO had to take it on the chin because it was not her decision to cut the a/c and electricity.
Again, negotiations end when both parties sign the agreement. If the administration wants to change the terms of the contract, it must enter into negotiations to reach mutual agreement as specified by the contract. |
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muffintop
Joined: 07 Jan 2013 Posts: 803
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 9:06 am Post subject: |
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NoBillyNO

Joined: 11 Jun 2012 Posts: 1762
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 10:06 am Post subject: |
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| Im at a point where I dont need to sign contracts with any employer, but I have to laugh at you for thinking that you have to put up with BS from an employer out of fear of losing your job. |
Sorry for not making this clear... I never said you have to put up with BS.. I said I was calling BS on what you said...and if your don't sign a contract then u have no contract to point out .... so there would be no disagreement.
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| I couldnt care less if an issue is not important to the other party of the contract, if its important to me I will point it out. |
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| Now if the issue cannot be resolved then I dont see any problem with packing my bags and leaving. |
Easy to do if you don't sign a contract....yeah I'm calling B.S.
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| And BTW Ive been in China since 2001 and have never needed to walk out on a contract (I have exercised a clause on a contract that said I could leave with enough notice) and I never felt the need to back down on a point that was important to me. |
Then you did abide by the contract.....
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| that Brit teacher wont have to and if hes any good he'll find another job quick smart (if he hadnt already while his dispute was ongoing)...big deal! I see it as a win-win. |
In this case he ask for his job back...but another person had already filled the slot so while you see it in some kind of misguided Win Win situation ... he is out of a job ..and sure he can get another one but this is when evaluation of all things contracted, perks and benefits measure up against anything new or different (that is requested of your employment) comes into play...after looking around he has determined that he had it pretty good.... |
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Sinaman
Joined: 23 May 2009 Posts: 85
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 10:46 am Post subject: |
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| NoBillyNO wrote: |
Sorry for not making this clear... I never said you have to put up with BS.. I said I was calling BS on what you said...and if your don't sign a contract then u have no contract to point out .... so there would be no disagreement.
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I understood what you meant, and obviously while I may not have a contract with an employer now, it doesnt mean I didnt have them in the past and I have had disagreements in the past.
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| Easy to do if you don't sign a contract....yeah I'm calling B.S. |
I am not talking about me presently but about different situations in the past.
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Then you did abide by the contract..... |
Well, duh, which is what I wanted to do originally (and the point of these posts!). Keep up! It was them that wanted to change aspects of it without my consent. I said no and that was that.
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In this case he ask for his job back...but another person had already filled the slot so while you see it in some kind of misguided Win Win situation ... he is out of a job ..and sure he can get another one but this is when evaluation of all things contracted, perks and benefits measure up against anything new or different (that is requested of your employment) comes into play...after looking around he has determined that he had it pretty good.... |
Well then, without knowing too much about this particular situation he obviously doesnt know what hes doing...
How hard is it? Say he finds another job that pays what? a poverty RMB5,000 a month? Its quite easy to then do privates on the side. Say, 10 students x RMB500 (if you want to go cheap) teaching from home. BOOM! hes already doubled his salary. If he cant find 10 students, then either hes a crap teacher or new.
I dont have a contract with an employer because I own my own school. I do have a partner and my contract is with her. I trust her, she trusts me and whenever there is a disagreement we talk it over until there is a resolution. She has grown up in HK so shes a bit more wordly about things than a lot of locals and weve never had a big disagreement either.
I am still laughing at teachers allowing themselves to be exploited for RMB5000 a month and a free apartment |
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D-M
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 1:02 pm Post subject: |
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Its quite easy to then do privates on the side. Say, 10 students x RMB500 (if you want to go cheap) teaching from home. BOOM! hes already doubled his salary. If he cant find 10 students, then either hes a crap teacher or new.
I am still laughing at teachers allowing themselves to be exploited for RMB5000 a month and a free apartment |
Congrats for finding yourself a niche or a good spot and doing well ... but for newbies that may be reading ... dont be fooled ... China is a big place, and in some locations finding privates is hard, let alone charging these kind of fees for them ... no matter how good you are. Ditto for salaries ...
