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MENA_chica
Joined: 28 Sep 2014 Posts: 82 Location: Middle East
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2015 11:28 am Post subject: My perspective: teaching and living in KSA |
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Hi all! I would like to give a summarised yet holistic profile of my experience as a newbie to Saudi Arabia. I feel as though this forum could benefit from a new and current perspective. I'm a black female British teacher in my early thirties, with 2 years' experience, a CELTA, BA and MA (both unrelated to TESOL). I've been in Riyadh for 2 months.
The Job
I work 8 hours a day, Sunday to Thursday at one of the universities in Riyadh, and teach for 4 academic hours a day (3 hours 20 minutes), back to back. There are between 25 to 30 female students in each of my 2 classes. The students range in age from 18 to 21, and they're the highlight of my day. They're chatty, inquisitive and generally cheerful. However, only a handful are really interested in learning English. A few can be disruptive from time-to-time, but overall, they're respectful and respond well to private feedback. The teachers are of many different nationalities and ethnicities, and are a delight to work with, and management are mostly supportive. I just get on with doing what I'm supposed to do, to the best of my ability, and I've had no issues.
Education Experts
I work for EdEx, and have encountered no issues. I was given a salary advance within my first week (upon request), received my iqama after 5 weeks, and both salaries were paid a few days before the end of the month. Each teacher is given individual log-in details to an admin portal, where you can request leave, see your accumulated vacation days, view, print and query pay statements etc. EdEx can be slow to respond to emails, so I've found the best way to get immediate answers is to go into their office on my way home from work. They do not respond well to shouting from teachers, and I've seen teachers in tears after being shouted back at. However, I've seen EdEx employees in shouting matches with each other, only to laugh it off after. Shouting appears to be part of their corporate culture. My strategy over the past 5 months (including 3 months in London) has been to respectfully request only things of utmost importance, and I've had zero issues.
Housing
I live in an apartment building which is owned by EdEx. There is a mix of both male and female teachers occupying the four floors. There are 5 permanent staff, including round-the-clock security. My apartment is quite basic in terms of structure and fittings, but comfortable. It has a bathroom, tiny kitchenette, small living room with 3 sofas and a flat screen TV, and a spacious bedroom with a king size bed. I've grown to love my space, and have stamped it with my own personal effects. I have freedom to come and go as I please. There are other apartment buildings which are privately rented by the company, ranging from basic to incredibly luxurious. A company bus takes us to a shopping mall at an allocated time, twice a week, and picks us up 3 hours later. A company bus also takes us to and from work daily from the apartment building.
Life outside work
I can honestly say that my work-life balance is great. In terms of leisure activities, there are scores of restaurants to fit every budget, ranging from basic to fine dining. There are shopping malls and souks galore, as well as a myriad of spas and salons. All of these I've been to alone, as well as with company. Every weekend, I go to western compounds (no invitation needed as an expat) for lunch, and every other weekend, a manicure and pedicure. I've also been to expat-only embassy functions as well as private invitation-only compound parties. I have 3 trusted taxi drivers that I use, who were referred by other teachers. All this, and I'm still able to save 70% of my salary.
I'm really enjoying living in Saudi Arabia. As a western non-Muslim woman, I feel comfortable wearing the abaya and head scarf. Yes, I'm sometimes ogled by men and stared at by women. Yes, the laid back approach to dealing with serious issues sometimes gets on my nerves. Yes, the stores and restaurants closing during prayer times can be an inconvenience. However, do all those things change the price of rice in China? No! 
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hash
Joined: 17 Dec 2014 Posts: 456 Location: Wadi Jinn
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2015 12:47 pm Post subject: Re: My perspective: teaching and living in KSA |
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MENA_chica wrote: |
Yes, I'm sometimes ogled by men and stared at by women. : |
Shoot - that ain't nuttin'. Same thing happens to me on a daily basis and I'm male, blond, blue-eyed with shimmering golden-hued skin.
I've always said: the best ESL teachers are "au fond" professional narcissistic clowns.
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lcanupp1964

Joined: 12 Dec 2009 Posts: 381
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2015 1:19 pm Post subject: |
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"I've always said: the best ESL teachers are "au fond" professional narcissistic clowns."
No wonder I'm such a great teacher!
