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Non Sequitur
Joined: 23 May 2010 Posts: 4724 Location: China
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2018 8:06 am Post subject: |
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Good point.
One of the Joboffer Checklist items is to enquire whether all teaching is on the one campus?
Commute time is seldom paid time in my experience. |
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cdchristy
Joined: 15 Oct 2016 Posts: 34
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2018 9:03 am Post subject: |
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| NS, perhaps I was not clear. My friend draws a full-time salary from the university that provides his work visa. He simply earns money on the side by working at the Tourism college (with the ok from his FAO). As far as I know, the Tourism college only has one campus in the SE of Taiyuan. |
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Non Sequitur
Joined: 23 May 2010 Posts: 4724 Location: China
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Posted: Tue Mar 20, 2018 6:15 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah.
Was really making a wider point.
It's been a good thread and plenty of readership.
I guess I saw a 'teachable moment' to rebut those who disagree with my constant harping 'think package'.
It seems that in the harder to staff areas FAO types allow FTs more latititude on outside work.
Best
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Modernist
Joined: 03 Jan 2016 Posts: 72 Location: Routing
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2018 12:54 am Post subject: |
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| Is there anything postive to say about Taiyuan? |
No.
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| I mean its not like the town is unknown to tourists: there is plenty of stuff on Tripadvisor and similar platforms |
Yes, foreigners go through these places for one reason or another. That's a whole different kettle of fish from living there. I heard there was a really cool museum in Taiyuan about coal mining. That would be nice for one afternoon. Then, the next day...?
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| 2-3 people to know and have around me is plenty. |
To be perfectly honest, in China, even in Shanghai or Beijing you would be quite fortunate to have 2 or 3 good friends, foreign or Chinese. Many of us have no close friends here, except for significant others. That's the nature of expat life in this country. In Taiyuan you could expect to spend the vast majority of your time alone, unless you get a GF or BF. If you can find anyone who speaks enough English to manage that role, I mean.
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| i have also send you the address this doesnt seem to be too far off town ... |
It is. Maps and aerial photos are quite deceiving in China. It's far from anything, as usual with these sorts of campuses.
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| In regards to cycling: Does anybody have experiences with getting a motorbike license by any chance? |
Again: this is not Europe. You would likely use e bikes, not motorbikes, and the idea of a license is hilarious. Learn to use the horn, and always look twice first, and pray if you believe in God.
Just don't say you weren't warned if you ignore all the advice on this thread and take the job anyway. We are here and we are trying to tell you what's going to happen. If you just want to ignore it all, then... |
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teenoso
Joined: 18 Sep 2013 Posts: 365 Location: south china
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2018 1:12 am Post subject: |
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The focus on amenities and social life in Taiyuan is a long way second, imo, to how the employer will treat you. As Modernist says, your fellow FTs in the college, and the expats in the city, may not be friendly at all.
A bad employer can make your life hell. With a new outfit, you can't check with present teachers about how they are being treated, so it really is like a leap of faith.
On the question of the 'z' or 'x' visa, I believe it's now legal to teach on a 'x' study visa, maybe for a limited number of hours, but you would need to sign up (and pay?) for some kind of course ; have you asked the company about this ?
Maybe going there on an initial 6 month study trip (or even for 3 months), with guaranteed teaching hours and pay, is a good way to scout out the situation; but you need back-up funds if things go wrong. |
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cormac
Joined: 04 Nov 2008 Posts: 768 Location: Xi'an (XTU)
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Posted: Wed Mar 21, 2018 8:29 am Post subject: |
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| Modernist wrote: |
| To be perfectly honest, in China, even in Shanghai or Beijing you would be quite fortunate to have 2 or 3 good friends, foreign or Chinese. Many of us have no close friends here, except for significant others. That's the nature of expat life in this country. In Taiyuan you could expect to spend the vast majority of your time alone, unless you get a GF or BF. If you can find anyone who speaks enough English to manage that role, I mean. |
This is important. You really need an expat base for your first 1-2 years in a town/city. Chinese people take a while to get used to, and you'll need that time before you can distinguish between the Chinese who can be 'your' friends versus the mob of people who want to be your friend for retarded reasons. You'll want expats to help you get comfortable with the local environment, to get advice, and most importantly, to help you blow off steam. You'll often become frustrated in China, and it helps considerably to have people who have experienced it themselves.
But bear in mind, that many expats here have their own bubble established and won't be too bothered to make new friends. It's important to have a decent population of expats already there to work with.
Just be aware that most Chinese people you meet who want to be 'friends' won't be actual friends, and getting a GF without speaking a fair bit of Chinese is often difficult. Even in the 2nd tier cities, I've found that the numbers of women who speak decent English when I meet them first have dropped considerably. We (as teachers) seem to think it's easy to teach them to speak English if they're attractive enough, but that rarely works out.
In Xi'an (pop 8-9 mill), I have a close circle of 10 people (6 expats and each of the Chinese, I've known longer than 4 years), maybe 200 'familiar' acquaintances (but hardly friends), and another 1000 who appear when they want something from me.
Just be careful about bringing your perception of "friends" with you from your home country to here. It's a different setup from my country (Ireland), and takes some getting used to. Good fun but China can be a very lonely place even surrounded by millions of people.
