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A.K.A.T.D.N.
Joined: 12 Jun 2004 Posts: 170
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Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2004 7:24 am Post subject: The More Benign Aspects |
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How many think you're in favor of Taiwan here? I think I've found it too cutthroat here, confusing. Without laws to really protect yourself, I think that many are just kind of kidding themselves about the better aspects of Taiwan verses the money. But I don't want to talk about this.
I'd like to say that Taipei made me feel a little uplifted. I liked the few sweltering summer months with airconditioned restaurants, transit systems. But there's something about the place that makes me a little concerned.
This is the thought that laws exist here but which aren't really laws. Perhaps it's the country's need to survive. Survival matters most, despite laws. I see this as benign but also dangerous.
I say it's dangerous because anyone can use an excuse for survival to cheat and defraud their fellow man. That's why we called the American frontier 'The Wild West', and gangsters, "gangsters." Criminals and white collor workers can then use this as a leverage to stake their claim and make abuses, much to the angst of the long arm of the law, to accomplish their own ends.
Since most Chinese have seen survival, and money, as the ultimate of ends, I can't really feel the more benign aspects of their culture they so want me to obey by signing every jot and tittle. |
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logician
Joined: 15 Jan 2004 Posts: 70
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Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2004 11:49 am Post subject: Re: The More Benign Aspects |
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A.K.A.T.D.N. wrote: |
This is the thought that laws exist here but which aren't really laws. Perhaps it's the country's need to survive. Survival matters most, despite laws. I see this as benign but also dangerous.
I say it's dangerous because anyone can use an excuse for survival to cheat and defraud their fellow man. That's why we called the American frontier 'The Wild West', and gangsters, "gangsters." Criminals and white collor workers can then use this as a leverage to stake their claim and make abuses, much to the angst of the long arm of the law, to accomplish their own ends.
Since most Chinese have seen survival, and money, as the ultimate of ends, I can't really feel the more benign aspects of their culture they so want me to obey by signing every jot and tittle. |
"This is the thought that laws exist here but which aren't really laws."
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"Criminals and white collor workers can then use this as a leverage to stake their claim and make abuses, much to the angst of the long arm of the law, to accomplish their own ends."
:shock
I find your word choice and grammar patterns quite confusing. I feel I don't fully understand what you're trying to communicate.
I think Taiwanese people are very, very competitive when it comes to money making, but they all seem to have a strange sense of merchants' ethics which I don't quite understand. I feel some of my employers have been unsatisfactory to me, but I was probably unsatisfactory to them, and until I understand the code of the Taiwan money-earner, I won't figure it out.
When Taiwanese people are not earning money, they can be a little intense. They will want to invite you out to eat. I feel quite pressured to accept hospitality and network with them, and I feel sheepish when I keep telling them, "I don't want to refuse, but I don't know if I can help you with your business." In other words, I feel like they want me to be part of their business network and I'm not a very connected businessperson.
Outside of the business realm, Taiwanese people are incredibly friendly, apparently with no strings attached. Small children dance down the streets, bubbling with joy. When I stop my scooter and look at my map, total strangers pull up next to me and tell me that they will guide me to my destination.
Taiwan is a little different, but not *that* different. Earn a little money, learn a little Mandarin, reflect that there is more prosperity here than in America.
I've had the experience of being cheated by employers in America. It's not any more fun when your own countrymen are defrauding you of your wages. Taiwanese employers in my experience are not as bad as the worst American employers. The gangsters haven't bothered me yet, so I guess I'm not bothering them.
In the end, America itself wasn't all that welcoming to me. I worked hard to get a job, and then I lost it. I had to burn through my savings just to keep a roof over my head. Here in Taiwan, I can study a little, work a little, have food to eat and a place to sleep without spending too much ... what more would they have to do to make me feel welcome?
If I could actually speak the darn language, I would socialize a lot more, but I make an attempt to talk every day and eventually I will say something comprehensible. |
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