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Granada Girl
Joined: 25 Oct 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Guizhou, China
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 1:40 pm Post subject: corporal punishment |
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Hey! any tips on how to handle corporal punishment? |
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 1:58 pm Post subject: |
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Hmmm, any more information here? Are we talking babies or senior citizens or something in between. Where are you?
This has to be one of the vaguest posts I've ever seen, congratulations.
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Magoo
Joined: 31 Oct 2003 Posts: 651 Location: Wuhan, China
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 2:01 pm Post subject: |
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And do you mean administering it or seeing others do so? |
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culfy
Joined: 17 May 2004 Posts: 41
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 2:13 pm Post subject: |
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Magoo wrote: |
And do you mean administering it or seeing others do so? |
Or even being on the receiving end of it?
(I've seen Secretary!) |
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Granada Girl
Joined: 25 Oct 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Guizhou, China
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 2:17 pm Post subject: |
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basically, there's a good chance I'll be heading Asia with the Peace Corp in a few months. They want to know how I'd handle working in a school system where corporal punishment is the norm. I truly don't think I'd handle it well if I had to witness it, never mind participate! |
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Chris_Crossley

Joined: 26 Jun 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Still in the centre of Furnace City, PRC, after eight years!!!
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 2:24 pm Post subject: Re: corporal punishment |
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Granada Girl wrote: |
Hey! any tips on how to handle corporal punishment? |
Be careful! Although you don't provide us with any contextualisation or background to your question, I would be extremely careful about corporal punishment. I know that there are some cultures in the world where corporal punishment is still practised by teachers on young children and approved of by parents, yet, being a Westerner, I think that we Western types ought not to fall into the trap of "doing what the Romans do" in this case.
One of the things about working abroad is learning about how people do things, but that does not mean that we should do exactly as they do. If, where you were back home, corporal punishment was banned, then you should not engage in this practice yourself wherever you are. Given your somewhat vague question, though, it is probably the case that you don't, anyway.
Although this is pure speculation on my part, it is more likely that you know that corporal punishment is being practised where you are now and that you really feel uncomfortable about others inflicting it on those whom they think deserve to be punished this way, am I right?
Are you actually being "encouraged" to punish your students in the same way? If so, you should do what you think is right. If it were me, I would refuse absolutely. They can't force you to punish someone this way, even though the local teachers might look down on you for it and convince themselves that you only want to do things your way according to your Western principles.
Whatever those principles are, one should always stick to them, and not change them for the sake of complying with others' whims, unless, of course, one is convinced that those principles need changing in the first place. |
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Granada Girl
Joined: 25 Oct 2004 Posts: 40 Location: Guizhou, China
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 2:30 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks Chris! I appreciate you taking the time to reply. That's exactly what I needed to hear! |
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Chris_Crossley

Joined: 26 Jun 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Still in the centre of Furnace City, PRC, after eight years!!!
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 2:32 pm Post subject: Never even mentioned corporal punishment! |
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Granada Girl wrote: |
basically, there's a good chance I'll be heading Asia with the Peace Corp in a few months. They want to know how I'd handle working in a school system where corporal punishment is the norm. I truly don't think I'd handle it well if I had to witness it, never mind participate! |
I've just read your previous quote (I was working on my previous post when you posted yours!). I am happy to know that you are not in this situation now, but I hope that you will consider very carefully the points I have made.
It seems rather strange that the Peace Corps would want to make you think about corporal punishment. I have never had to face such a situation in my life, whether theoretical or actual. I presently teach in a public primary school in China, and, as far as I know, nobody has ever mentioned corporal punishment, never mind practised it, in the time that I have been there. It is extremely rare for children to be so troublesome that they deserve to be thrashed. (It's just such a pity that the same thing can't be said for troublemakers of a similar age back home....)
As for other countries, I would have to let other people have their say, as China is the only Asian country I've taught in, and I've been here for nearly three years. Whatever your experiences when you go to Asia, Granada Girl, the best advice I can give is to relish the chance to live and work in another country, enjoy your work, relax and have fun. Go in with an open mind, and I'm sure you'll have the experience of a lifetime.
Good luck. |
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 2:59 pm Post subject: |
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Good post Chris. I agree with you 100%
I experienced it many years ago in Korea. One Korean teacher (maybe 20 years old) would regularly thrash the little kids if they were out of line with a stick. Their arms were all bruised. One day I stopped her by grabbing the stick and telling her if I ever saw her do that again... She could imagine what would happen. Never heard her ever beat a kid again.
You have your principles, stick to them, they are what get us through in life. |
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Atlas

