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guest of Japan



Joined: 28 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 6:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

PaulH, see her post on page 3 or the Western man Asian woman thread. She talks of her dating experiences with Western women. If indeed she is a Japanese woman and is being truthful then she is also a lesbian.

Your idea about one of her teachers to edit her posts is a pretty good possibility too.

Thanks for the info about the legal descrimination. It was both informative and disheartening.
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easyasabc



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 6:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

PAULH wrote:
What makes you think shes a lesbian GOJ?
I'm not GOJ but I also thought Lovechild may have been a lesbian because on another thread she/he mentioned having intimate relationships with Western women.

I think the writing looks either like that of a Japanese preson with good vocabulary and knowledge of slang but sub-par writing skills or of an English-speaking person who is pretty trashy or irrational.

Whoever or whatever he/she is I hope he/she lives up to his/her promise and doesn't post again because the posts were:
- trashy
- racist
- over generalised
- littered with grammatical errors (and they always annoy me)
- unrelated to the original topic



Hey - anybody having a great day???? I am! Very Happy
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Lovechild



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 6:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is definitely my last input. First of all PaulH you are the fool, you live here but think New Zealand is so great. New Zealand is a pathetic country. There is no money for politicians to embezzle! Second, New Zealand is filled with the low lives that gang raped my friend, a Japanese woman who went to New Zealand because she was under the false impression that it was a safe country.
I also know how people in New Zealand break into cars to steal stereos, rob people in their homes, and gang rape innocent young women.
I respect foreigners who come here to learn of Japanese culture and are respectful to our ways.
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PAULH



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 6:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lovechild wrote:
This is definitely my last input. First of all PaulH you are the fool, you live here but think New Zealand is so great. New Zealand is a pathetic country. There is no money for politicians to embezzle! Second, New Zealand is filled with the low lives that gang raped my friend, a Japanese woman who went to New Zealand because she was under the false impression that it was a safe country.
I also know how people in New Zealand break into cars to steal stereos, rob people in their homes, and gang rape innocent young women.
I respect foreigners who come here to learn of Japanese culture and are respectful to our ways.


Well obviously you have never seen lord of the Rings or the Last Samurai as that is the scenery I go home to every year. Not powerlines and vending machines and concreted beaches and rivers.

3.5 million people in a country the size of Japan. Actual laws banning nuclear weapons in its ports, while you have nuclear aircraft carriers in Yokohama.

Of course you wouldnt know what its like would you?

Respecting a culture doesnt mean you be obsequieous and fawning and ignore Japans bad points. thats what Japanese would like us to do. be apologists for the Japanese. thats what people like Dave spector and kent Derricott, Jeff Birkland etc on TV are for, telling the Japanese how wonderful there are on national television. Foreign mouthpieces for the locals.

While i forget, 9 Japanese youths including a Japanese school principal were arrested and charged last year in Auckland for beating to death a retarded Japanese boy. Parents sent him off to school in New Zealand to get rid of him, and he came back to Japan in a box, after being killed by other Japanese in New Zealand.

yeah, right.
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PAULH



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 7:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lovechild wrote:

I respect foreigners who come here to learn of Japanese culture and are respectful to our ways.


Lets see,

do you provide a return airfare home for each of your teachers after the contract is completed?
Do you provide pension and health insurance to your foreign employees, required by law?
Do you pay end of year bonuses?
Do you provide the minimum in paid holidays and time off?
Have you ever fired any of your foreign teachers because they disagreed with you?
Do any of your teachers have proper teaching qualifications other than a university degree?
Do you provide contracts that pay more than250,000 yen a month for a 40-hour work week?
Do you provide contracts longer than a year?
Do you provide paid training for your teachers or time off to get EFL certification?
Do you hire teachers because they can teach English or becuase they want to learn about foreign culture?
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PAULH



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 7:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lovechild wrote:

I also know how people in New Zealand break into cars to steal stereos, rob people in their homes, and gang rape innocent young women.
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You have Japanese people who break into houses in japan and steal as well. there are even TV programs with burglars explaining how they break locks and pick open locked doors, and how they search for bank books. Some even eat the food in the refridgerator before they leave.

Who steals all the bicycles from around the train stations? Certainly not Chinese students.

A guy called Wada from Waseda university just got ten years in Jail for organising frat parties and him and his mates gang rapped a university student by getting her drunk and forcibly assaulting her.

Not sure what that has to do with New Zealand crime though.
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PAULH



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 8:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Love Child, maybe you can give some of your girlfriends a job at your school

THE ZEIT GIST
Barely managing
The dream of working in an international environment can become a nightmare for Japanese women
By TONY MCNICOL
In a country with few real careers for women, a job in an energetic internationally-oriented service industry would surely be a dream come true for many.

