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WE WANT MORE CHANCES TO SPEAK ENGLISH!
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Ace



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 07, 2004 11:30 am    Post subject: "A little knowledge..." Reply with quote

Have you noticed that the only times they really seem to want to chatter away in English, or have 'discussion' where they're not shy about giving their opinions, is when the topic's something they know nothing about? Like 'the West'...for example... oh, how well they think they know our culture...actually, I come from a pretty cosmopolitan place (Sydney) and I would say the Chinese, especially students of course, are the most uncultured people I've ever come across...(but they love bouncing those basketballs...)

A Muslim friend pays me compliments that bring tears to my eyes sometimes...he's a bit of a 'practising muslim' and he was stunned by my 'erudition' when he checked in a dictionary and found I was guessing the words he wanted correctly...like mosque, Imam ...actually I know little about Islam (I guess I'm just older...no, I come from a country with great public broadcasting (well, it used to be...) and great libraries and I have an enquiring mind...)
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sallyann



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 07, 2004 1:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

"Have you noticed that the only times they really seem to want to chatter away in English, or have 'discussion' where they're not shy about giving their opinions, is when the topic's something they know nothing about?"


Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!

Thanks Ace. You really summed it up. That's why it's so painful to listen to, and that's why I'd rather them do role plays, or analyse the lyrics of a song, or basically anything that doesn't involve me listening to their frighteningly ignorant, ill-informed "opinions".
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The Great Wall of Whiner



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 07, 2004 3:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sallyann wrote:




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TGWOW

What do you see? I don't understand your point.


"It's their dime, kiddo. Give them what they want.


Your adult students are paying for English education. It is their money. When you go to a restaurant and ask for a hamburger only to be brought a hot dog, I'm sure it would peave you off just a little.


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Aren't you completely contradicting yourself here? On one hand, you are saying that I should give the students what they want. On the other hand, you say that you teach kids because they do as you tell them.


I'm not contradicting myself in the least. You teach young adults. They know what they want. If my adult students want such-and-such, I give it to them. It is their dime. They are the customers.

I on the other hand teach kids. I don't answer to the kids. I answer to the parents. The parents, not the kids, are the customers.

Adult students and children are two different ball games.

Completely.



Big difference, chum.

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"Why do the classes have to be entertaining for YOU? Why do they have to be interesting for YOU?"

Because I want to enjoy my job. I'm sorry if that makes you angry.


I'm not angry in the least. You on the other hand seem to be getting a bit testy.

It's not easy to anger me.

You want to enjoy your job? Nothing wrong with that. Just pick a job that is more fun.

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Thanks for the responses from those who "got" what I was talking about.


I got what you were talking about. You want everything to go your way.

You are talking about what YOU want. Not what your adult students want. Only a selfish teacher who thinks of themselves does what THEY want.

You are providing a service. This is your job. Like working in any job back at home. Customers should come first.
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sallyann



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PostPosted: Tue Sep 07, 2004 10:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't have any adult students.

I work at a college. My students are 19 to 22 years old. None of them have any income of their own, so the fees are paid by their parents. Not all my students even want to be at college. Some of them are in the classroom against their will. They don't fit the usual definition of "customers".

I don't "want everything to go my way". If that was the case, I would just get on with doing it my way, and I wouldn't bother to come to this forum for advice.

"It's not easy to anger me. "

So what?
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Spiderman Too



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2004 12:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Back in October 2003, Sallyann started the thread 'Students Never Satisfied'
and she wrote;
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I've been asking my students what they'd like to do for the second half of this term. I don't have a text book and I'm getting desperate ....... They all want to "have a chance to speak more English" but when I organise discussion groups and provide them with a topic, they say the topic is too boring. So I tell them to choose their own topic ..... I'm not a teacher at home so I can't make any comparisons. Getting input from other foreign teachers really helps because sometimes I think this job is going to drain me of any confidence I might have had when I started. Your comments helped put it in perspective.