I don't have the strength to fully comment on the main post by the "teacher" having a wonderful and soul-lifting experience with such a supportive company. I'm surprised there were no details about the oven-fresh muffins served daily in the teacher's longue. There must be a little "somethin'-somethin'" sprinkled in the muffins to keep teachers happy and gleeful enough that they feel like describing such basic things like getting paid on time and having the freedom to come and go as they please as real employee benefits.
Excuse me while I keep twisting my balloon into a poodle. And, no... That's not a euphemism. I'm a clown looking for my reflection, remember? |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2015 4:48 pm Post subject: |
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It is nice to hear that our OP is having a positive experience. She has been here asking questions, so she arrived with realistic/low expectations I expect. Two months is still the "honeymoon" period, and as time goes on - as in all jobs everywhere - the negatives may begin to loom larger.
Hopefully the good will continue to outweigh the bad. Keep us updated mena chica.
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jaffa
Joined: 25 Oct 2012 Posts: 403
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2015 5:10 pm Post subject: |
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3 sofas you say ... I'm in the wrong job. My two seater splits down the middle when I lie on it. |
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LPKSA
Joined: 02 Mar 2014 Posts: 211
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2015 5:19 pm Post subject: |
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veiledsentiments wrote: |
It is nice to hear that our OP is having a positive experience. She has been here asking questions, so she arrived with realistic/low expectations I expect. Two months is still the "honeymoon" period, and as time goes on - as in all jobs everywhere - the negatives may begin to loom larger.
Hopefully the good will continue to outweigh the bad. Keep us updated mena chica.
VS |
Advice for OP, the second someone here tries to make you feel as if you owe them something, bag them. Life is too short for drama with certain types here, trying to drag you into their nonsense. |
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MENA_chica
Joined: 28 Sep 2014 Posts: 82 Location: Middle East
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2015 7:56 pm Post subject: Re: My perspective: teaching and living in KSA |
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hash wrote: |
MENA_chica wrote: |
Yes, I'm sometimes ogled by men and stared at by women. : |
Shoot - that ain't nuttin'. Same thing happens to me on a daily basis and I'm male, blond, blue-eyed with shimmering white skin.
I've always said: the best ESL teachers are "au fond" professional narcissistic clowns. |
Lol What's narcissistic about stating that I'm ogled by men whilst obviously covered from head to toe in an abaya and head scarf? The point is, that it's a common occurrence experienced by many women, regardless of being a beauty or non-beauty. So please count me out of that "best ESL teacher" category in your head.
lcanupp1964 wrote: |
There must be a little "somethin'-somethin'" sprinkled in the muffins to keep teachers happy and gleeful enough that they feel like describing such basic things like getting paid on time and having the freedom to come and go as they please as real employee benefits. |
Icanupp1964, where/when did I speak of employee benefits? Has it not occurred to you that I mentioned getting paid on time by EdEx as it's a common concern of prospective EdEx teachers, and has been an issue in the past for current teachers? Additionally, believe it or not, I've been asked countless times about whether or not female teachers have the freedom to come and go as they please.
veiledsentiments wrote: |
It is nice to hear that our OP is having a positive experience. She has been here asking questions, so she arrived with realistic/low expectations I expect. Two months is still the "honeymoon" period, and as time goes on - as in all jobs everywhere - the negatives may begin to loom larger.
Hopefully the good will continue to outweigh the bad. Keep us updated mena chica.
VS |
Thanks VS, I do hope so too!
jaffa wrote: |
3 sofas you say ... I'm in the wrong job. My two seater splits down the middle when I lie on it. |
A two-seater! You must be a short man Jaffa!
LPKSA wrote: |
Advice for OP, the second someone here tries to make you feel as if you owe them something, bag them. Life is too short for drama with certain types here, trying to drag you into their nonsense. |
I hear you LPKSA! Thanks, I'll bear that in mind. |
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das31
Joined: 08 Jul 2013 Posts: 36
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2015 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks MENA_chica. Nice to read about your positive experience with EdEx, and details about your position.