Unfortunately, when that industry is Japan's language-learning industry, many school managers soon find that their dream job isn't quite what they imagined.

Sean, a 27-year-old English teacher, says that his unease about how his co-workers were being treated began even before he got on the plane to Japan.

"I remember that during the pre-departure training (the company) gave us some 'What you should do if. . .' scenarios. One of them was: 'What should you do if your manager suddenly starts crying?' "

Sean spent 3 years in Japan working for a major language school chain in the Kansai area.

"(The question) seemed bizarre at the time, especially when we were told the correct answer was 'Don't do anything. This happens all the time.' But after seeing the managers running around on the verge of a nervous breakdown half the time, I could see where that question was coming from."

Five years ago, GEOS, one of Japan's largest language school chains, was taken to court by 14 of its managers over unpaid overtime. At the time of the case, the main plaintiff said that she was working a 72-hour week under constant unmanageable pressure to increase sales at her school.

According to Katsuji Yamahara, the chair of a Kansai-based General Union, which represents many workers in the language-learning industry, little has changed.

Even though the managers won their suit, costing GEOS 300,000,000 yen in unpaid overtime, the media mostly ignored the case, says Yamahara.

And managers at GEOS and other major language school chains are still working impossibly long hours -- even for Japan.

One ex-GEOS manager from Tokyo says that by meeting her sales targets, she earned around 240 yen,000-250,000 a month. Yet, less capable managers, or those at smaller schools, would bring home much smaller pay packets.

Satisfying the financial demands of head office often meant long hours.

"When I had to stay the night at the school, I slept on a long chair in the lobby. I sometimes used a sleeping bag which a teacher had left when he returned home, or I just put on my jacket."

She says that managers were forced to penny pinching in often desperate attempts to meet their targets.

"I had to bring my own blankets especially in winter. I couldn't leave the heater on because it would affect the electricity fee. That means the manager would have to earn more money to cover this."

Another ex-GEOS manager of three years says that the average manager lasts around 6 months. "The pressure is incredible, perhaps that's why people quit . . . pressure to find students and make money."

She also alleges that during three months she spent working as a manager trainer at GEOS head office, around a third of managers who quit gave little or no notice at all. She believes that that was often to avoid being pressured by head office staff into staying.

Other staff and teachers report that managers who have worked at one school for months are routinely moved to another with notice of just a few days; in some cases, presumably, to cover for other managers who have left without warning.

GEOS declined to comment on the 1999 court case, amounts of overtime pay, or on how long managers stay with the company on average.

However, a spokeswoman for the company did say that GEOS, and the language learning industry as a whole, provides women with a rare opportunities to begin business careers.

She points out that 80-90 percent of GEOS's school managers and head office staff are women.

"Almost all GEOS's management staff are female. Some big companies have lots of female staff, but few female managers.

"In GEOS's case all the (Japanese) female staff have management responsibility."

GEOS also say that the wide ranging responsibilities of the job are good preparation for a further career within or outside the company.

"Being a manager isn't just working as a receptionist and greeting the customers, it's really the total management of the school. It seems like, if you can be a manager, you can do any kind of work."

But how many options do young women in Japan seeking a career really have?

The U.N.'s 2003 Human Development Report ranks Japan number 44 among the world's nations according to its "gender empowerment measure" (GEM).

The report looks at the number of female politicians, managers, professionals and the amount women earn compared to men.

Japan has dropped 6 places since 1999. Kenji Tominaga of the Cabinet Office's Gender Equality bureau says that Japan has made little progress in gender equality in the workplace compared to other developed nations.

Less than 10 percent of managers in Japanese companies are women, according the U.N. report, and women earn less than half as much as men.

Most women are stuck in low paying part time work.

"One thing is that it's difficult for women to keep working," says Tominaga. "Also, once they have children, there is no support to allow them to return to work. Even when women find work, they are expected to quit when they get married."

Yet, every year more young women return to Japan after travel or study abroad. The chance to use a little English, or even forge a business career, draws many towards the teaching industry.

The colossal advertising budgets of the main language school chains may help too. There's an almost inexhaustible supply of enthusiastic young women for the language school chains to tap, says Katsuji Yamahara of the General Union.

And without pressure from the media or the courts, there is little incentive for the companies to treat their staff any better than they do now.