I work in a training centre ... my training centre students pay between 20 - 35 per class hour ... and I current have 5 or less students per class. Thinking too much isnt good, and not every location is equal. |
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mw182006

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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 1:30 pm Post subject: |
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And for the life of me, if you are experiencing these things, I dont know why anyone would put up with it; for a measly RMB5,000 a month? seriously?
There are so many jobs out there, why put up with it? What kind of servile losers are these teachers? Leave! |
You again? When I read your posts I imagine someone sitting at a monitor while a gust of air whooshes the point off the screen and over their head. NS and others have made it abundantly clear that they're happy with their situations. You're the only one that keeps using the term exploitation.
You seem to have trouble comprehending that people are different and not all of us have multiple mortgages and baby-momma salaries to pay each month. I didn't make this move for the money, I enjoy the relaxed schedule (no major BS to speak of so far), and I still save a chunk of change each month while living with ZERO debt. You come off like some sort of weird CTFU drone who's been buried for awhile. I'm surprised you're not using this thread to recruit those 'servile losers' so you can keep piling up that fat cash. Wow, someone with a drinking problem who I'll likely never meet is making a little over 3K USD per month...enough to buy a car! I now have a hero to aspire to. Thank you, Sinaman.
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Sinaman
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 1:58 pm Post subject: |
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And for the life of me, if you are experiencing these things, I dont know why anyone would put up with it; for a measly RMB5,000 a month? seriously?
There are so many jobs out there, why put up with it? What kind of servile losers are these teachers? Leave! |
You again? When I read your posts I imagine someone sitting at a monitor while a gust of air whooshes the point off the screen and over their head. NS and others have made it abundantly clear that they're happy with their situations. You're the only one that keeps using the term exploitation.
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Another one who cant keep up. The conversation had evolved to talking about local employers changing the contract terms on FTs without the FTs agreement. Thats what I was responding to, and thats where the conversation was going. We were not talking about FTs happy to work for RMB5,000. |
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muffintop
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Posted: Mon Jan 06, 2014 2:09 pm Post subject: |
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| Sinaman wrote: |
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And for the life of me, if you are experiencing these things, I dont know why anyone would put up with it; for a measly RMB5,000 a month? seriously?
There are so many jobs out there, why put up with it? What kind of servile losers are these teachers? Leave! |
You again? When I read your posts I imagine someone sitting at a monitor while a gust of air whooshes the point off the screen and over their head. NS and others have made it abundantly clear that they're happy with their situations. You're the only one that keeps using the term exploitation.
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Another one who cant keep up. The conversation had evolved to talking about local employers changing the contract terms on FTs without the FTs agreement. Thats what I was responding to, and thats where the conversation was going. We were not talking about FTs happy to work for RMB5,000. |
No. Actually...you're wrong. You're not even close to being right. Nobody in this thread said they should eat whatever crap their bosses want to feed them. Nobody. Yet you and others (hi changeling) try to show how alpha male you are. You guys don't impress anybody. You deserve our sympathy. Nothing more. Nothing less.
Yes, a single person in this thread said their school changed the contract terms...or had a different idea about what those terms meant......but he isn't crying. In fact, he is happy about the end result. I won't say I agree with his choices but they were his...not mine. And it worked out for him.
What are you trying to prove here? So far, the only thing you proved is that you're a buffoon.
I can only hope you're as much of a man as changeling is to admit when you're wrong.
We all have our limits. We all have things we can and can not accept. These are unique to the individual. What is a big thing to you may not be to another. Grow up and accept that others may have an opinion different than yours. This in and of itself does not make them wrong. I don't care how long you've been here....your attitude is that of an ignorant noobie at best....a total tool at worst.
Just to make this crystal clear.....I do not eat crap from any school. I will be flexible when I see fit but I will not be bullied or coerced or pushed into doing anything I do not wish to do. I am not alone. The others in this thread are not little girls who need manly advice from an internet tough guy. They are doing just fine and not complaining. |
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