What salary are you making with them? |
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MENA_chica
Joined: 28 Sep 2014 Posts: 82 Location: Middle East
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2015 11:38 pm Post subject: |
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das31 wrote: |
What salary are you making with them? |
You're most welcome. I'm on SAR 13,000 pm. |
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plumpy nut
Joined: 12 Mar 2011 Posts: 1652
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2015 5:36 am Post subject: Re: My perspective: teaching and living in KSA |
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MENA_chica wrote: |
I'm really enjoying living in Saudi Arabia. As a western non-Muslim woman, I feel comfortable wearing the abaya and head scarf. Yes, I'm sometimes ogled by men and stared at by women. Yes, the laid back approach to dealing with serious issues sometimes gets on my nerves. Yes, the stores and restaurants closing during prayer times can be an inconvenience. However, does all those things change the price of rice in China? No!  |
Perhaps the medication needs to be adjusted down some.  |
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MENA_chica
Joined: 28 Sep 2014 Posts: 82 Location: Middle East
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2015 8:40 am Post subject: Re: My perspective: teaching and living in KSA |
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plumpy nut wrote: |
Perhaps the medication needs to be adjusted down some.  |
L o L! On another poster's thread, you commented:
plumpy nut wrote: |
The culture here is very different and the students manipulative and willing to complain on a whim. Are you going to be able to handle wearing Saudi attire (head covered and a black cloth covering the rest of your body. Also the prayers which are five times a day, one at 3:30 in the morning, are enough to make people who don't need medication highly irritable. |
My "medication" is a self-prescribed double dose of an all-natural mental supplement called 24/7 Pure Good Vibes! Any adjustments will be in one direction: up!  |
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Hatcher
Joined: 20 Mar 2008 Posts: 602
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2015 10:21 am Post subject: |
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It is pretentious to call it teaching.... babysitting? much better |
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lcanupp1964

Joined: 12 Dec 2009 Posts: 381
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2015 12:06 pm Post subject: |
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I do have to apologize to the OP for one thing: I assumed that your were being a “positive troll” – a person who works for the company in a staffing role trying to make the company sound better as a recruitment tool. When I read some comments from one of the two ladies that posts countless postings that you were, in fact, a teacher new to KSA, I felt bad. I’m sorry. I really do wish you continuing contentment - with or without those oven-baked fresh muffins.
You have to know that EdEx has one of the - if not the single – worst reps in the Middle East. After reading hundreds of posts from many different people regarding how much EdEx sucks and then to read such a finely written and thoughtful posting on how great it is for you, well…
Taking a very small part of your experience (two months in a new country/culture) and using that as a comparison to base your remaining time over here is not very helpful to you, or the newbies I'm assuming you are trying to address regardless of the fact that I very much envy your energy and cheerful outlook. Yes, you have every right to write anything you want to on this site - your words and mine are just as equal. You are not wrong, because you’re not a smart, insightful person; You’re wrong because you don’t have enough time in KSA to really know what’s going on. I’m super happy that you are embracing your time/experience over here, but…
Commenting on the freedom of movement of western women in KSA and thinking that your take on it (again, after only two months) will help anybody make up their mind is the best example I can cite about how naive you really are. I hope you will keep being the bright, happy person you are right now, but I feel that this experience will change you. If a newbie is thinking of coming over to the Kingdom, but is scared to try the new experience, I doubt your words of limited wisdom will sway him/her into taking that leap of faith.
I would be extremely curious to read your last post before getting on that plane with your exit visa in hand. I know it will be a completely different take on your time here. That was the main point of my last post. I rarely comment on the comments of commentators commenting on my comments (huh?), but I just wanted to say that I mainly post comments for two reasons: One, to entertain myself (I find myself hilarious), and two, to help people reading these posts in the future as a way to help them make a more informed decision, especially regarding EdEx.
If you take my one post as the only method to shape an opinion about me without reading all of my other 360+ posts spanning over five years of living in KSA, you would understand better that I wasn’t slamming you - how can I? I don’t know you. I realize that I‘m being hypocritical right now by not reading all of your posts, but when I saw that you had 50 posts, I thought I could take the risk. If I was being critical of anything it was regarding the rarified situation at EdEx you were describing in such detail. Kind of hard to believe, but if you are that one exception, so be it.
This latest post was not written to convince you, or change your mind - I know that. Like most people, you will not “see” the positive notes I write, but only focus on the few negative things you may have perceived. That’s human nature. Again, I’m writing this for others.
I was attempting to show another side to all the people who might read this thread of posts in the future. Once you start your journey deeper down the rabbit hole, please tell others on this site. Please take care as you descend.