"It doesn't matter how many managers quit, there will always be more."
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migo



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 8:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
THE ZEIT GIST


I have to wonder if that spelling was intentional for the article.
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PAULH



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 22, 2004 10:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

melirae wrote:
[color=indigo]OK- I'm about to change the direction of this conversation a little bit, but can I loosely assume that I may get groped on a train or walking down the street? And if I do, what are the consequences if I either smack/punch the guy or grope him back a little less gently than he groped me (I think this option might provide a little shock value and embarrassment or it may encourage the groper...).


Melirae

what you do in this situation (and many Japanese women will just pretend nothing is happening and ignore it) is if you feel some guy put his hand where it shouldnt be, is grab his hand as tight as you can, hold it above your head and yell "chikan" in a loud voice or "kore wa dare no te?" (Whose hand is this?). You can also hold onto his arm until the next station and contact the station master or platform attendants. Many women are now taking matters into their own hands (so to speak) and confronting their attackers. You better make sure you have the right guy though, as you can wreck his life and reputation if you make a false complaint.

In Osaka now you have women-only railway cars. I stepped into one the other day without realising and was the only guy in the car. I felt like I'd stepped into a ladies bathroom or changing rooms, even on a crowded railway car.
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hamel



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2004 7:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

boy, this is an esl discussion board?

Paul H, why not write a book instead of the volumes you are doing here and at the expense of a japanese woman poster?

it sounds like a morality issue is involved, and in japan it would be difficult to direct a sexual deviant to the local church. japan also has a very high suicide rate.

all countries have serious problems and people are the same where ever they are are from--people have needs too.
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cafebleu



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 24, 2004 3:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lovechild - how wonderful to read the opinions of such a strong, out of the
closet Japanese lesbian woman! I assume you are `out` in your business and daily life too - you are shining example to the Japanese who continue to deny that homosexuals exist! Well done!


May I recommend that you try to deliver your wonderful insights about `gaijin crime`, specifically your pet preoccupation with New Zealand criminals, on one of those many high standard chat shows we are so blessed to have here in Japan? I think you would fit right in, and given that any number of those shows feature male homosexuals so that the audience can laugh at them safely without having to confront the reality of gays in Japanese every day life, being a Japanese lesbian would be a major plus!

Your insight is really too good for this board! You need to progress to the higher level of the Japanese talk show where you will astonish them with your breadth of understanding and your lesbian status. Ganbatte ne!
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PAULH



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 24, 2004 4:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hamel wrote:
boy, this is an esl discussion board?

Paul H, why not write a book instead of the volumes you are doing here and at the expense of a japanese woman poster?

all countries have serious problems and people are the same where ever they are are from--people have needs too.


I simply enjoy watching people self-destruct. Give them enough rope and they hang themselves eventually.


You will notice I have never once mentioned her lesbianism or sexuality or used it as a club or a weapon of attack. I'm not mysogynist or lesbian-hater (one of my childhood and dearest friends back home is an out of the closet homosexual, for what its worth).

I simply use her own words to let her hang herself. Like I mentioned, some people are given free reign to criticise what goes on in other countries , but get all defensive when you talk abou what goes on in Japan. Japanese dont like foreigners telling them whats wrong with their country. (For the last 17 years its been my home, Im not a guest here so in a sense its my country too).
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cafebleu



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 24, 2004 6:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I should add for the info of hamel or anybody else, my post above Paul`s is meant to be ironic. As guest of Japan and others noted, Lovechild is in one post sounding like a man and then in another post adopting a female persona.

In which case, having spoken of international relationships and those with women on `her` business travels, logically means `she` is a lesbian. Which I don`t believe. I believe this poster is dumb, having forgotten that they had posted as both a man and a woman. So he or she is fair game for the responses they have received. If `she` is a Japanese lesbian fine -but I don`t think `she` intended to give this impression.

A dumb poster trying to be clever.
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Mike L.



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 24, 2004 8:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

LOVE CHILD:

Quote:
Second, New Zealand is filled with the low lives that gang raped my friend, a Japanese woman who went to New Zealand because she was under the false impression that it was a safe country.


Oh and this never happens in Japan? Do you rember the group of university students at a famous uni in Tokyo that were arrested last year for specializing in gang raping drunk female students!

They actually planned whole events for the purpose of gang raping these girls!

It happened do dozens of women!!


******

Also I don't believe you! I doubt you knew anyone who went o New Zealand and got raped!

Quote:
I respect foreigners who come here to learn of Japanese culture and are respectful to our ways.


Don't believe you here either you are troll! Not a Japanese one at that! That's why you are scurrying away!

DON'T COME BACK TROLL!
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Lynn



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PostPosted: Sat Aug 07, 2004 9:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I lived in Japan for four years. Am I the only one who has never seen a public wan ker?
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