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hamel
Joined: 03 May 2004 Posts: 95
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Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2004 5:14 pm Post subject: |
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i generally avoid religious topics in my classes as in a western public school--but koreans are very cool in that they tend to be very tolerant toward each other's religious point of view and don't freak out but have an intellectual curiosity about islam, buddhism, christianity, and others.
but there are aggressive folks here also. i got a kick out of a taxi driver passing out buddhist tracts in his cab and even a buddhist couple came into our home to explain their point of view. though tired of cult(extreme) church groups. often my students invite me to their churches too.
the japan vegetarian survey job is listed on daves.
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Ace
Joined: 16 Apr 2004 Posts: 358
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Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2004 6:13 pm Post subject: I just hate xtians... |
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Xmas is such a horrible time time in China...strangers and students back home don't wish me a happy xmas or send ecards...here in China, communist China, the local government invited me...only me mind you, no 'and partner...' to a f ucking xmas party in one of the classiest hotels in town...
My students tell me condescendingly that the Spring Festival in China is like xmas in 'the West' but xmas isn't celebrated in China...yii, that's one of the biggest lies of all! The xmas decorations are still in place at one of the 'coffee shops' a friend likes to go to...and insists on taking me to...
(Why is the coffee so awful in these places? Because the girls who f art around making it have never drunk it, obviously, and have no interest in doing so. Fabulously expensive but I'd rather have my '3 in 1' !!! as always, in China, appearances are everything, but it gives them another chance to say Western food is shit...)
To the Chinese, the only thing that is serious is money. In 'the West' we would be cautious about inviting a Muslim to celebrate xmas...or anyone we didn't know...but in China it doesn't matter.
This is the land of mauvais foi!
There are so many cult xtians or oldies around here teaching "Western culture' by having the kids sing songs like 'silent night, holy night' and 'away in a f ucking manger'...never even 'Rudolph the whatsit' or 'Jingle etc' that a lot of students do think that all 'Westerners' are xtians and xmas is an important part of 'Western culture', even if "xmas is not a religious festival..." (They are always quick to voice opinions on 'the West', aren't they...they know so much about it...) |
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ls650

Joined: 10 May 2003 Posts: 3484 Location: British Columbia
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Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2004 6:24 pm Post subject: |
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| Uh, Ace? Are you sure you're in the right job? You sounds like you have a serious case of burnout... maybe you should give TEFL a break for a while and go on vacation! |
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stillnosheep

Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 2068 Location: eslcafe
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Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2004 10:01 pm Post subject: |
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"Rudolf..." I always thought that was about the workers at BNFL (British Nuclear Fuels Limited).
Bye y'all.
sns
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AsiaTraveller
Joined: 24 May 2004 Posts: 908 Location: Singapore, Mumbai, Penang, Denpasar, Berkeley
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2004 12:47 am Post subject: |
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A (very) side note:
Let's not forget that the histories of modern linguistics and of EFL are intimately tied with missionaries.
Many of the earliest European and American linguists were missionaries whose job it was to translate the Bible into some of the world's less common languages. In turn, they also taught English (and other languages).
Many of the first written dictionaries and grammars of certain languages were the result of work by missionaries and their local acolytes.
A classic modern study of phonology was the result of the work of a distinguished misisonary-turned-linguist (Kenneth Pike), with whom I was privileged to study.
And the list goes on.
In fact, many of these early linguists were much more interested in studying and documenting the local language, culture and religion than in proselytizing for Christ. They were truly good and generous people. |
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GambateBingBangBOOM
Joined: 04 Nov 2003 Posts: 2021 Location: Japan
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2004 2:25 am Post subject: |
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| Uh, Ace? Are you sure you're in the right job? You sounds like you have a serious case of burnout... maybe you should give TEFL a break for a while and go on vacation! |
Naw. It sounds more like normal culture fatigue (aka culture shock, but that's a poor term). It goes in ebbs and flows like a sine wave over the course of a year and then recurrs the next year and the next etc, for many, many years, some years the arc is more pronounced (so bad feelings are worse, good feelings are better) than others. |
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James_T_Kirk

Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 357 Location: Ten Forward
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2004 4:01 am Post subject: |
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| The problem I have is that it is only the Christians who are arrogant enough to try to push their religion on others. How many times have I been approached by zombie eyed people with pamphlets, words of wisdom etc who thought I would have a better life if only... |
Well, I don't know if "arrogant" is the word I would have used, but, I tend to agree with your comment. Of course, Christians are just doing what their religion mandates: spreading the "word of the Lord". Since it is programmed into their heads to "save" as many others as possible, they are never going to stop pushing their religion on all of us non-believers. I was once annoyed by this, but now I accept that they are just being good and loyal Christians, and I for the most part respect that they are so passion about their beliefs...hell, who am I kidding, it still annoys me! At least I am making an attempt to be tolerant...
For what it is worth, I have a lot of great Christians friends. However, most Christians I avoid because they really piss me off with their close-mindedness. Christians are like the Borg of the Star Trek Universe, constantly trying to assimilate all of us into their collective. I would be more willing to listen if they opened their minds a bit and were more accepting of things like homosexuality, abortion rights for women, etc.
Cheers,
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Roger
Joined: 19 Jan 2003 Posts: 9138
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2004 4:04 am Post subject: |
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I can ermpathise with Ace even if he is prematurely burnt out about the Chinese' attitude to Christmas and similar Western festivities.
They have gone overboard here in a grand way!
These days, you have no right to privacy on your own "holy" days; those atheist communists take you for granted as their Christmas decoration. They have the impertinence of "invitingou to their big galas where they regale their own buddies, kids and all, and you are there to give it a degree of Christian legitimacy. If you are a little unlucky, you will have to wear one of those horrible red baize Santa dresses with hood and mumble "Merry Xmas, merry Xmas..."
Seriously, I consider this a big invasion in my privacy, considering how unwelcome Christian "idolatry" was just a few years up th to last century! I remember we were NOT allowed to share our CHristmas sentiments with our students. We were supposed to be clositered up during the event, and no time off was given.
But nowadays, the CHinese hold PARTIES, where they splurge and show off. What's particularly annoying is that they don't respect your right to say "no" to their "invitations". It so hrs ordered me to come to their events, well, one was a friend, not a boor; I had to let three of them down (my fault???), and you know what? They had the nerve to say "it's impolite to not accept my invitation..."
I also enjoyed a party with Chinese on Christmas in another year - but that was a personal invitation, and they entertained me graciously, at their expense, without abusing me as their foreign piece of prestige. |
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Roger
Joined: 19 Jan 2003 Posts: 9138
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2004 4:14 am Post subject: |
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The problem I have is that it is only the Christians who are arrogant enough to try to push their religion on others. How many times have I been approached by zombie eyed people with pamphlets, words of wisdom etc who thought I would have a better life if only...
The other religions don't do this that I know of unless someone has examples. Religion is a personal choice. Whenever someone comes a preachin' I have to wonder. How many other religions have pushed their way of thinking on others? For example on the indigenous of Latin America. Not much better than any cult. |
Sounds pretty biased to me! You probably haven't been around the world much. Other religiions push their own doctrine pretty hard too - albeit to their own followers. "Followers"? In most communities, they have no CHOICE. Have you ever been to Africa? What do African natives believe in? Is there a choice of creed among tribal Africans? If you claim that yes, you are naive or a liar.
Buddhism is not necessarily all that holy and inoffensive either. In TIbet, Lamas usually died an unnatural and early death due to succession struggles, and the lay people had to obey those monks and Lamas. Hinduism has its own inequities built in its system; they don't need to foist their religion on others except when others come to cohabit among them as the Muslims sometimes are guilty of - and then you have intercommunal strife.
Please, your anti-Christian zealotry is just as antagonistic as missionary zealots are!
I believe in the virtue of separation of religion and state, but I also believe religious doctrines help purify ethics.
Where there is total atheism - I don't really know any such place, but the commies of certain countries decreed they are justs that - there reigns a far worse intolerance: super-nationalism! |
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struelle
Joined: 16 May 2003 Posts: 2372 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2004 6:43 am Post subject: |
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| These days, you have no right to privacy on your own "holy" days; those atheist communists take you for granted as their Christmas decoration. |
This I also don't like, and I've had to scramble for ways to get out of attending these Christmas parties.
Last year I negotiated a deal where I'd still attend a Christmas Eve party but not wear any Santa outfits or put on any acts. It turned out to be quite fun, in the end. Many teachers gave gifts and cards and we ate sweets. Afterwards, they cranked up the Karaoke machine and we sang songs. This took place in the coffee room of the school.
There wasn't much 'Christmas feel' in the air, but the next day I went into downtown Shanghai and celebrated with expat friends.
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| But nowadays, the CHinese hold PARTIES, where they splurge and show off. What's particularly annoying is that they don't respect your right to say "no" to their "invitations". It so hrs ordered me to come to their events, well, one was a friend, not a boor; I had to let three of them down (my fault???), and you know what? They had the nerve to say "it's impolite to not accept my invitation..." |
The issue here, as I see it, is that the Chinese are trying to simulate a Christmas party or atmosphere based on what they PRESUME it to be. In other words, most have very little about how Christmas is celebrated in the West, in either a religious or secular domain. Their knowledge is based on stereotypes, however they are acquired, and they seek to create an environment where their stereotypes are reinforced.
It's almost as if to say, "It's too bad that you can't be with your family this Christmas, but we'll help you out and host a party so you won't be lonely. We know about Christmas (yeah right) so let us arrange everything."
The intentions are no doubt good, but the result is not.
Some ideas to solve the problem:
- Chinese hosts can ask us genuinely for information on how Christmas is celebrated and receive it with minimal bias or stereotype.
- They can give us time off to meet with other foreigners, or we can host Christmas parties and invite them!
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Ace
Joined: 16 Apr 2004 Posts: 358
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Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2004 3:50 pm Post subject: Ho ho ho... |
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Am I the only atheist here?
I could believe that.
(Nail some sense into them!) |
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nomadder