..... and she has also written;

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Try to relax and accept that everything won't always go the way you pictured it
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I decided from the start that I wouldn't worry about it, I just go in there with a relaxed attitude, play CD's, write simple exercises on the board, play hangman, etc.
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The students always tell you "English is very, very, important"
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At the beginning of this term, one of my classes at this college contained 64 students. Yesterday, the number of students in that class was 31. When I asked where the others were, I was told (after a lot of repeated questioning) they were "sleeping or at the internet bar".
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As far as I can see, the majority of my students won't get a chance to use the English they've learned. As we know, if you don't use a language regularly, your fluency will decrease quite quickly ..... there's simply no-one here for them to speak it to.
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I've taught in these places and it's a completely depressing experience. The best teacher in the world couldn't penetrate the apathy that these kids are soaked in.
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Gingermeggs, of course you are right when you say that we can't change the behaviour of Chinese people and we should be mature enough to accept it.


.... and finally;

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Aren't you completely contradicting yourself here?
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sallyann



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2004 2:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spiderman, thank you for going to the time and trouble of copying all my old posts! I was actually thinking about trying to find that old post but you've saved me the effort. It shows that the difficulties of teaching English in China are confronted again each year.

The quotes you have chosen illustrate my point perfectly. It's now made the point of my original post in this thread much more clear.

Not sure about why you've added the quote about GWOW contradicting himself, though. Whatever.

Thanks again!
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Spiderman Too



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2004 2:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are none so blind as those who will not see.
There are none so deaf as those who will not listen.
There are none so ignorant as those who will not learn.
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sallyann



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2004 3:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How is that relevant? Could you explain in your own words instead of just quoting all the time?
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Roger



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2004 4:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

IT's true that students keep contradicting themselves - it's thei8r Chinese "culture".
We are the exotics here, and they can't relate to us and how we are used to work/study/teach. They think, a teacher's job is to rehearse with them the questions AND the answers; they don't prepare the latter on their own.

Also, there are many built-in contradictions in this soc-called "education" system:

A native English teacher is supposed to know no Chinese;
Ha!
THat's convenient - so the students DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU, and thus are free to do what they like - which has little or nothing to do with practising English!

If you do know Chinese, you must provide translation for them - so the question arises: Why the hell do they "practise" oral English if they can't understand any English?

If you speak colloquial English, you will be told to return to "standard" English; if you speak standard English only they will complain it's too boring!

If you speak, they will complain you are speaking "too fast". If they speak you cannot complain that they speak too slowly, or a gibberish that you can't understand.

As for "adults" paying for their lessons: that's nonsense. Most adults go to English classes only if their employer foots the bill.
This is a regular phuck-up. The students don't care about English but they perceive a potential salary increase as a consequence of spending their time "studying" English.
But they are extremely fickle, often terribly opinionated, and lazy to boot. They don't want to write down any new vocabulary, they will constantly forget their materials, come late and their cellphones will interrupt your lesson.
Adult?
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struelle



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2004 9:00 am    Post subject: Re: "A little knowledge..." Reply with quote

The way I see it is that the students have loads of potential and can certainly learn to speak English. Most are motivated and can certainly be encouraged to speak, but a big part of the problem is knowing and clarifying that their learning goals are. If the students don't know, the management doesn't know, and the teacher has a vague idea, then there's a lot of running around in circles.

One way to make progress, and it is only a step in the right direction, is to elicit specific goals from the students and do a formal or informal needs analysis. A problem with this is contradictions, as Roger points out. Ironically enough, students may learn in a communitarian way, but when asked to brainstorm ideas, most can't agree. Still, some consensus is better than none, and this paves the way for teaching outcomes.

So if a student says, "I want more chances to speak" how can this be more specific? What questions can we ask them to get details?

Steve
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The Great Wall of Whiner



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2004 2:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sallyann wrote:

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I don't have any adult students.


Hmm...

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I work at a college. My students are 19 to 22 years old.


19 to 22 are not adults? What school did you go to that that taught you "19 to 20 year olds are not adults"?

They can vote.