A small place like whats described here will be difficult. You'll be popular for attention but the fun of that wears away rather quickly. Expect to be seeking refuge away from the peasants.  |
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getbehindthemule
Joined: 15 Oct 2015 Posts: 712 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 12:45 am Post subject: |
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+1
Couldnt agree more with the above. It takes a minimum of a couple of years for a Chinese colleague / person you know to become a real friend. I'm going into my 5th year in China and this would not have happened without:
1. I was lucky enough to find a handful of expats (non-teachers) in my first few months. A couple of these have since become true friends (which is a real rarity in life, let alone in China).
2. I was treated incredibly well in my first job (especially compared to some of the horror stories one reads on here).
3. Having access to western places to meet people to blow off steam. Even if I don't want to go to these places for months, just knowing that they are there is a big plus.
4. In my second year I met my soulmate (the last thing that I wanted was a Chinese GF at the time) which was a really big surprise!
Fair play to people who have the mental strength to live in backwater (excuse the expression) places here. I couldn't do it for more than a year I reckon! I feel now even after being married recently and having way more Chinese friends than before, I'd still find it very tough to live in a place like Taiyuan.
Edit: What Cormac eluded to above about 'expats being in their own bubble'. I find that I avoid certain bars due to this as it can make you feel even more lonely. The same people are often in fact very negative about China also. Lifers stuck here with failed businesses or failed marriages, or here not out of choice!
Beware of these soul destroying people!!  |
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Non Sequitur
Joined: 23 May 2010 Posts: 4724 Location: China
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 4:56 am Post subject: |
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I found that one genuine Chinese friend is worth 10 expats. Mine was female at an adjacent uni although she was never a formal GF.
We remain friends 14 years later. She is married and in a very successful career and has a school age child. She literally stopped me doing a midnight runner from my first school which was totally horrible. |
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theoriginalprankster
Joined: 19 Mar 2012 Posts: 895
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 8:29 am Post subject: |
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As an aside, I'm settling into Yangzhou (Tier 3 or 4 city) and I like it more than Shanghai and Hangzhou (Tier 1 and 2).
It's way more relaxed than both, it's not OTT wealthy so people seem more down to earth, friendly and approachable. There's only ONE foreigner bar (that I've found and been to so far).
And the most amazing thing - cars stop for people to cross at zebra crossings. Wawaweewa!
I think the smaller cities offer things that bigger, more developed cities don't. I found the overall vibe in SH and HZ to be cold and stand-offish, and the vibe in YZ and Xiamen to be friendlier.
Next step - get me some lady loving.. |
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cormac
Joined: 04 Nov 2008 Posts: 768 Location: Xi'an (XTU)
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 9:29 am Post subject: |
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I found that one genuine Chinese friend is worth 10 expats. Mine was female at an adjacent uni although she was never a formal GF.
We remain friends 14 years later. She is married and in a very successful career and has a school age child. She literally stopped me doing a midnight runner from my first school which was totally horrible. |
How many Chinese people did you sift through to find her though? It's like the needle in the haystack. There are wonderful people in China, but they're often hidden by all the dross.
I have a few friends from China who simply wonderful. Admittedly they're ex-gf/past lovers but I know I can trust them completely. However, after 7 years in Xi'an, I did realise that the vast majority of people I met weren't really interested in being my friend (although given a chance, they would pretend to be so). Perhaps it's different in other parts of China, or I met the wrong selection of Chinese people, although I suspect my experience is average (from conversations with other expats here over 5 years, most feel the same way) |
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Non Sequitur
Joined: 23 May 2010 Posts: 4724 Location: China
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 5:57 pm Post subject: |
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She found me.
About Week 2, I was sitting with a fellow FT in the foodcourt of a local mall crying into our wontons and Jessica leaned over from her booth and said: 'Hi can I talk to you?'
God works in mysterious ways..
If you have an ereader I'll send you the link to my memoir on my whole China exp. |
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cormac
Joined: 04 Nov 2008 Posts: 768 Location: Xi'an (XTU)
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 10:08 pm Post subject: |
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| memoir? Really? How long have you stayed in China? |
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Non Sequitur
Joined: 23 May 2010 Posts: 4724 Location: China
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2018 10:46 pm Post subject: |
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| My first gig was in 2004 and my last in 2010. The memoir was published in 2015. |
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getbehindthemule
Joined: 15 Oct 2015 Posts: 712 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Fri Mar 23, 2018 12:08 am Post subject: |
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| My first gig was in 2004 and my last in 2010. The memoir was published in 2015. |
Wow, you haven't lived in China since 2010, didn't realise that. How come you are so active on the China forums NS?
Where are you based now out of curiosity? |
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Non Sequitur
Joined: 23 May 2010 Posts: 4724 Location: China
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Posted: Fri Mar 23, 2018 12:26 am Post subject: |
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I'm at home in NZ (over Z age) but stay active writing for a major Chinese textbook publisher. I get back on Dave's periodically (probably too often) when I see something of interest. I'm on Skype to former students most weeks, largely getting their thoughts on topics for textbooks.
I largely follow Bud Powell whose thoughts mostly align with mine. He's not active currently - pity.
When I say 'memoir', actually a lot of it is classroom management stuff - marking/assessment and the like. |
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