Joined: 15 Feb 2003 Posts: 709 Location: Somewherebetweenhereandthere
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Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2004 4:10 pm Post subject: |
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Nothing wrong with it Ace. People shouldn't be made to feel bad or wrong if they are not "good" Christians. Anyone can be good.
Yes Roger, separation of education and religion. I agree. In fact most if not all of what you said seems to support my views in a strange way. THanks.
PS
Been to about 50 countries in the last few years. And you? |
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zaneth
Joined: 31 Mar 2004 Posts: 545 Location: Between Russia and Germany
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Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2004 4:37 pm Post subject: |
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A high school friend of mine teaches in a religious institution in the states. She's not specifically required to adhere to their religion, (I imagine she's nominally protestant, I believe it's a catholic school) but there is a morals clause in her contract. This seems reasonable to me.
I know that a lot of Christians feel that ideas like "open-mindedness" and homosexuality, feminism, etc., are being forced down their throats. Christians in America don't seem to feel they're in the majority (even when they are).
It does seem strange to me when a christian thinks they might be telling me something new. |
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guest of Japan

Joined: 28 Feb 2003 Posts: 1601 Location: Japan
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Posted: Sat Sep 18, 2004 1:57 am Post subject: |
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The problem I have is that it is only the Christians who are arrogant enough to try to push their religion on others. How many times have I been approached by zombie eyed people with pamphlets, words of wisdom etc who thought I would have a better life if only...
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I am quite frequently approached by Buddhist sects in Japan with pamphlets written in English.
Japan has many divergent Buddhist groups which actively try to spread their faith. They are also heavily intertwined with political parties. The most glaring example is Soka Gakkai which is synonymous with the Komeito politcal party which is the number three party in Japan.
I'm in agreement with Roger. The world is dirty and mirky. Every religion and anti-religion have resemblances to the Christian faith. Chistianity is not alone in its efforts to spread, guide, control and plunder.
Another poster made mention of Japanese dropping their Christian faith as soon as it became an inconvenience. If that were the case thousand upon thousands of Christians wouldn't have died in the Christian purges carried out during the early Tokugawa reigns. Those who died sacrificed their lives for faith. Renouncing Christianity was all that was asked of them, but they did not abandon their faith even when faced with the ultimate inconvenience.
Christians, Muslims, Hindus, etc. of all nations still hold onto customs and rituals which predate the newer beliefs. To survive the major religions absorbed these customs into the beliefs system. I don't recall the Bible saying anything about slaughtering a tree and draping colorful junk about it. Why should the Japanese be forced to stop visits to temples and shrines which are more about cultural identity than religious worship?
In the guise of concern for cultural sensitivity many previous posters have shown the naivity responsible for the cultural insensitivity they berate. Nobody gets upset by a Montessori school asking for teachers trained in the Montessori Method, so why is a Christian school supposed to accept teachers who are not Christian?
On a final note on the Japanese, yes, the Japanese do usually expect that I am a Christian. When I tell them I am not they are often pleasantly surprised. Many questions usually follow, but I am never made to feel that I have somehow disturbed their preconceived notions. |
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