They can drink.

They can marry.

Sorry, sillyann, er, sallyann, your cred-a-bil-aty is lagging on that statement alone.

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None of them have any income of their own, so the fees are paid by their parents.


So their parents want you to be entertained and have fun? Or they want their kids to learn English?

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Not all my students even want to be at college. Some of them are in the classroom against their will. They don't fit the usual definition of "customers".


Parent sends kid (actually adult son/daughter) to store to buy some milk. Son/daughter doesn't want to go, but has to go anyways.

The kid is not a customer?

Hmm...

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I don't "want everything to go my way". If that was the case, I would just get on with doing it my way, and I wouldn't bother to come to this forum for advice.


I gave you advice. Talk about what your students want to talk about.

Encourage them to speak English. Don't discourage them just because you are bored and are not having any fun.

Good teachers encourage. Bad teachers discourage.

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"It's not easy to anger me. "

So what?


You said I was getting angry.

I am not.
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sallyann



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 08, 2004 3:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

GWOW,

Get over it.
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AsiaTraveller



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 10, 2004 10:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Great Wall of Whiner wrote:

Talk about what your students want to talk about.

Encourage them to speak English. Don't discourage them just because you are bored and are not having any fun.

Good teachers encourage. Bad teachers discourage.



Great advice, GWOW. I only wish that some of the immature, untrained teachers who go to China would just listen to it and believe it.

Such teachers seem to think that they (and their own enjoyment) are the centre of the education process, and they whinge/whine when they are not.

They are always going to be discouraged -- and to 'discourage' their students in the process.
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 11, 2004 1:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

GWOW, I love you madly, and in no way do I want to challenge you or start a dispute. But I really must object to your statement that 19- to 22-year-old Chinese univesity students are adults.

I have observed repeatedly that most--not all, but most--Chinese university students have an emotional age of U.S. students about 4 to 5 years younger. They whine, pout, sulk, space out, and cling to their classmates much like Harry Harlow's maternally deprived rhesus monkeys. (Note: I am not calling them monkeys.)

Something happens upon graduation--perhaps it's the realities of the workplace--but a kind of maturity is suddenly thrust upon them. I wish I understood the process better; all I know is what I have repeatedly observed over the course of five years in China, which followed careers both as a teacher and as a psychotherapist.
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The Great Wall of Whiner



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 11, 2004 5:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sallyann wrote:
GWOW,

Get over it.


You are the original poster, sallyann. You solicited advice. I gave it. So did others.

That is one of the reasons for this board in the first place. To help others. Many people gave you different advice and comments.

You are a big girl now, sallyann. (I assume) You can pick and choose what advice you take and what advice you ignore.

Or, are you retracting your request for peoples' advice simply because you can't take constructive critisism?

Laodeng wrote:


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I have observed repeatedly that most--not all, but most--Chinese university students have an emotional age of U.S. students about 4 to 5 years younger. They whine, pout, sulk, space out, and cling to their classmates much like Harry Harlow's maternally deprived rhesus monkeys.


I have never taught Chinese University students, so I really don't know the rhymes or reasons behind this phenomena.

I could speculate that it might have something to do with the fact that they no longer have mommy or daddy to keep them in line.

I know that Canada, many Asian exchange students seem to go a bit wild once they get away from their parents.

This includes drinking binges, trying drugs, sexual activity, shop lifting, etc. I have always given people who are over 18 the b. of the doubt until they prove me wrong.

I wouldn't go so far as to say they are "children", but rather lacking the maturity they should have gained long ago. I have many theories as to why, but this is another topic for another thread.

Roger wrote:

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The students don't care about English but they perceive a potential salary increase as a consequence of spending their time "studying" English.
But they are extremely fickle, often terribly opinionated, and lazy to boot. They don't want to write down any new vocabulary, they will constantly forget their materials, come late and their cellphones will interrupt your lesson.
Adult?


Adult, yes.

Mature, questionable.

If I had students like that (if I was the boss), I would just throw them out and give them their money back.
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