“Don't go changing to try and please me,
You never let me down before.
And don't imagine you're too familiar…”
- Billy Joel
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2015 1:10 pm Post subject: |
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For me, it was good to read a report from a Newbie who put a positive spin on her life in KSA. We get lots of the other kind of posts and I can't help feel that some of the negative posts reflect more on the poster than on KSA !
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MENA_chica
Joined: 28 Sep 2014 Posts: 82 Location: Middle East
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2015 4:50 pm Post subject: |
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Hatcher wrote: |
It is pretentious to call it teaching.... babysitting? much better |
Nah, babysitting Saudis is much more lucrative!
lcanupp1964 wrote: |
I do have to apologize to the OP for one thing: I assumed that your were being a “positive troll” – a person who works for the company in a staffing role trying to make the company sound better as a recruitment tool. |
Icanup1964, thank you for taking the time out to explain the reason behind your earlier stance. No apology was necessary, as we're all entitled to our own opinions and viewpoints, no matter how abrasive and dismissive. However, it's accepted and most appreciated.
lcanupp1964 wrote: |
You have to know that EdEx has one of the - if not the single – worst reps in the Middle East. After reading hundreds of posts from many different people regarding how much EdEx sucks and then to read such a finely written and thoughtful posting on how great it is for you, well… |
EdEx's poor reputation is probably justly deserved. However, after reading the entire Saudi and Middle Eastern forums on this site, it became abundantly clear to me that a lot of the rhetoric surrounding the company is recycled, where the same users cite the same bad experiences over and over, and many prospective EdEx candidates speak about the nightmare that is the recruitment process. My write-up seems a bit unfamiliar, particularly because there really aren't that many current or recent examples given by actual EdEx teachers on this site. I'll take you back to an earlier comment you made on a thread entitled "EdEx update":
lcanupp1964 wrote: |
You can get hired by a very bad company/school/university, but your contact person appears to be a good worker because he/she answers a few of your emails, so you think it's a good place to work for.
You can also have a bad experience with a contact person and feel that the place is not going to be a good experience and it turns out to be a great company/school/university to work for.
You just never know until you get over here. |
I followed your advice Icanupp1964 - I waited until I got over!
lcanupp1964 wrote: |
Taking a very small part of your experience (two months in a new country/culture) and using that as a comparison to base your remaining time over here is not very helpful to you, or the newbies I'm assuming you are trying to address regardless of the fact that I very much envy your energy and cheerful outlook. |
I wanted to give my perspective as a newbie to Saudi Arabia. I specifically waited 2 months, as from previous experience of living in other countries, I know that it takes me around that time to settle in and get a real feel for a place. I've travelled to over 25 countries and spent a year teaching English in the region, so I would like to think that I'm tuned in to my own cultural absorption levels. In addition, much of what I stated are hard facts, such as the physical description of my accommodation and the mention of the variety of things to do in Riyadh.
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Commenting on the freedom of movement of western women in KSA and thinking that your take on it (again, after only two months) will help anybody make up their mind is the best example I can cite about how naive you really are. |
Naive is an adjective that I certainly won't use to describe myself, or my original post. I commented on my own freedom of movement as a Western woman, going in and out of my employer-provided accommodation. I suspect that'll be a constant whether or not I'm here for another day, or another year.
lcanupp1964 wrote: |
I would be extremely curious to read your last post before getting on that plane with your exit visa in hand. I know it will be a completely different take on your time here. |
I sure hope it'll be different! After all, variety is the spice of life - it keeps things interesting.
lcanupp1964 wrote: |
If you take my one post as the only method to shape an opinion about me without reading all of my other 360+ posts spanning over five years of living in KSA, you would understand better that I wasn’t slamming you - how can I? |
I had already encountered your many posts throughout this forum before even posting on here. I can tell you that sarcasm doesn't suit you at all. I had already labelled you a serious, constructive and purposeful poster, so when I saw your initial post, I just shook my head and sucked my teeth L o L! It's all good, it can't always be peaches and cream, right?!
scot47 wrote: |
For me, it was good to read a report from a Newbie who put a positive spin on here life in KSA. We get lots of the other kind of posts and I can't help feel that some of the negative posts reflect more on the poster than on KSA ! |
Thank you Scot47, your last sentence is like the gospel! Hit...nail...head!  |
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