Joined: 09 Jun 2003 Posts: 662 Location: By-the-Sea PRC
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 3:14 pm Post subject: |
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Don't teach in that kind of school. If the students can't handle being in school, find a school where they can. You're job is to teach, not to domesticate them. That's their parents' responsibility, and if they didn't get it from home they won't change for you. You will find a need for that punishment on a daily basis. More misbehavior, not less.
Also it is more humiliating for the teacher I think.
You are better off in an expensive 40 hr/wk language mill where the students don't throw their money down the drain by f*king around needing paddlings. You'll go home in a better state of mind, energized not drained, yes even at 40 hours.
Tell that school that you are a teacher not a rodeo clown. discipline problems should be handled by the administration, not the teacher. The system should address it effectively, but it sounds to me like they leave you in the classroom to drown with no backup, and not enough motivation for the students to participate.
Last year I taught at a school where one swift action against the first teenage perp might have saved me a year of headaches. (I was very much of the "instant karma" school of diplomacy). But instead I kept my own counsel, kept my mitts to myself even when shoved and goaded, taught for a year of hell, and never went back. (Had we been studying Aikido and not English, the lesson would have been...simpler. But that wasn't my role and I refused to accept it).
So maybe you are talking about tykes but I thought I'd throw in 2 cents about teens.
I wish you peace and happiness, and a classroom of students who are achieving goals, not being babysat! |
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Ben Round de Bloc
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1946
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 3:51 pm Post subject: Re: corporal punishment |
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Chris_Crossley wrote: |
I know that there are some cultures in the world where corporal punishment is still practised by teachers on young children and approved of by parents, yet, being a Westerner, I think that we Western types ought not to fall into the trap of "doing what the Romans do" in this case. |
What's with the Westerner and Western types thing here? I taught in several public schools in the USA where corporal punishment was used as a standard disciplinary measure. As for "doing what the Romans do," even though the Romans were my own countrymen in those cases, I do not believe in corporal punishment and never used it. I also made my views clear to administrators in those schools and refused to act as a witness to that type of punishment. |
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 8:55 pm Post subject: |
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In 14 months I have never seen any corporal punishment administered here in China.
In Australia, when my youngest Son attending Boarding School a few years ago, he was always getting "the cane".
I think it has now been outlawed in Australia also. I am against it personally, although I think if I had to face a classroom of Australian teenagers, I might wish to kill a few. Chinese teenagers are much more polite - or perhaps it is just that I cannot understand what they are saying about me!!!! |
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lajzar
Joined: 09 Feb 2003 Posts: 647 Location: Saitama-ken, Japan
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Posted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 9:29 pm Post subject: |
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On a similar point, how ok is it to shout harshly at students? These are 12-16 year olds at a private boarding school in my case. |
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Roger
Joined: 19 Jan 2003 Posts: 9138
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Posted: Thu Oct 28, 2004 5:06 am Post subject: |
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Corporeal punishment is still practised in parts of China, although it's clearly beating a path out of this land. Rural parts, however, are even more conservative than urban parts are.
In cities, adults have a lot more money, and they lord it over those who come withing touching distance of their kids. Teachers must be careful! The worst behaved kids - and these are quite numerous these days! - have the most vociferous parents. You will no doubt have certain difficulties with both the kid(s) and their parents or the school administration who will under no circumstances be seen to be pandering to a laowai's sensitivities!
However, I have never heard of a foreign nationals actually striking a Chinese kid; it would certainly be disastrous. Chinese teachers take more liberties, but at their own risk too! Recently, some teacher had to apologise to his student for hitting him, then was fired...
Then again, some teachers get awaywith doing a lot more harm to their students. They often take revenge, simple and plain. This is nasty, and counterproductive. |
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Boy Wonder

Joined: 29 Mar 2004 Posts: 453 Location: Clacton on sea
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Posted: Thu Oct 28, 2004 2:01 pm Post subject: |
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Corporal Punishment........Yes please but only if administered by a very s.e.x.y and buxom dominatrix. |
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